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Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance?

My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. He dumped me. We were going through a lot when we were together so I unloaded my emotional baggage on him and so did he, and we fell apart. Now he wants me back. He said he's been thinking about me ever since we split, he just needed sometime to himself to figure things out on his own. I don't know what to do. I was so surprised when he called because we never spoke after we broke up. I think everyone deserves a second chance, but I've never broken up with someone only to get back together. I'm so confused. Has anyone been in my position before? What did you do? Any thoughts?

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yes go back to him if u truly love him

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and here reads the siggy

"forget what you lost yesterday and look to what you can get tomorrow"

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just read my siggy to know what i think.

then what i feel, hmmmmmmmm,

i feel every1 deserves a second chance sha.

nway u know him better and shld be in the positon

to know if u want him back or not. just know the

devil u know is better than the angel u dnt.

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I'm going to give it another try. Wish me luck.

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amebo no.1

u r a waste of time for me, if u like go to the nearest babalawo, heaven or wherever u wanna n get ur answer. It's people like u that this forum useless, directing it off point/topic, Nonsense.

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Stop polluting people's thread with your slow junk. Fool. Just like your dad cheated on your mum to have you, now you want to cool off by annoying people. .

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give it go

you'd never know

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@bronx_dog

I think you have the wrong mindset, this has nothing to do with sex. This is love. Please be serious with your response. Thank you.

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@Poster

Go for him, for all you know, he might have grown bigger in his dik or even learnt better tactics in sex - you dig? never say no girlfriend.

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@ Poster

Also please clarify to this obsessed fan of mine amebo no.1,  that there are a lot of people out there with similiar issues n not only Monicaa.

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Is not all bout goin bck to ones vomit,@times splittin with ur ex mkes u louts value each other and let u realize u really complete each other.Well jst tke ur time to mke ur decision,dont b in a rush tho.

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No. Don't go back to your vomit.

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i wouldnt be surprised if dis is monicaa again

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@Hollaslyd

Have you been in my position before? Did you take your ex back?

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I've never been dumped before, and although I still have feelings for him. I'm not sure if this is a case of my ego vs. my emotions, Hmmm,

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like jaybee said, follow ur heart, but make sure u use ur head too before deciding. Sometimes emotional stress make couples dpo some irrational things, but 7 months is a long time. i guess he tried seeing other girls, but couldn't get the thot of u out of his mind. just don't make a mistake u'll later regret.

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not really but i'm still friends with them

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@jay bee

Have you ever gotten back together with an ex?

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follow your heart/gutt instinct cos no one can confidently tell you what to do as we aren't in ya lives and we don't know u guys in person to be able to judge

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You only,know the reason why you guys split before.so you are in the position to decide wether to get back together or not

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