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Thats not true . . I think love is displayed more when all her senses tells her you are lying but she still wants to belive in you. Not because you are not lying, but because she cant help the way she feels.
Trust is earned. If you want a woman to always beleive in you, you have to earn it. Love or no love!!
You know a girl is in love with you when she is up in your face 24/ 7 ! When she wants to spend all her time with you! Gifts are cool but time is everything. When she follows you around like a puppy! When she stares at you for no particular reason and she is extremely affectionate. That is guaranteed love!
We seem to forget there is a difference between falling in love with someone and loving someone. Most people could hardly differentiate and that is dangerous. This is because a time would come, when you would discover that you are actually not in love with someone you have been going out with after 3 years.
Secondly, some guys expecially those who are loaded may discover, often too late, that the particular lady is in love with their pocket or their JT. That is why some guys play ladies like football.
Everyone had a yardstick to measure how to know if a lady is in love with him. To me, I will know if a lady is in love through her actions and inactions. My mentor once said
"WHEN A LADY IS IN LOVE, SHE LOSE HER HEAD,AND WHEN A GUY IS IN LOVE, HE LOSE HIS ******'
sorry ladies, we are discursing ladies not men.
So, a lady in love would do anything for her guy, reasonable and unreasonable. She would not necesarily cling to the guy. Her words, actions etc would give her away. Ladies in love, will overlook the guy's fault, or try to change him, but she won't leave the man even if her parents were to hang themselves!
There were others which had been mentioned earlier. However, I must admit Love can be faked. In that case, guys employ time know if it is real or fake.
1. She calls/flashes and tells u "i just want to hear ur voice"
2.U see the passion in her eyes whenever u are together
3.no wanting or ready to let u go wen u are together,no matter how late
4.calls intermittently on ur way home.
5.drops a word, text, email , telling u like"u are great,highly favored, u will make it, u will get ther, etc
6. never discrimates u,
7.always tells her frends, collegues,neighbours and any other guy about u and how special u are
8.leaves u a romantic note,text, of not just I LOVE u but, sometin tantalisng
9.can almost read ur mind
10.wen u notice this kind of telpathic connection btw both of u, wen u are tinking of her, she calls or text nd/or vice versa
11.tells u to pray about anytin AND TRUST GOD.
12.sticks to her words, and u can verify later on
13.wen her siblings, family,nephews are all about u , and they frown or become protective wen anoda guy tryies to intrude.
14.she tells u everytin about herself and u do same too wothout any fear of vindication
15.she is ur bet frend
16.very playful with you, cracks jokes, yabbies, pulls ur nose, tickles u, gives u a special kiss, wen u least expect, to me its not all about sex, love is in the air,
17.she respects u not because u demand it but it flowes naturally from her heart
18.the way the family accepts u
if she laughs at whatever u say even when it makes no sense
if she likes hanging out with you and talking to you when other girls consider you boring
if she takes sh*t that she wont take from other guys from you
if she likes you no matter how ugly you are
if she is bothered when you don't call her and calls you back
if she looks into your eyes when she talks to you
and a few other things
when you are with another girl you kind of see the contempt on her face (jealous). she will always be pleased to take your calls & atend to you. she does things you rarely see her do to oher guys for you or to you. she shows concern and wants to know about how you are and where you are at any moment. always intrested in pointing out the qualities in you to you or her friends. trys as much as possible to stop you from doing things she doesnt like. Ladies, hope i am correct?