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Every Girl Wants To Marry Me : Is This A Cause? Pls Help Me

Thank you for clicking on my post. i need you to help me solve my problem. i live in port harcourt. im black (well i think im fine) tall and work. im about 24yrs now.i have problem with girls .any one i meet wants to get marride to me . the first was always disturbing me to come to her house to see her parents and i refused , then i had to break up when it became too much . she is 25yrs .fair n fine kindof

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now i met this one i luv very very very much ,im 24yrs shes 23yrs.shes so fine and presentable.everything was going fine and nice until she started indirectly talking about marrige.and im not ready for that now coz i dont have enogh moni for that and i dont want to pause my flexing now and i live with my aunt(she doesnt come to my house).

She knows a lot of guys and it pisses me off.i dont know when shes cheating on me.and im so jealous.

my question now is that what do i do, i love her and i dont want marrige now , and her time as a lady is going & i cant afford to lose her . poo!!! im so confused. please tell me what to do pls pls reply me fast,

pls just reply me .type something yes you type something

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when u get the number do kindly pass it on to me

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*needs someone to translate this*

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@poster

Marriage is more than good look. Forget about if you are handsome or not. There are so many ingredients (finacially, emotionally, etc) you need to have to make your marriage a haven. From your post you dont possess any of them. You deserve a good life, your children deserve a good life, everyone deserve a good life. You are are relatively young.

Dont rush into things that will bring you perpetual regrets. Never dive into water you dont know the bottom. Do the right thing at the right time and you will be happy for it. Get that thought off your head and get focused. Be wise guy.

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marry one and the rest will keep to them self

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look my friend,u better put ur acts together.wat type of childish help do u need?U ARE A FINE BOY,U DNT WANT 2 PAUSE UR FLEXING,those words sound very childish.so i advice u think properly b4,posting anything dat comes in2 ur childish head.this is a forum 4 matured minds,not a place for kids 2 show their typing skills.

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Well, i dnt think marriage can stop one 4rm achievin life desire if u ar focus, hardworkin & determine. To many their marriages ar blessns to dem. Im not askin u 2marry if u ar not ready 4it, all im sayin is dat u need 2look byound wat u see as a tenager but as a mature minded man.

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@Ournaija you have said well, i should move on and let her go right? im even getting so slim thinking of her and what to do . okay thank you all for your help, but if you still have nay more solutions for me feel free to drop a line .

@Ezeja - dont u think if i get marride now , i would not achive what i need in life ? as in career and all.?

but all the same thanks for your help though

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Blackfine wat exactly do u want? U ar 24yrs & not ready 4marriage, u dnt want 2 pause ur flexin, ! Haba U dnt need d whole world 2get marry 2d one u love. Yes u ar 24 bt if at ur age u ar matured enough 2takecare of a woman den whynot do so. How long will u keep flexin, pls b discipline & determine 2face life challenges. Every woman has a pick time 4marriage & wen it comes she'll wnt 2make do of it. U said u love her, so 4d sake of dat love & those tins u value in her dailogue with 2 come out wit reasonable decision. All d best.

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two ladies have become every girl! My friend you beta say something else. How handsome do you think you are anyway?

please stop attracting such cheap attention to yourself

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. . .All in the name of getting cheap attention. . .

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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Orishirishi for Nairaland. A boy who admits that he is too young for marriage is talking about marriage. A boy who is been fed by an aunty is talknig about marriage. Na wa oooo

You berra commot here before I koboko you out. If you secure your future zillions of girls will be running after you. Do the right thing at the right time. Abeg leave chicks alone for now, you still have a long way to go.

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some people will never cease to amaze me, the more i read NL the more i see that there is so much ignorance within our brothas and sistas!!!!

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Brother, what do you want us to tell you now? ok, let me break it down for you:

Is that a curse? - - - - - - - - - No, it's normal for a sensible lady to ask her naughty boyfriend.

Does that answer your question?

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How is she running out of age? Lol my guy. You dey crack me up o

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Nl! Everybody wanna create a thread.

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1. Guy wat do u want?

2. Do u work hard 4 ur moni or u just work smart?

3. Confess ur sins and u'll surely be healed.

4. Your problem is spiritual consult ur pastor

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u guys are not helping me here. im asking what to do to the relationship now . im so young for marrige and i love her, and she wants marrige what do i do .

resonable answers pls. il appriciate ,

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No itz nat a cause, itz a reason. Millerate!

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No it is not a cause. It is an effect.

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