My dilemia is that she is not the biggest phone person, its not like she doesnt like talking to me, its just that on the phone its not as long. She would actually like 3 short calls other than 1 long one. Some ppl would actually like this since it means that there no obligation for long conversation, just the thought of calling. I mean I call or she calls, we pass texts or whatever. Its just that i know with the distance and all, communication helps, i just hope im meeting the quota.