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Guys, Can U Beat Ur Wife/girlfriend?

Guys, have u ever found r self beating ur wife or ur girl friend for an offence she commited cos at times these ladies deserve some anointed beating but its really hard 4 me 2 do. whats ur take on this one?

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But i heard it on a radio programme wen sum women called in n confessed dt dey luv 2 b beaten by der Man sumtimes. Lmfao!

Bt on D flipside, women can b very frustrating.My galfriend n I got into an argument 1nce n she pushed me 4rm behind against D wall, Jeez! Considering dt am Athletic, i wulda killed sum1 dat day bt i was lucky enough 2 walk owt on her n i made her cry her head owt.

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u should beat ur woman at least once , with fire in your eyes

make e take know say you be angry lion !!!!!!!! but tame lamb when she behaves well

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Adedayo, you would be the one to ask someone about their sex life lol

I still stand by my opinion, avoiding your woman for more than 2-3 hrs is not good. Give her those hours to calm down, talk about it. Talk WITH her, not TO her.

So where would she think you spent the night? What would she think you were doing?

While you were trying to solve a problem by running away, another problem will eventually evolve.

I believe that if I dont know where my babe spends the night out, if he does so consistently every time we argue, then he leaves no room for me to trust him.

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Anything to avoid laying hands on a woman is welcome.

One hr is not enough the woman would still be fuming and having devious plans

It would save the man from being arrested and being labbeled a wife beater which is a stigma.

I have a friend whose wife when having any argument claps in his face like the typical market women and she says anything.

I swear to God. One of my friends always have physical confrontations with his wife.

The woman was caught/accused of infidelity and her response was that she does it because her husband cant satisfy her in bed. I now asked her but the baby you are holding who is the father and she said she is always the one on top riding the guy. Imagine what a woman !!!!!! Saying that about her husband in public

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2 me o, them neva born dat woman

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Actually, I'm not against your suggestion, but the length of it is what itches me.

Must a man walk out for a whole day? se were n sa tele ni?

Later on, he'll be using the "I just walked out for 3 days to alleviate my anger." and "Hey, you pushed me into the arms of that woman. You had me angered and out of the house for 1 day". excuses excuses.

If by 1hr he's not back, he better spend 100 hrs out there.

I understand that some women are impossible to deal with in throes of arguements, but walking out on her for several hours and spending the night out is not going to solve anything, dayo.

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tough talk on the internet. priceless.

violence should be avoided at all costs.

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Pray not to be in such situation, Its better said than done. The best thing is to leave the scene cos you havent seen a tempting woman before.

Imagine. You dress up for work you woman locks your shirt that you aint going no where because you didnt give her a good answer to her question, next throws dirty water on your well ironed suit. Try to enter your car and she breaks your windshield with her pestle and you have an important meeting at work.

it happened to a neighbour of mine. Pray not to meet evil women

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Walk away-saves the stress of expending energy to beat.

Besides, taking a walk at that time can give one time to really think things through.

As for me, i doubt i would be able to raise a finger on a woman.

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If she fuckup she collect.

Cos the bible even support it that spoil the rod and spear the child.

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If she fuckup she collect.

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Gbam. I dey ur bak bro.

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being in the same room at that time can aggravate the situation, You might say somethings or do somethings in the moment of provocation but the man going out would allow frayed nerves to calm down.

2 ppl can never win a shouting contest one has to step out. If not it can degenerate to battery calling cops and it becomes a case with the state and possibly a misdemeanour/felony.

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Dayo, you're suggesting going out for a day a solution to arguments/rage. A arguments that can occur more than once.

Do you recommend going out of the house during every argument that occurs?

That may cause more problem than solution o

As for my boyfriend, tin ba di aso e mu, tin ba ya were fun, ko si ibi t'alo lojo yen.

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I am talking of a rela where both parties are not cheaters. She would know you went to have fun elsewhere maybe a bar.

Why would she think ou went to be with another woman if you never displayed such traits?

So if you dont see your bf in a day he would suspect you went with another man first of all?

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And how is staying outside for a day going to achieve anything?

More like make her think you went to someone while your house was shaking. . . . . then the trust is in jeopardy

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Beating your partner wont achieve anything more likely would make her lose respect for you.

Play the IGNORE card. Its more potent than any whip.

Even if your partner is raging just IGNORE and pretend to be having fun in your own world, Go out stay outside for like a day, when you come back be in such high spirits and give her the impression you had more fun without her.

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I would never do that it's utterly wrong !!!

That is wot all d some guys say so that they will b called gentleman

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I would never do that it's utterly wrong !!!

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^^

Bad guy. Lol. You be real 'bros' for the matter. Loool.

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Beating ur gf is wrong, but once in a while one un-expected fling of hand

that will slightly touch her is ok, at list you have send a massage to her.

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@Oponkowa;You have spoken my mind and that is obviously the truth.

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Dats so sweet but we are talking of real eye swelling,nose bleeding,broken hands stuff like that

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I can beat my girlfriend playfully. I've always liked playfighting lol.

Maybe we can pillowbattle?

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I think your points make realistic sense. One never knows beforehand how he'd react at the height of frustration or pressure or provocation. May God help us find good spouses.

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Ideally, beating a woman is wrong. That is a normative fact, not one that takes into account the complexities of reality. You all have not faced reality.

Some women visit wrath upon themselves and then start shedding crocodile tears like supposed 'victims'. It takes two to tango - whether for good or bad. Do you know that the tongue is the deadliest weapon? You need to see how some vile women massacre their husbands' egos and pride with deadly words. Particularly when the man is going through a rough patch financially (lost his job; business collapse, etc) when the woman should empathize with him and play the role of comforter. Rather some women would malign the man's manhood, compare him with xyz's husband who's super-rich, call him 'lazy' or 'useless' and what have you. Some would be blind to their husband's pressures/frustrations and pelt him with hellish sarcasms that seem to imply 'you aint man enough' or 'do your worst'. Through all of this a good number of men may be frustrated to the extent of dispensing a few slaps to temporarily assuage their battered egos.

I think a good, wise woman would never incur beating from the average decent man. She would never bruise his ego in trying times and would always know how to manage tricky situations. Even through arguments and disagreements (which are inevitable), she expresses her views strongly, but doesnt insult her man. She is wise enough to know that water is the best weapon with which to fight fire. In all of these things, she wins the tacit admiration and appreciation of her husband who, in his quiet times, acknowledges that he has a God-given wife; the salt of the earth.

So, it would pay you girls to try to emulate the sort of adorable wife i just described; but also marry a decent man who would brutalize you merely because you didnt catch cold when he sneezed.

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I did the food thing ones to my brothers nagging wife. But couldn't keep if up for more than a week. Had to succumb, but much after pressure and some serious begging. No longer there tho, but i learnt how to use that power and it's so effective.

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Well this was your own brothers wife and she was begging, now imagine you doing this to our own naija wife as a form of punishment, trust me she will beg and beg and beg some more. Its the ultimate insult for me anyway.

Beating a woman will hurt her physically and emotionally

Not eating her food, will hurt her emotionally, unbalance her and hurt her pride.

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Guys who beat women are wimps and puss*ies. There are so many things you can do to a woman that will make her think twice about disrespecting you such as leaving the house and not coming back for a while, (I know this will make me sweat), Ignoring her (generally i hate being ignored and my lover ignoring me, would upset me greatly) not eating her food ( this one is the worst, I'll just break down crying and begging).

So guys no need to result to violence which will hurt your woman and sow seeds of disillusionment in your relationship.

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I don't see why I would want to beat my girlfriend. She's not a goat.

I can defend myself against her violent rage though when necessary.

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no right thinking guy will lay hyis hands on nhis lady

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y beat in d first place?

there r times that the women folk will so frustrate u that the solution that comes to mind is strangling them but then of what gain is that

its better to dress up & go visiting friends as staying indoor with her is tempting fate

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Beating your girl does not show a gentleman's attitude. tho some girls/ladies could be so frustrating at times tha you ll be tempted to think they deserve a couple of punches nevertheless the best thing to do instead of beating up a girl is to just ignore her and walk away for days ( I bet , ladies feel more guilty and devastated this way)

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$ wetin Nah . . .Nah you born am? ? ?no be toast you toast. .she gree? ??

As she agree na she go com dey misbehave abi. as 4 me am against it oooooooooo

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u guyz 4got to ask jim iyke what his girl friends did to him b4 he beats em up,

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when u hit a woman, u only exposing ur weakness, and blive me u always regret it afterwards.

[sub][sub]no matter ow loud they are, just 10 hot slaps shld calm them down.[/sub][/sub]

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No because is inhuman

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$ wetin Nah . . .Nah you born am? ? ?no be toast you toast. .she gree? ??

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lol

i wont advise any man to try it!

not everyone is a rihanna!

I will seriously wound any man that tries it!!!

lolz

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Buahahhaahahahahahaha

But honestly, i do not support beating a woman especially ur wife or ur mum. Thats not good.

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^^

EXK.IS,,S ME

sorry but permit me 2 ask u sometin

its totally outta the blue

But arent u in the jungle already

why asking for women beaters to come Join u there~

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Women beaters should be banished to the jungle so that they can be with their peers.

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Although it is 'ideal' to say that a man should never beat his girlfriend/wife no matter what, certain occasions make such recourse to violence inevitable.

There are men who have terrible anger issues and a penchant for proving their doubtful masculinity by incessantly battering their women; mostly for very trivial or spurious reasons. Sweet, good women with the misfortune of associating with these 'chickenwards' can only be pitied.

However, some women stretch the patience of even the 'goodest' of men by being insufferably spiteful, obstinate, indiscreet, or incorrigible. I've never visited any sort of physical violence on female all through my life (though my last girlfriend really pushed it). However, I cannot guarantee that i wouldnt do so if i ever end up married to the sort of woman just described. Apart from a wife cheating (for which i'd be murderous and damn the consequences), a spiteful/scornful wife could test my patience. The sort of woman that is deaf to my (at first) tender entreaties; pathologically stubborn; yells at me without due respect; and fights fire with fire (rather than water) could perhaps mould me into a violent monster if she persists in that unwifely attitude long enough.

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if you can't smack your mother why would you smack your wife---- only trying to make a point.

treat people like you want to be treated.

Now u are taling

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