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Girls! Would You Collect A Gift From A Man You Dont Want?

Girls! Would You Collect A Gift From A Man You Dont Like For A Relationship?

This is for ladies.

I want to know

Would you collect a gift from a guy you don't like for a relationship?

If you do, what could be your motive? to encourage him or just slap his face and reject his proposal?

Just curious.

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If a guy you dumped months ago and GENUINELY cannot stand sends you a Christmas Card, would you throw it away or keep it?

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u cant yet till ur friend sleeps with her

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I truly love my girl,she is in school why am out of school, she keep asking for money which i try my possible best as a man,but somehow i told my friend to call her in my present to lie that he(my friend) has been observing her for a long time and that he got her phone no. from one of her friend ,in there conversation i told my friend to tell her to send her bank acc.no.so as to confirm that my friend is truly interested in her ,in return she said is 419,she said o.k my friend should send her 1500 credit,i then told my friend to tell her to come over to his house after sending the rchg card ,well my friend sent a fake rchg card no. 1500,she said where does my friend stays my friend said he would send it letter,after the sence i told my friend to hang on,pls.house can i conclude that my girl is cheap.

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4 me i wouldnt like to collect, cos dey will distrurb u at last, cos they have been giving u and dey will equally say its ur time to give dem, so i dont think its necesary.

i have and can offer myself more than what they can offer me. no amount of gift can a man offer me which i have not gotten or will get from my parents or relations.

so thats bulshit

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hope you dey well? you are too tender and lovely to have such wicked heart. keep your good name and testimony

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Nope.

if i do, id throw it smwer

if its money, i make sure it blast it all away in minutes that same day

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this is mostly applicable in the " i can accomodate" european and america setting.

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Say whatever you want to say to make yourself feel better.

Guys don't understand the meaning of the word 'boundary'

We get it - You and Sly are generous men. . . . . . waiting for my gucci bag sha.

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@ J-girl,

Men are not Billy-goats.

The gurlz that come home crying of massive heart-breaks don't tell the full story.

A guy can only go as far as a girl allows him to go.

Dont say NO to a guy in a way that he might think u mean YES.

Be firm, be bold, be brutal.

If u don't like him, weed him off and avoid him like the Egyptian plague.

End of.

@ Almondjoy,

I thunk i saw u post just now.

Whats ur take on this?

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Damn look at the time, gotta go to bed. Good night everyone

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Somebody stop me before i hurt someone. . . . . . . . .

Ladies, please lets develop the scenario here.

Adam is asking Eve out. . . . . Eve is not sure about Adam yet and she is playing the patient game to know if Adam is true and REAL.

Then it's Eve's birthday in 3 days, So if Adam buys a gift for Eve, is he expected to think Eve is now his property regardless of what Eve thinks of Adam?

Show me any man as fickle as Adam and i will pay y'all $2000 and i am being serious.

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@ Antidote,

U dont have clue, babes.

Men are generous. . . .

I know men that will buy gifts for u without even having an idea of what u look like. . . .Does that mean they want u in bed?

Lets be realistic here!!!!!

@ Stillwater,

U still here? Make sure u count the number of men dropping those huge gift boxes on ur wedding day!!!

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Because you know it's the truth!!!!!!!!!!

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CORRECTION there papi, it's call being frugal, not tight fist, We know know how to stretch the dollar.

And again, get out of your robe and start speaking in layman's terms, No more preaching jor,

As soon as you guys release that gift, your tolos  already singing and they havent even seen tun tun,

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Generous to women they have hidden agendas for.

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Antidote - please tell them! I don't why they are coming in here trying to front. . . . .

@ Jackal - if you went to my secondary school, you would understand. A guy gives you a fancy pen one day and he's trying to hit it the next.

If they use the words "i got this for you" and the girl takes it, that's it!

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Am i in the land of Philistines?

How can buying a gift for a girl makes me think she is my property?

A bleeping gift?

Are u girls aware a $.01 card is a gift? Pen, Stationeries and all sorts of petty things are gifts and that equals SEX?

@ Stillwater,

Dont elaborate further. . . . .U have spewed what was on your mind.

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If you collect anything at all from a man who's sorta asking you out, you automatically owe him your body.

They will make sure to hold that gift over your head as if the gift s the sole reason why the girl is living.

Till today, i can't bring myself to accept gifts from guys just as friends.

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I am a full-blooded Nigerian and i dont reason along that line.

A gift is what it is, a gift.

The girl in question did not ask for it, so the man giving is giving from his own free will.

How does that equate to acceptance?

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Maybe you should ask Nigerian men that make you feel you are indebted to them because you took a gift from them. Once beaten twice shy.

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This is hilarious!!!!

How does taking a gift from a man equates to leading him ON?

Nigerians never cease to amaze me. . . . . .So if i give a 5-year-old baby girl a gift, it means i wanna date her?

These are 2 different issues. . . . . . . A guy chatting a babe up and giving her a gift are 2 different issues.

Taking such gift doesnt translate to accepting to be in a relationship with him.

End of.

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the occasion can influence the collection, if its a buffday gift,then i got no issue.

but if outta of the blues, then its a don't do.

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4 real there is nothing wrong in collecting gift from a guy, 4 d fact u know there is no string attached to it, abeg omo go ahead and collect it o jare

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NO, i never have and never will. if he wants more from me than i am willing to give then i dont do such things.

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If the girl has made it clear that she wont date you but u still go ahead to buy her gift dhe no do wrong. But most times they know they wont date you and yet they go ahead to make demands .

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willingly i will collect :p :p :p

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My father told me to never go to any man outside the family for anything. There are no free rides. A man doesn't give money and stuff for nothing. He wants some Bottom.

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neways i dont collect gifts from guys carelessly especially when i kno they want me and i don't. guys are snicky they always want something in return, they might not let u kno what they want but trust it will come back to bitecha.

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yeeeeeeeepaaaaaaaa, Kolov i am prayng for u where i am now. kai oh boy from d way gem dey talk, it seems like its only God's grace dat can save u.

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@ toy

i don't think so lol

u cn totally go i ain't standing in ur way

just pray kolov mks it thru after i'm done wiv him

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wow, wht d hell!

i don't even knw abt dis

so i dunno wht 2 say

kolov's Bottom is gettin kicked real soon!

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Gem pls i wanna come plsssssssssss. Let Kolov, aprrove me ehn! pweeeeeesss

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well guys, an intro party is on sometime in november off the coast of mallorca, spain. On board "the rare gem". You wanna cum, talk to ma baby n i'll buy return tickets for every1 approved by her.

Antonio Banderas n his wife r cumn, no kiddin.plus u'll meet the richest naija guyz u eva saw and most r single!

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well guys, an intro party is on sometime in november off the coast of mallorca, spain. On board "the rare gem". You wanna cum, talk to ma baby n i'll buy return tickets for every1 approved by her.

Antonio Banderas n his wife r cumn, no kiddin.plus u'll meet the richest naija guyz u eva saw and most r single!

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d kind u want me to be.

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hmmmm, nawa ooo. anyway there is no fight. but d wedding is still on.

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lol. Toy, you are not serious ooo

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ok guys, dis is the , , lol

ok ryt now i'm caught in d middle but amma lay everything straight

man 2 is actually the real man 1

i and diddy just got y'all talkn u know for fun

and i mean it ws fun ryt

n u Kolov, i'm gonna kill ya lol

gee, u're so , , n i aint gettin married behind u're bck i mean

there ain't such things as internet marriage is there?

luv ya mucha baby, but hw d hell did u find out ant dis?

hv u been snoopin behind ma back?

hmmm!!!!

ok i'm babbling cuz i've gone crazy and confused

neva thut this day wld cum, lol.

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congratulations to y'all

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well, she doesnt have to acknowledge nothing. i already did. u wont understand shaa. but i just prepared the way for him to step in.

he is hers and she is hes and i aint gon be in d middle. of cousre i cant be. so congrats to gem and kolov.

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cool then. Party's over guyz

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yeah, i know but i have to let go. he is truely her man and i am happy for them. they got ma blessings although dey dont need it anyway.

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