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Falsely Acused Of molest: What Does One Do In A Situation Like This?

You've never met her.She is your friend's younger sister.Shes about 25. She comes when your friend travelled. Now you guys get along fine.I mean you gist,take a stroll together,you do a little shopping, buy her a chocolate ice cream (nothing too big or fancy).You guys crack jokes, recall your child hood days and naughty things you did then.You gist about school and hold hands etc etc.You virtually take to each other. You guys go back home and gist late till after mid night.On her bed.Your skin touch she doesn't move etc Latter you kiss her. She kisses back when things become a little hot she calmly suggests that you guys should probably not do it''. However things get hotter and you finally do it.

The next day she asks you why you did what you did.YOU APOLOGISE BUT YOU ARE SHOCKED WHEN SHE SAYS YOU Molested HER.

After that she stays for some days.Browses with your laptop,you see movies together at home.She even tells you you guys should go to the galleria etc etc.You decline and avoid her.But out of fear you apologise and plead with her sending her SMS,leaving notes for her at home when you are off to work.

The next day she invites her boyfriend to sleep over.He sleeps over for three whole days.They have their tryst and you get upset because you don't know the guy etc etc.Besides she did not tell you he was comming.You tell her she is disrespecting her brother,his house and you. she gets pissed and claims that afterall you rapped her.YOU GET MORE SCARED NOW AND APOLOGISE MORE.You start avoiding her for fear of what she might say next.

Now a day before she leaves she says she wants money for flight but she is rude anddoes it without courtesy,besides you are a little broke so you tell her to ask her boyfriend. She sends you a stinker and says "look what we had was not love making it was molest!"

She gets back calls her elder brother (your friend and host) and carries out her threat.he calls you up and then its the biggest problem you'll ever get to see in your life.It starts, and it only gets worse, the police etc. etc.

ITS HAPPENING TO SOMEONE LIVE AND NOW.THIS IS NO JOKE.

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I always wonder what the J.S.S.S fully stands for.

@Stephen

What's the 4th rule of friendship? matter of facts, what are all the rules?

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It happened to me in J.S.S.3. . . . I wired one babe, she was caught cos she told her best friend - and she tried to say I forced myself on her. . . . luckily, the community court (my sister and other elder teenagers) absolved me of the heinous crime.

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He broke the 3rd rule of friendship, he had sex with his friend's sister. Anyway, she will lose in court cause she didn't call for help during or after "the molest". She still chilled with the dude and watched movies with him. She's just trying to blackmail him and get him under her thumb. . . she won't be the first to use a method like that.

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And you did not sound insultive abi? Well I shall take your advice and not be insultive because believe me its not a competition Ill like you to engage in.

The guy told me the whole story and I sincerely don't think he left out the important details.I feel this way because he wanted to know if he was guilty or not and I decided to seek your opinions. Chicko Ejiro can come for the full details but I don't think we would want to sell someone's sad tale.

And is that your kid in your profile pic? Tell him I said cooochi cooooochi cooo!!!!!

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The girls brother feels that the girl must have consented to the act. He is however dissapointed in his friend.The friend has decided to move out of the house.

The girl however says the guy will not go unpunished even after the police issue was called off by her elder brother!

Posted on: July 26, 2008, 05:15 PMPosted by: iice

Neva mess up a good friendship with a moment of plesure

Imagine him taking advantage of his friend's sister

To me kiss back is concent no advantage taking in this case (As presented by poster) what the girl is feeling is post 'maraton regret and she is blaming the guy when she couldnt decide in the moment of heat that her no means NO

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Dabriggs or whatever u call urself, u don't have to be insultive in this issue. I replied to this post based on how i perceived it and that's my opinion. Everybody is airing their's so i don't see ur reason for calling me an except that maybe i hit the nail on the head and u couldn't bear the fact that someone has found u out? Try to take things the way they come and try not to be insultive okay? Ordinarily, i would have insulted u also but i found out a long time ago that it's not the best way to handle things. But sincerely, whoever it is that is involved in this mess should tell the whole story as it is to the girl's brother even if means losing his friendship, i guess that is better than cooling his heels in the police net and we all know how our police react to cases like this, THEY NEVER SUPPORT THE MALE EVEN IF HE IS THE VICTIM!

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the true will alway come out , those guys who  molest girls should go to hell.

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The girl; Tell the girl to go screw herself. In court it is your word against hers.

Police?? Arrest you on molest charges. fine. A good lawyer would get you out in under a day for little or no money.

The brother; Talk to him man to man. Tell him what went down. explain the circumstances that led to whatever. He might not understand, but at least you've made it known to him that you did not molest his sis.

Although on the flip side, I think your boy might have alot of problems on his hands if the txt msgs on her phone suggests that he is appologising for Molesting her. Moreover, how old is the girl in question?? This is to ascertain if she is of age or if he is being held on statutory molest. i.e sleeping with a minor.

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The guy have done nothing wrong. I think that gurl need urgent money, that is another way to dig a guy. molest is forcing the other person but this time around the guy kissed her and she kissed back which means that both parties are interested. After kissing back the gurl did not shout so that people around can rescue her which means again she was interested. Also after some days the gurl did not report to the police or pastor.

Judgment

On this ground, the guy did not molest the gurl, the guy is cleared against molest.

Next ,

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The girls brother feels that the girl must have consented to the act. He is however dissapointed in his friend.The friend has decided to move out of the house.

The girl however says the guy will not go unpunished even after the police issue was called off by her elder brother!

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A lesson in the 'manipulations' of human beings - ughh

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women can be so <ugh> sometimes.

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But his his word against hers. Who do you think the friend will believe, his friend or his sister?

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This POSTER is a JOKER! For real. Imagine him taking advantage of his friend's sister and then coming here to bother people with a rooster and BULL story about how it is HAPPENING LIVE AND NOW TO SOMEONE. Oh boy u better clean up ur act and go and apologise to ur friend, his sister and the entire family. If u ain't guilty why are u scared?

Never mind answering cos we all know that ''THE GUILTY ARE ALWAYS AFRAID''!

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This one is very simple.

Where and what is her proof that she was indeed Molested?

she went to the police station after how many days to report?

besides . . .she brought her man home and they must have done the done deal.

Case closed . . . NO EVIDENCE!

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d girl is silly,infact shes mad,why is d guy acting like a jelly fish,he should stand straight on his feet and be a man

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men she shiotting you, giove her a call from your friend and threaten her too. let her taste a soup spoon of her own medicine. and let her know how unconcerned u are about the whiole situation.k.

call up crespo if you have more probl;ems

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The story is incomplete. . . .

She didnt wanna do. . . .the guy wanted to and he did. . . .

Did she scream, struggle or was there any sorta resistance??

Lets even assume it was a classic molest. . . . . Why didn't the chic report at the station the next day??

This is similar to any charlie chaplin series. . . .highly comical.

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This ain't a case, if he knows he's innocent then i don't see any reason to be scared.

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Let her go to the police station. . . . . she has no case!!

molest?? And she still came back to the house to sleep for 3 days??  Are u shitting me??

You need to go learn the things that must take place for a molest to be established in a Nigerian court. . . .  .

This girl is just taking the piss on ur mate. . . . .

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go for surgery, cut off your privates, and go tell them u didnt do it, when they ask for evidence, you just pull down your pants, then they will know she is just a spoilt lying Dam.

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