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'female' Wife And 'male' Husband?

My pastor today asked all singles who want a 'female' wife/'male' husband to come forward for prayer. I was intrigued. Are there 'male' wives and 'female' husbands? Personally i think it's abt marrying a partner with good character/godly spouse et cetera.

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@ mamagee: yes o! Haven't you heard of a strong willed wife being accused of 'usurping her husband's authority' or trying to be the man of the house? Or a reserved/very shy man being accused of letting his wife rule him/not being a real man/woman wrapper/other words that basically brand him as being the weak and submissive one, hence the woman of the house?

While culture frowns on it, they don't notice that in some cases, both parties are quite happy wt the way things are. What is marriage if it isn't complementary?

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I find that most times elderly people pray for their sons to marry 'african/traditional' wives - yet want to be associated wt the successes of a modern one. Or for daughters to marry a traditional man yet complain if he treats her like chattel.

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It was obviouly a 'misyarn'. Everyone is entitled to some minutes of insanity daily.

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^^^ iice don't tell me u're . . .!! Just kidding o!

Why do u say that?

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I'm going with you on this one. .

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n there they were talking as if the pastor didnt know wat he was sayin

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I didn't think of that. . . Lmao!

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I think he meant heterosexuals. He didnt want homosexuals coming up to pray for partners.

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No yab the man of God o! He was just saying his own. His short explanation was that there are some men who are married to . . . Gee how do i put this now?. . . Women who are men. He was referring to attitude/behavioural traits i guess, not transvestites.

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I think mayb u pastor was high or something

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