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Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why?

I don't know if this has been brought up before, but why are some girls always suspicious of any girl who they see with their boyfriends. What i mean is that if they dare see another girl talking and laughing with their beaus, they tend to get all suspicious and end up jumping to conclusions without verifying first.

I ask this because last week friday one of my pals told me about it. He told me that his babe decided to follow him to one bash his CD group organised in one park here. While he was there one girl who was a good friend of his happened to show up at the party and they got talking. initially, he wanted to hang out with his babe as she knew no one in the party, but the girl was like he shouldn't worry about her and that he shld go ahead and have a good time.

Later on, while he and the other girl were talking, his babe came up to him and said she was leaving. He saw her off to the road where the girl started raking for him, telling him not to think of her as a fool, and that she knows he has feelings for the other girl. The guy was shocked. He later called me and told me the whole story.

Something similar to this has also happened to me as well, so i ask u ladies out there, why do SOME of you act that way? Why do some of you decide to jump into conclusions without finding out what's amiss?

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an extremely possesive and suspicious girl is bad new,steer clear

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if u ask me it is absolutely wrong for you to go out with your girlfriend and abandon her for another girl even if there is nothing going on btw both of you .it is simply lack of respect.it is not about her being suspicious it is about her feeling abandoned while watching her boyfriend playing friends with a girl.i wouldn't like it too. so she has a right to act the way she acted.so boy slow your role and know your responsibility,it's not baby sitting it's giving her her time.

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klassyguy,

ur girl gave u a mile and u probably travelled 2.

the fact that she asked u 2 go ahead n enjoy urself does not mean u'll abadon her to gisting with another female friend

u should have invited her to even take part in ur discussions

girls like it when they're given the recongnition they deserve.

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Agreed, but the guy later told me he confronted the babe and she apologised, giving the reason that she loved him so much and that she doesn't want to lose him to another girl, as there are so many desperate girls out there in the world. Do u peeps think that justifies her actions?

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I suggest you to avoid jealousy, extremely possessive, and suspicious ladies! Read this to help you making your mind when it comes to choose the right one at below link:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Or better off stay single for rest of your life. It is your decision!!!!

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I've had my fair share of jealous, possessive women. Avoid them.

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You can't win a man's heart by driving away his friends.

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