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Does Where You Meet A Girl Really Matter?

Please does where you meet a girl really matters.

I meet my recently girl friend in a bar and she happens to be the Bartender.

And we fell in love with each other.

Am still Thinking as much as having these girl.

I know having her is the best thing i ever wanted.

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i would not date an armed robber but would date a guy even knowing he was once an armed robber. going clubbing is not an automatic stupidness.

there is something called choice, this i know for real

my guys go clubbing and i see notting wrong with them

man need 2 get romance and fun jare

still personally i would date a man regardless of where we met

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@ poster

if i meet him in Iraqi lol

i dont think it matters

personally i would not even date a guy dat like indoor

always indoor like a prisoner get me stressed a bit of party it more lyk it

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If both of you like clubbing ,,,thats good.

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it matas alot why cant u ppl just see reasons wit me, @ guys wud u love ur girls 2 be club freaks or hang out wher u deeply dont fancy dem hangin out, please stop decieving urselfs

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There is nothing wrong with were you meet your partner, it all depends on the type of person you believe you need that makes you think you met the person in the wrong place. By the way if you wont want to marry someone you met in a club, then what took you to the club also. By the way "every lady you think is bad or way ward is a victim of another mans misuse"

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Origina9ja den e clear say u go go carry armed robber,

have u notice dat club girls eyes dey tear, notin gud comes from dem

they share STD and virus free of charge

throw Billin 2 guys witot lookin back and are quick and

gud at gettin it, the only tin u get from dem is gud sex notin more

date one and let me know ur xperience, even club guys

girls tryin datin dem den let me know what u get

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what i mean is that sum girls are real clubsters,they are everywher, lookin 4 guys 2 take dem clubbin they are everywher, in NLAND,even this thread defendin their Guilt mind dat club girls are ok to date, they know themselves, i dont go clubin and if its more like a birthday or grad bash its ok but clubbin no way, u shud knw beta wen u meet someone who just came 2 the club dat day4 jst a drink and someone who actually knows all the names of the club staffs even up 2 the cleaner,

@ JamaicanQT

U have said it all,

It makes no sense datin a club freak cos thats how her and ur children would be bred up

that is if u aint infectin wit some stds, b careful anywher u are na GOD DEY SAVE PERSON

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Let's say if I met him at the nail store, doing his nails, I won't be dating him

Or at the hair saloon getting his hair permed, no no no no!!!

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How would you know about someone going clubbing 24/7 unless you are in the same club 24/7 as well

Use common sense

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@ a moule preety gud

ok but inside club or cemetry or river bank(4rm 12am) not a good idea,

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Please ask them

The same clubbers they look down upon are the same ones that pop up in church the next day so i dont know why they are whining

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@ gamie

suit urself too

@ poster

please dont go near a club

and attempt to have a serious

relationship wit any1 there

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Mr Man,

Suit yourself

@Topic

Yeah,

You can meet Good people almost everywhere

likewise, the Bad.

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@ Gamine

shut up ur soakaway mouth there too

cos u go clubin 4 a livin does that make u defend clubbin

u want 2 have fun den why not get a beta Job

be there Club girl, its a pity that we cant really investigate who

u really are.please mind ur busines and stay on ur own, i dont go clubbin

i hate it wit a passion but i have guys who go there just 2 get girls like u

so i kick against the idea.dnt bother replyin i dont have time respondin 2 ya post

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@poster

as u lay ur bed so u lie on it, gd luck buddie.its a game of chance.

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Shut up dia jo.

What are You Yourself, looking for in the Club

but you Are the only Responsible person that can be found in a Club.

im not an advocate for clubbing, i dont go clubbing, i have never gone sef

What were you looking for at the River bank by 12, yourself

This dude, dont be unreasonable

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ok answer these people

meet ur girl at the middle of a forest and tell me it dosent matter

or under the bridge or at the bank of a river by 12am and tell me

it dosent matter wher u find someone, listen if u are datin a girl u met at

a club den i am really sorry for u cos u are datin more dan an OKPO, wher u meet some1 matas,

i prefer meetin a girl on the strit dan on clubs and oda gatherins wher ppl shw their Iresponsibilty,

I pity thoes of u dat say it dosent mata,

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Sure,

But you can only meet someone, where you Yourself go to.

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Every human being has his/her pre-judgments. It is a normal thing.

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@ Topic

It shouldnt but then, the mind is always quick to judge.

Example

1. Club - Shes prolly irresponsible

2. Bank - Shes prolly rich

3. Market - Shes prolly homely

4. Bus station/Train ststion - Shes employed

e.t.c.

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You know I've never met anyone at the club. I guess because i just don't like the idea of meeting at a club.

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Mr Josh, im ok

i dont quite agree with you tho,

One can find a good lady in the Club, hard but possible, also on the street.

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how are u young lady?  that is what they call oturugbeke. it is sad how people expect some good lady from the street or night clubs

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Birds of the same feather flock together.

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dem say foolish man plant mango for main road  another man pluck am

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Now we can see the kind of person you are.

and the type of people you meet

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where u meet ur gurl matters a lot.most of d girls i picked on d streets,i end up gettin down wit dm on d bed on just a fone call.at least 2 of such in a wk.

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Wi did u omit nairaland!

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Nothing wrong in meeting anyone, anywhere

ISnt it the person that matters??

abi no be witch pesin meet for church??

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You may want to read the latest News 'bout Nairaland(ers).

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-191001.0.html

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Theres nothing wrong with Easybaby marrying someone off NL or the web!

I mean we are human (well some of us) at the end of the day.

All this stigma associated with the web and clubs need to stop.

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For me? Nah not really. So long as we on the same wavelength

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my brother always say that he wouldny have a serious realtionship witha girl he met in a club, some other men think differently

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I would really prefer not to meet women in some places

I guess that is why people are different

It may work well for Mister A if he meets his wife at a burial ground but it wont work for me

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I met my boyfriend on the metro, that was 2 years ago & now we are getting married next week

If you love her shouldnt matter where you met

Good luck

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if u are both in love then God no vex

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It does not really matter where you meet her. Just make sure you check her out if she is OK in are atitude and well trained person.

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