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Girl Giving A Guy Gifts And Money: Bad?

What Is Bad In Giving A Guy Something?

Is there anything wrong in giving a guy gift, money etc without collecting from them, personally i don't have anything against it, because i still give even after breakin up, but people say diff things about that. please wats your own view about this.

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Whatever we decided that we both need we both give to each other.

money

gift

love

laugh

conversation

sex (when married)

etc.

it matters not what be thy lot - keep God first - one with God is majority - you are protected in whatever you do - just keep it God blessed

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From experience, i would say it's wrong for a lady to give her bf gifts if there is no commitment yet, I did give my bf gifts, but it turned to be something else, it got into his brain and started puffing, he thot i was so desperate to have him, when it was jst true feelings, and he was so stingy, he never spend a dime on me, but i was so blindly in love with him, thought he was not financial stable and that i should be assisting him with the little i got. So now, i have learned, i will never spend my kobo for any guy until he commits himself or become the father to my unborn children, then i would know i aint spending in vain!

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honestly there is nothin wrong wif it (CARE exist btwn both)

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Not Bad! Give to others what you want from others.

Ka f'owo we owo ohun l'owo fi n clean.

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i dont think there is anything wrong in a girl giving a guy gifts because it only shows that the girl luvs and cares 4 d guy but d guy shouldnt use dt to be xploiting d lady.

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Girl Giving A Guy Gifts And Money: Bad?

he they happen now

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Giving a JOBLESS man gifts or MONEY is a BAD IDEA.

If ur boo has potential, like is <going to skool>, or at least has a part time job, then do things for him, but if he's just a loser then chai, he will only keep asking and you will be annoyed.

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some of the ladies like receiving n not giving.

so they shud learn to be giving at all time.

Jo ooooo,

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@ poster Giving my boo GIFTS i dont see anything wrong with it, but money hmmmmmm i can only give if he ask for it,

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The ladies here seem to be against giving out money to guys,well i have heard the men say it also not good to give a woman money,y?she's going to take you for granted and my question is this,who is deceiving who?gifts are both with money?so it doesn't make sense if its money or gifts,the problem is we give cuz of wwhat we will gain and thats not fair,you give not to get reward,from your giver,you should give cuz you want to give and its from your heart and the reward that comes from it will be far more better than what you did think you will gain.

Giving is virtue,not everybody can give,gift or money,so for me it doesn't matter if its gift or money,i understand some men will take you for granted when a woman gives them moeny and some will equally worship you when you give them money and most might not even value the gifts you gave to them,it is all about maturity,be it money or gift it doesn't matter.

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There's nothing wrong with giving a guy gifts or money, if you're in a relationship this would definitely happen at one point. If you don't trust him enough to give him cash, then you need to find someone else. It works both ways.

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nofin wrong at all,as long as the girl can afford it ders no bigit in dat,infact i fink its only usual a guy does it all but havin a girl whoz generous makes the relationship less frictional.

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There's nothing wrong with giving ur guy gifts, dont agree with the money part

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Hi guys,

pls do any one of you has an idear of someone who wants a driver,

pls contact me on this e-mail chiudo26@yahoo.com

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Na wa for you ladies gan sef, una sabi collect gifts from guys, some sef dey steal to satisfy dem girlfriend

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rich madam, na u put ursef in that situation!

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I used to be one those ''NICE" women that bought stuff for men because I cared and also because I could afford the finer things in life.

Didn't stop them from CHEATING or thier USERISH behavior,

Obviously caring about a man by buying them stuff, HORRIBLE IDEA.

Will NEVER buy anything for a man (at least while in dating phase)

The men I dated were U'SERS, who always wanted to recieve but never want to give. (enuff said)

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if you have an idear pls u can give the web site or your email address so that i can forward my cv,i read accounting,preasently working ,but needs a new job.

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Landers,

Bible talk say " GIVER NEVA LACK" both party can exchange gifts items, it could be anythin. there nothin bad in it.

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Giving gifts aint bad !!!!and money too dats if his goin thru problems

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Giving gifts to ur man is really cool, i like surprises & so i like to give surprises. There's equally nothing wrong in giving money, but don't over do it. A real man won't even allow it.

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In my humble opinion, there is absolutely nothing wrong in giving your man gifts and money. It is no big deal. If you like to receive money, by all means, give it out also. Once in a while, even if he is Adenuga's son, or a millionaire, transfer some credit to him, or send him a recharge card. Men appreciate that a lot. That does not make you a fool.

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Its okay to give a guy gift but money that is a big no no.

What the hell, his suppose to be the one giving me money. When u start giving a guy money, he will talk advantage of u then dump your Bottom for the next girl that comes around. And when u happen to be going through a rough time, that is when he will disappear, when u need him the most.

MEN WILL LEAVE U DRY LIKE CRAY FISH

MEN ARE WICKED OH, SOMETIMES I WONDER WHY ARE THEY IN THIS WORLD.

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I don't see anything wrong in giving gifts to a guy. As a matter of fact it is one of the way to show how much you care for him.

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gifts, ok

money? nope! unless the needs be.

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if u give ur guy 100dollars and he have 1million dollars with him. if he loves you, the 100dollars you give him will be more than the million dollars he have to him.

u can also give gifts. no lele

but its ok.

if u want to make the love very strong, u need to participate in the lover afair.

not only the guys should do everything.

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I dont think there's anything wrong wit as long as its not one sided. If u can take 4rm him why shldn't he b able 2 take 4rm u its called a partnership anything short of that wld b unhealthy

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@kobokanaka

Highly impressive post.

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not anymore. i wont allow such again (taking money and al those unnessesary thing) it already distroyed my relationship ones. and that was the curse. well we all different. i have made a lot of research and i found that its seldom, girl giving her bobo all this material stuff.

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it is really bad for gurls to be giving guys money

guys are worthless pieces of s**t

at the end, they spend it on anotha gurl.

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theres nufin bad babes but pls use ur head about it.

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Have ya been really in love wit a guy who's also in love but he's student and really broke.

If you have you cant help but to give and continue to give esp.money,but sometimes when normal day to day relationship problems arise and ya feeling all lonely, ya cant help to think if he's even wit you cos of the money,ya know how a woman's mind can create cartons and cartons of ideas.

But ya know theres definately whole lot of guys who are humane and would not take advantage of such situation.

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err i dont think its right for a woman to give gifts to a guy and not receive anyting in return. and a man should be embarassed to receive gifts from a woman without giving to her as well. he is pathetic

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There is nothing wrong with giving your man gifts.I do it and I think it is fun.

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THERE IS NO BIG DEAL GIVING A GUY MONEY OR GIFTS IF YOU LOVE YOU JUST A WAY TO U CARE

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I dn't see anythin' wrong in a girl giving a guy gifts /money. All i know is it should go both ways and not just one sided.

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Giving your guy a gifts i think there is nothing wrong with that, but you know guys now, they are very funni they can easily take advantage of that.

you should not be the one to give a guy gift first, let him first give you then you show an appreciation by doing the rest.

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imagine, abeg gimme money jare. which pride? if a girl can ask a guy out and the guy will agree, why cant a guy collect money from a woman? bia, dis is another topic. let me make the thread.

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just hope every guy will think like u

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pride won't allow me to collect money from my woman.I can only collect gifts that she can afford.Love is all that matters not gifts!

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Well well well, if u r dating someone, aint nothing wrong with gifts to him but then again, if he is so so so so so poooorrrrrrrrrrrrrr, then i guess u can give him money. But for how long? Well u can send him to school if u r that rich but make sure he is getting a very good degree that he can make good money from. Hopefully he will stay with u after that but i have never been in that situation. i have always collected from my men , i think thats more proper and i am still collecting from my hobby. I mean cash, which i use to buy em gifts. hahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!

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NOLA. tx or this topic. Most babes are always expecting there guy to do everything, yet they are the ones who shouts what a man can do a woman can do better, so why not do things men do. I believe a lady should give when she as and never ask for too much. tx Nola

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To me it's better for girls to give their guy(s) gift, not only eatable stuff, but all kind of gifts she desire

eatable, drinkable , sexable and even kissable!!!, there's nothing bad in it. I even wish my babe normally do so.

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Yeah , it's really nice to hear that Girls give guys duos. Well for me despite that i know i am too nice and caring to a fault when it comes to relationship. I have never dated a girl that is so generous as in giving to his guy. They always beleive that i have the upper hand in all that concerns them.

Please if you know of any girl that is generous contact me.

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It's a perfectly normal practice here, girls give gifts or money to guy's and guy's do likewise.

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rule #4: rule number 3 has proved why rule number 2 should be implemented.

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To me giving gift is expressing how you feel about him,giving money is to assist.

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