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Females: Nigerian Guys Are Too Stubborn?

ok, lol I just want to know what u other ladies think n your experience, ( if u don't mind)??.

nigerian guys never take no 4 an answer! ( when they ask u out!)

wat u think?

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;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d bravo guys

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y do u think it is hard for a nigerian girl to approach a guy? because they fear the "NO" more than we do. rejection is rejection and nobody wants to deal with it.

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who would take NO for an answer!! you would understand if you are not a female!! "" ""zoomed off""

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No. They are not.

But those persistent ones sometimes becomes the deadliest. So be careful and follow your heart.

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Uh ! they are not sturborn, they know what they want , most of them are proving sturborn because of what they want chop.Please dont trust those sweat ,serious look and alll those sturf , it's a lie ,let5 them get what they want , Then, you will see the original sturborn sturf in them .

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[color=#006600][/color]We must look critically at the issue on hand-never to be taking lightly.

I suspect that Nigerian guys seems to suffer from the lack of theo-psycho-sociological capacity in other for them to have some sense of altruistic appreciation of the female gender. Whom the Master programmer gave to them for tendering.

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hell yea, ya'll are stubborn can't deal with that dated a nigerian girl once, but never again !!!!!

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I belive d word u wanted was persistence

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@topic

Stuborn but can take care of you welu welu.

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abeg which kind question una dey ask 4 dis forum sef?u be dude?

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Naija men are not stubborn, it's just the ego. Most times if u allow the ladies to hv their ways, they see u as wikling.

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are your folks Nigerian?

how can you label all our men morons

That's so childish!

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@ toyinrayo>>>

hope u agreed to the reply she got too,

Coz i strongly agreed to the response, in my opinion it applies to u too,

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Nigerian ladies should know that keeping a guy on suspense for too long when you know you will finally say YES complicates issues. It makes the guy loose interest (if he ever had a genuine one) and all he runs after will be to see what makes the lady think she is THICK. Once he gets a yes from you, he moves so fast in and out of your life you will never believe it. when you know you will say YES, don't take too long, but when you say NO for a long time, NEVER SAY YES AGAIN!!!!

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've being on 1 for a yr now, but guess what i loose interest already but she's still around, WOULD HAVE HER for the FUN of it, u know what i mean,

peace

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nigerian men are not stubborn, they are morons

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hi i find this thread interesting.

dis contribution by dapsycool (m)

No be una fault, Nigeria babes too can be funny,she knows she's just being used as a bed warmer yet she won't let u go, even after showing her she's outdated, she still dey there they preach love. Another funny thing (from experience), A girl might tell u no today and in a month she's in your bedroom doing that thing really got me lafing.

and dis contribution by Bidy (f)

I quite agree with you Onyie, Nigerian ladies should know that keeping a guy on suspense for too long when you know you will finally say YES complicates issues. It makes the guy loose interest (if he ever had a genuine one) and all he runs after will be to see what makes the lady think she is THICK. Once he gets a yes from you, he moves so fast in and out of your life you will never believe it. when you know you will say YES, don't take too long, but when you say NO for a long time, NEVER SAY YES AGAIN!!!! is really true.

for me i commend all the contributors m/f alike. take care

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i had to go look up your profile

i think this response pretty much sums it up

it all depends of the lady in question

wants it or not

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If naija man stubborn, na naija woman cause am.

when they are saying one thing and their body language is saying another.

It just makes the game more interesting. Both prey n predator knows the fun is in the chase. Its a primal thing so like Gamba said "bring it on"

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I wonder why the complain.

Ladies, if a guy asks you out you tell him no and he walks away, what are you going to think of him?

If unserious is the answer, then why complain when he becomes a little persistent?

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The more stubborn you prove to them the more interesting you become to them,so baby bring it on!

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My ppl lets yan about something else i belive we all aint thesame girls dosnt seems to understand what they saying is not corect cos they are the cause of it,

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Psh.

You say no and I move on.

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PLEASE STOP THE GENERALIZATION.Every group of individuals, geder, age, origin has the good numbers as well as the bad ones.We got Good guys and we got bad guys no doubt.Rude, Self-centered? I dont think so.Nigerian men are Whaooooooooo. We are the best, ****Just too stubborn sumtimes which is actually fun.

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stubborn isn't exactly the right word. . . I think they're go- getters

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well saying nigerian guys are stubborn will not be the right words to use for them

then on an issue like this i dont think it will be safe to generalise them

but i will like to say that the stubborn guys are the ones who dont cut their coat according to their cloth and then go after girls that are bigger than them(not in the physical size sense anyway) then they keep insisting on an impossible mission and it really makes one sick if u dont want to be insultive or rude to them

also some guys think if a girl just says yes she is cheap so they girls have to hold on for long and keep the words, so if the guy is not persistent sure he will miss out cos they girl dint want to be too hasty

in some way sha this guy and girl tussle can be fun atimes u know.

my dear guys and babes enjoy life while it last i wish everyone all the best in his or her relationship cos a real stubborn guy can be the best guy u will ever meet and the best love u can have.

take time with the stubborn guys

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nigerian men are not only stubborn but rude,selfcentered etc.

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I quite agree with you Onyie, Nigerian ladies should know that keeping a guy on suspense for too long when you know you will finally say YES complicates issues. It makes the guy loose interest (if he ever had a genuine one) and all he runs after will be to see what makes the lady think she is THICK. Once he gets a yes from you, he moves so fast in and out of your life you will never believe it. when you know you will say YES, dont take too long, but when you say NO for a long time, NEVER SAY YES AGAIN!!!!

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tell em gurl!

hehe lol

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They are not only stubborn they are also irritating.

Thanks to some girls, who mean no as yes, these guys won't let you be even when you are dead serious.

It's time they understand for this world that not all girls have times for fronting. if I say no today, it'll be no forever.

Chikena!

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i agree with ariblaze.

most women admire it too

it really can be annoying but then,

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Na only Nigerian guys?

When it come to girls, Nigerian girls are more stubborn than any other in the world, maybe they and the American girls (especially blacks)

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@poster

what you described is not stubborness

but perseverance

which i consider an admirable

and am sure most women do too

agreed when the direction its

channelled towards doesnt favour the recipient

it can be annoying.

perseverance shows strenght of character.period!!!

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oh yes they are.

That is till you become very rude.

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stubborn ! self centered, selfish, inconsiderate, upon all that most have a one track mind

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stubborn ! self centered, selfish, inconsiderate, upon all that most have a one track mind

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No more yabbing, Today na Sunday, I come in peace.I beg no banning, we just joking here aight.

Back to topic, 9ja girls too are stubborn, some don't understand what "NO" means.

Radiant how u dey?

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No more yabbing, Today na Sunday, I come in peace.I beg no banning, we just joking here aight.

Back to topic, 9ja girls too are stubborn, some don't understand what "NO" means.

Radiant how u dey?

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Better quit this poo before you dare start. Banning is the last I think of.

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tnaidaR, Heading 4 club, slowpoke, that's where ur mom and pop produced you, so don't blame ya,you can as well get drunk in the club and commit suicide.

Doyin u r entitled to ya opinion,just no yab me

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Radiant don't blame Dapsycool jare.

He is just behaving like all typical [b]stubborn [/b]Nigerian men

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Make sure you hit your head on a wall tonight while I head for the club now. See you tmrw dumbo!

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Animal your great pa's other name, enough of naming your family names,ewu, mumu and now Animal, aint interested in those weird names,that belongs to your generation. orphan or not, that doesn't stop me from where i'm going to, or what i/would achieve. I don't like yabbing but some of ya nairaland members just think you can run your mouth like a faulty radio player, and the other person will keep shut. I owe u nothing and u owe me nothing, so i insist u f**k off

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Why you call my mom and dad, you bloody orphan? Were you stung by bees in your brain? Animal!

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tnaidaR, your full name is irrelevant, who cares if you almost got hit, what are u trying to tell us? That your ugly Bottom is attractive. That mumu should be your mama's middle name i guess. It's like u also watch Drogba on your black and white Tv, so missed out on details. I and your papa self no dey same level,so f**k off

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Why call me ewu? When i wasn't refering to anyone here, make i answer your question, Pain me? hell no! I'm a ****, i wont yab you today cos chelsea won, but be informed, ur id dey my black list, i'll be back for your stretched marked Bottom,

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