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For The Guys, Can U Collect Money From A Woman? Girls Can Contirbute Also.

i have been hearing this thing about a "man's ego" and it got me thinking, if a girl can ask a guy out and the guy agrees, why cant a guy accept money from a girl? especially his girl? by agreeing to go out wid the girl, aint u already hurting your "ego"?

y'all should tell me what u think about this thingy. i wont lie, if a my girl should give me money for anything especially when i dont have cash at that moment, i will take ooo, i no go use shame refuse to eat food. so y'all should talk.

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I've helped before, not a big deal to me if we're in a sincere relationship. Not all girls go around mouthing off because they paid for something or gave a guy something, that'll be bizarre. Ya'll need to meet real people or just basically avoid those that misbehave. If you know you're in a relationship with a girl/guy that's quite proud or who mouths off, maybe you should leave it?

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If a guy is strugglin financially, there's nothin wrong in him askin he's woman for money. I would gladly help my man anytime he seeks my help financially.

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Not all guys are ready to spend so girls should give as they get.

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I don't think money has a gender: oh there goes the She-Money or Is that not He-Money.

As such whether d money na from man or woman I go collect.

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Na today?

I know guys that keep multiple girls that just go around collecting money from them. Thats how they survive.

I dont see a problem with spending my money on ma man when i can - it took alot of work but its a good thing to practice.

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LOL, well in my understanding, its all about communication oh, u have 2 knw what he wants and what he needs same way he has 2 knw about yours. Even u tend 2 disregard many, there are certain things u can just not take in2 consideration like male pride or he's likely 2 do something drastic 2 salvage his ego. Ma own opinion sha

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Some have mentioned pride esp the naija man pride, i understand them, i have no problems doing it and as hibans said i've done it and i can do it over and over. What is impt is what the man feels in this situation, if he has no probs accepting it publicly or privately then for sure lets rock on. If he has probs accepting it publicly but not privately, no probs i jst slip it 2 him so he still feels like the man w/o others non the wiser, if he doesnt accept it publicly or privately, no probs, its his gawd damn right

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My dear, their pride shouldn't bother you at all. its just that some of them are very funni, when you do good to them your returns would be bad, but no problem keep doing it not them but God.

There's nothing bad when one needs help and you render ok.

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@didd4, u heard it all, so u have no problem even if she buy car for you collect it plz.

personally, i'm the kind type i have done before and i'll do it again and again.

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Exactly what i want to say, u have said it all.

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It's a personal thing. I'm averse to being helped by people when I know I can help myself. No, I won't take money from a girl, but I wouldn't from a guy too.

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if you are in a relationship were you are free to express yourself and you guys share every thing together the ego thingy should not come in

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if you are in a relationship were you are free to express yourself and you guys share every thing together the ego thingy should not come in

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@ tx

oya make we dey waka go

@ topic not all women yap, i think it depends on the kind of relationship u have with a guy and vice versa.

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my man, every woman yaps. so basically u no fit avoid am.

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well i can, if she's the sort of woman who won't rub it in my face. if she's the proud type, always yappin off her mouf then i'll never take a kobo from her

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I don't think there's any thing wrong with it, but as diddy said we Nigerian men have a lot of ego which I think  makes us stand out amongs African Americans.

@ Ikamafa,

e get this nice joint way just open up near my house, no even mind Okafor the man the crez

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oh, so its an african thingy huh? wow, so i guess african men got more pride than their afro-american counterparts. nice observation.

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nothing wrong with it diddy

its an african thing, african american guys will take the money before u can say go.

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my man u just promoted me. thank you sir.

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There's nothing wrong with it.

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You have spoken like an elder diddy, You are a very wise man

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@ikamefa

i know you aint a guy sexy. if u were a guy i wudnt hit on you, ewwwwww, dats gross. yuk

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forget the one about their throwing it to ya face. of course you wont just be taking without giving back. so if she says she gave u money to buy boxers, u tell her u also gave her money to buy g-strings and the condom you guys used the night before. na give and take. abi nobi so?

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I go take very reluctantly you know how some girls dey sef, the will always throw it on your face when the mad at you like you've never given them money before.

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