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Does True Love Still Exist Nowadays?

The concept of true love is what we search for all our lives. What people really want more than anything else is to be loved unconditionally, to be accepted for who we are, and still be loved. Today's world is a materialistic world

where love does not carry much significance compared to gifts and money. in these days and times does anyone believe true love still exists?

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True love is not about feelings or sensations. These abound in people, but do not actually last. True love is about commitment and sticking together through good and bad times. It is exactly like in those wedding vows we give. Love lasts through thick and thin times, in good and in bad health, in riches or in poverty. Yes, it is still around, but it is more of a decision and commitment, than of feeling.

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It does exist,there are people that truely love eachother,that you don't belive it doesn't take anything away from the fact that does exist ofcourse if you don't believe its out there there is no reason for you to have it.

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the human concept of love is a manifestation of denial. Love truly is mostly symbiosis- somethings are being gained by both parties physically, psychologically etc. It's something we cant explain, an addiction, a high that we become addicted to, a 'neurochemical event', no different from taking antidepressants. Dont get me, wrong, i believe in love but i think we have all been exposed to too many westerns while growing and we are stretching it to far,

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I am well ho, please ignore what people say on there they are just jealous

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yes.if you see one you will know it.

visit sites like www. perfectsdate.blogspot.com such site will really help and strengthen your dating life.

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you'll find true love when you look for the truth

for ye shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free,

in the selfish world we live in we all tend to lookout for ourselves alone,

but its imperative that we enter into relationship with an open and honest

heart, seeking the good in others rather than looking for what we can gain

lets look for what we can give, and if two partners can see love from this angle

then they'll experience true love.

if i could find it then anybody can,

you'll have to be ready when it comes, you'll feel it from a distance.

when i first met my angel, i knew she had everything i wanted, but her level of

sophistication wasn't what i really wanted, but then i realised that she was a diamond in the rough

and together we have made each other what we want ourselves to be.

a dishonest person will never find true love, quote me anywhere.

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True love exist but only in the hearts of d few, finding them is like going through the eyes of a needle,but when u do, it's like open heaven

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it is nothing. Just thought I would ask her that because no matter what I say she still says true love does not exist.

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well am the poster not sweetpie, by the way what is it with you and her?

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was that question for me or someone else?

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Then what do you think holds a couple together for 50 or 60 years in a marriage?

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Of course theres true love, had as it may be to find, its definitely out there.

source: current experience

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i wish i could disagree

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All "Love" is based on RECEIVING something in return, which subsequently makes it Not Love.

We all wanna be loved unconditionally, But it is Humanly impossible. True love is 100 percent acceptance.I dont think in this world today you can find that word,amongst couples.

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true,but u need 2 find dat special luv which family doesnt have

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All I can tell you is that when it is right and when it fits if feels like heaven.

I can only tell you that i kissed a few frogs to find my prince.

I can also tell you that I married the first time for all the wrong reasons and stayed for all the wrong reasons.  That I loved him but was never in love with him.

I can also tell you that the first person I was in love with was a fraud and after 2 years the real him started to peek thru because he tried to change him to fit me and it was too hard to maintain.  But that does not negate the fact that I was in love with the person I thought him to be and for the first time I knew what that feeling was.

and I can tell you that I am that same person and refuse to change who I am, so my man has to accept me, worts and all and love me inspite/despite my flaws.

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See I dont believe that change is necessary when true love exists.

I see it as two people that come together that compliment each other, not complete each other and no need for change because you fit him and he fits you.

Hubby and I did not have to change.  

I grew and learned new things, like how to cook his fav. home meals and he learned how openly and honestly communicate with his woman.

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how many pple will one walk away from?

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The only way you can find true love is that when you are contented with what you're having and if both are willing to change for each other to suite each other's needs, thats how u can be contented and from this, thats how you have true love.

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not if you take your time

properly vet the person first

and dont try to "make" it fit.

Please need to learn to walk away.  If it is not right now it wont be right after marriage.

In God's due time all things are reviled.  Wait for him he knows when it is time.

Sometimes women let the sound of the clock ticking force them into something that is not right and make them stay when they should go.

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true love is becoming a fantasy

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Yes I believe in its existance.

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there is nothing like true love now, that was doing our ancestor time

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There's Nuffin like True or Fake love. . . . .Love is love and rare to find!!

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There's notting called true love especially in nigeria where we live,we only know what it means but we cant make it happen

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So rare that it almost doesnt exist. And that's in foreign countries. There is no love in Nigeria, how much more true love

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I very much believe in it's existence.

But as I always say, there's two types of love. There is the type that you should have for everyone, regardless of their color, beliefs, and how they feel towards you. This love I call one love. It is the number one fruit of the spirit in the bible and many other religions talk about it.

Then there is the second type of love, it should be given to only one person.

To deserve and get the second type, you need the first one.

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Agree with that. It feels more natural and best when we least expect it and it comes/happen to us.

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Maybe we're doing it wrong. Maybe we shouldn't search for true love, maybe it will always come to us if we deserve it.

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I believe it does but very very very rare, the one that endures during worst times.

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