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Guys, How Do U Turn Down A Lady's Love Advances Without Bruising Her Ego?

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just remeber what the last girl who turned you down said and say the same thing

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Simply tell her u are hiv positive, That shld work some wonders or worse still make u lose ur work, Double edged sword trick. Goodluck, Jonathan.

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Assert yourself dude, just drive home the point. You have to be frank. Don't reject her rudely, but also don't embellish your rejection with compliments and other such shenanigans that may send her the wrong message.

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Go in tears before her and use pigin English to say -

Madam, i beg you

I use God beg u

the wahala go pass me

I beg you. Make you forgive me.

if to say I never marry/get person I wan marry, na you e for be.

But as e come be now, i beg. no vex. my body want am but d wahala go too much for me.

The tears will convince her and she will leave you alone. she go bow say man dey cry for her advances. she go run cos she go feel say this one no go fit satisfy me. - shock treatment of cause.

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As i let her know plainly about my no interest, i 'll also find a significant way to improve my causual friendship with her by inviting out sometimes and engaging her in common hobbies that both of us might love doing.

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be straight and direct to her, you should say:

MISS, I THINK YOU ARE REALLY BEAUTIFUL AND I AM FLATTERED BUT I HAVE SOMEONE IN MY LIFE THAT I LOVE DEARLY AND, IF YOU PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES, I AM SURE YOU WOULDNT WANT ME TO DO YOU LIKE THAT.

ALSO I THINK YOU ARE A GREAT FRIEND AND I WANT TO KEEP IT THAT WAY SO PLEASE LETS LEAVE IT AT THAT.

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preach to her on the danger of adultery

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Dont tell her that cos she may not even care if u have a serious gf or married. Just tell her u r not interested in her cos it is ungodly .Am sure she will have second thot abt it.

Hope she doesnt have any say concerning ur job cos the more reason u cant tell her u have a serious Gf.

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tell her you are in a serious relationship and tell her to put herself in your friend's shoe

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