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Guys Find It Difficult To Admire Their Girls. Why?

My guy hardly tell me you are lookin good. If i dressed up, i get many admirers. Even in his presence they do tell me 'girl u are cute' and they will even tell him to stick with me dt am ok. Bt he will neva open up 2 admire me. So i complained bitterly and he said he doesnt want 2 tel me dt i may feel am too good 4 him. Bt is it the best?

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its not insecurity, its more like: okay, I've got you, so I don't need all them little nice words any longer.

Having said that, it's not quite right cos as they say: girls need complements forever

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I always tell my woman when she is looking good.

Your man has a complex issue.

beware.

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Well, first, do you admire him? Do u tell him how hot / handsome he looks?

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The only explainable reason why such dudes won't compliment their gf's beauty is because they are insecure! Period!

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@top up

ure post are always underneath mine

ure beautiful sha

i wish i cud take u on a date!

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dont bother about that, everybody r defrent.

the dude is not friending u for beauty sake, been beauty doesn't matter to him.

some people r not into beauty stuff. that just the way it is.

the fact that u know he think u r okay. that alone can keep thing moving. so dont get it Twisted love is a Beautyful thing.

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RE:SAVANNAH

Yes i do tell him how cute he looks each time he dresses

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but generally guys admire girls more, girls hardly do except d bold ones, 4 me its not a big deal n i also say d truth when she aint loookin good

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Also see reasons why ladies find it difficult to admire their guys in http://liferelationshipstyle.blogspot.com/

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I second 190's comment. I have not found it within my manners to tell her how beautiful she looks but the look in my eyes tells it all. Admiring her or not doesn't have to crush her penchant for looking good, moreover, she's looking good for herself too not for me alone.

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I'm not sure if it's sincere love, after all he seems a little bit insecure. I would hate for my guy never to tell me that I looked beautiful, especially when you go through all that effort of picking out a nice outfit, doing makeup, and all the guys and your friends are telling you "you look beautiful, then your guy just nods and yells, we're going to be late, let's go" .

My dad never tells my mum that she looks beautiful and I'm not sure what reason it is, but now, when we compliment her, she's always saying, "really?", "you sure?", something like this can really wear down a woman's confidence in herself, and she can start to think, "why bother doing my hair, or putting on the makeup - he doesn't appreciate it."?? For a while she seemed stuck in a rut, she barely wore any makeup, she didn't have time for her hair or clothes, but recently, she's back to looking gorgeous again with or without my dad's compliments.

It's a shame really, your boyfriend should be able to trust that you won't leave him, does he believe that keeping you insecure about yourself is what will keep you around?? If so, he's got another thing coming, if another guy who offers similar qualities can't get enough of how 'cute' you are.

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same tin applies 2 me

if u see my gf ehhen

u go hala

i neva tell her how preety she is

and simply do not know why

bt within me,im bitting myself

telling myself 190 hw u take get this babe sef

u too much!

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