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Good Job Or Good Wife: Which Is Harder To Find?

Which Is More Difficult To Find In Naija: A Good Job Or A Good Wife/Hubby?

hi guys/babes just want to know your view on the said topic.

Personally, I think getting a good wife is more diffiucult than good job. Definitely there are so many babes out there, but getting a good one out of the lot is almost impossible. I might decide not to get married at all, but just have 1-2 children then no wife.

What do you think?

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To find a good wife is harder.

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@OP

Dont be fooled. Good job is harder to find by far. Every wife is an angel where there is enough money to spend

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A Good Wife!! That is harder!!

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Both are hard to find with the increasing economic crisis.

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Mayb if u start looking deeper in terms of character n virtue and start giving an unatractive chick a chance

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Then again, it depends on what one considers a 'good wife', one man's meat is another man's poison.

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a good wife is hard these days

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Good job isn't hard to find, it's just getting the good job that can be difficult sometimes.

I go with the Good wife.

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@ Poster;

All of the above

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good wife and good hubby.

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For me, it's good job.  your relationship can always work if you are happy within  , as in chain reaction, it influences the people around you.

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@topic a virtous woman who can find? She is worth more than rubies. Getting a good job is hard but if you get a good wife you have just found a good thing and the favour of God is upon you to make wealth.

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i think with a good job one can get a good wife

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@poster,

A good wife is hard to come by nowadays.

Poeple think you can get good girls in churches,whores come to churches these days n disguise themselves,can you get good girls at work?Some Female bankers are glrofied whores,its really hard these days.

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good wives are everywhere if one is down to earth and truthful but the reverse is the case as for a good job.

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Good job is easier to get than a good wife.Once you mistakenly married the wrong woman that may spell doom for the rest of your life.

In other words,finding a good job might take a while but once you get one, up you go.This does not apply to wife issue. If you are still single pray hard and look well before you finally you finaly say "YES I DO".

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good wife is harder to find. u might not even have a job but u will survive by creating one (self employment) but u can never, i repeat never create a good wife

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A good wife? Whats the definition of a good wife?

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i agree with you all, a good wife is hard to get.

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That is why most guys would never marry until they are settled.

Gone were the days when u graduate and u get a job and a car, Most guys have to work their Bottom out and be comfortable before they think of getting married.

Mid 30 single guys are not uncommon nowadays

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Ami ooooooooooooooooo

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See, this is another reason why most women will always choose the wrong man. It is not the beginning that matters but the end.

A man that is rich today can become poor within days, months, years - likewise a poor man can become rich (time and chance happens to all).

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< A yoruba proverb says "Aya alailowo di Aya alaya" The wife of a broke man is someone else's wife. >

This is a description of a wife and not a "good wife". A good wife is not something you pick from anywhere - including the church.

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Toyosi,

That is so untrue.

A guy needs a job job to find a good wife in the first place.

No girl would want to be stuck with a loser.

Forget all those Nollywood movies where a Female Bank exec is attracted to a motor mechanic.

In reality it doesnt work.

Toyosi, sincerely would you marry a guy wwho works at Mc Donalds?

Be real jor

A yoruba proverb says "Aya alailowo di Aya alaya" The wife of a broke man is someone else's wife.

When acute poverty enters through the door, love flies through the window.

The above quote was an advice a 37 year old woman gave me. when she too made the same mistake of marrying a loser. They have been married for 11 years and all the guy talk about everyday is hw he would emigrate to Canada while the wife works her butt of to care for the family.

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Ok the world has come to the realisation that there is global economic depression. The dollar is soaring against the naira by the day.

Most people believe that Barak Obama will solve the problem, I think he can.That means the dollar will still go higher. Many Nigeria has found the easy trick to make at least $500 monthly. You want to enlist??

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<Actually i'd over look a guy i met in a club four nights in a row doesn't he have a life.>

I think this guy is the same as you.

Anyway, from religious or non religious point of view finding a good wife is no joke o.  You can always find a wife, but a good wife - na God's gift to men.

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Good job ooooo.

Toyosi wetin u dey yarn? Good job jor

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@2fine4u

well corroborated, good men have vanished into thin air

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@ topic

A good husband!

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Also there are more certainties in a good job, the pay you'll get, the future promotions you may be eligable for etc, but in a spouse, there are NO certainties, , the guy/girl could lose their job, one could have reproductive issues, one could get ill, pass away,

She/he could say I do, then the minute the ring is on the finger makes a U-turn on you.

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y'all heard it from the horses mouth

QED

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A good wife is hard to find o. Women nowadays have other views as to what concerns bieng a wife, and a GOOD one.

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I'm just wondering why people think the best wife to be can be found in churches. I have met two girls in the church, on two occassions, separate churches, holy holy in church, and outside, they were proper sluts.

For me, you only get to meet the pretendy, i'm now born again kinda girls.

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i think it is more difficult to get a good wife.

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good wife is hardest to find, the reason being the unpredictabilty of humans.

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good question, maybe both?

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Dear Future Spouse

I never expected that our relationship will begin with a major quarrel such as this, but for a some time now, you have been showing me pepper!

Yes! I am am talking to you, and you know yourself!

Why are you treating me like this? What did I do to you?

Your behaviour alone has forced me to memorize the following proverb:

It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a human being to find a spouse

I repeat: It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a human being to find a spouse

This is the truth,

Because of you, I have been forced to sit in darkness, and eat of the stinging bread of loneliness.

I have tried every means to force you out of hiding

I have tried every means to compel you to show your face.

It has all been in vain

Dear future spouse, I am tired of hunting you down, you are too fast for me.

You are playing according to your own rules and not mine

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Though not always talked about. Predestination has been a very crucial issue over the years. What do you think of. Many believe it has great influence on man's life other don't and many do not even have a view about PREDESTINATION. What do you think.

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good wife or good job, i beleive they both are easy to get, but it depends. you just have to be smart. both can even comes together at thesame time. example, as a smart guy looking forward for a good job, and maybe on the day of your interview you might be lucky just because you are smart. you can end up getting the jod and still dating thesame person that interview you, before you know it. you tie the knut. so both comes in handy

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@micklplus, u be marriage councellor, this is simple and plain, nothing good comes that easy, no roads of roses leads to glory, BOTH ARE HARD TO FIND AS LONG AS THEY ARE "GOOD".

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this is absolutely a million dollar question. i think a good wife is hard to find

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well for me i will say good wife its hard to find but if u have good job is easy to get just put on a sexy cloth enter the office to see the manager flirt with him a little bit then you got the job that it but i think it depends on the man the kind of woman he wants so i think it hard to find a good wife but in the other hand its easy as the same way

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I wonder if there should be any controversy, women like our mothers are no more.Breaking news

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I did reason carefully, I said the person should get shot, not stoned.

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