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Guys What Does This Break Mean To You? Should I Be Patient Or Just End It Myself

What does it mean if a guy tells you during a so called break that you are not even giving him time to miss you, yet was so upset because you traveled and spent time with another guy (friend) that happens to like you. He said he was not happy with it maybe if it was a girlfriend that's different and then I told him that I am ready to hear the worst, that he should just tell me he does not want anymore and let's break up, he keeps saying No, that let him think through and I am not giving him time to think or even miss me.

I am getting confused. Should I be patient or end it myself?

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@poster

Y do I keep havin this naggin feeling that u might not b completely honest about ur reasons 4ur vacation (now suddenly) "job trip", cos ur initial post was that u travelled and spent time with some dude that liked u.

r u sure the “job offer” was not an excuse to go gallivanting with the dude that liked u?

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@Missy B - nice one on the maturity line

@Tolutara - absolutely agree with your stance

@poster: well regardless of what happens, please try to kip dis honest trend of urs and always say everything.

(if u kip doing dat, one day you would find out that there is actually noting u wud see your self doing, dat u wouldn't be able to tell ur spouse about) that is a real plus on behavioural pattern in relationship.

as i said earlier i cud trade that (truth telling and telling all) for anything.

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girl you just have to give him that break to know what he is up to but first of all you made a great mistake, which you have to be careful next time

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Thanks for understanding, maybe yes it was unnecessary but my intention was harmless. All the same, I've learnt.

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They are on a break.  She is allowed to hang out with friends but if she was not in the wrong place, why did she feel the need to tell him that she was  hanging with a guy that likes her? Make no sense.

As far as lying, she did not have to lie, because that info she shared with him was irrelevant to their situation but instead she felt she could make him jealous and hasten his decision but it backfired.

Maturity is Key word.

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hmmmmmmmmmmmm.

well said Tolutara.

but i dont tink she did wrong telling the guy the truth.

cuz if after cooling his heels they get back 2geda n he latter finds out (dnt wanna imagine the outcome)

@poster, if he is yours he would cum back. (and trust me i adore ur honesty, as lying is one tin i can never take)

if i am asked to choose btw a LovePeddler and a lie teller (trust me d LovePeddler has just got a new bobo)

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Learn from your mistake

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MS B,

u No see wetin I see,  na we ladies go dey say, men this Men that, gosh!!!!!, no wonder Men are not being honest with ladies anymore.

Dude said he needed a break not a break up, !!!! What she needs to do is to have him define the break , how long and the rules that govern it and

determine a time when they will review their time apart and make a decision how to forge ahead either separately or jointly.

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^^^ You've said it all, Tolutara

You sound quite immature (no offense intended). What you should have done is wait, If you have to audacity to run off with someone else every time you have a dispute with your bf, then you shouldn't be in a relationship 'cos your future relationships will be tougher than this one. If you keep running off, you'll be forever single . Just my 2 cents

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break doesnt mean vacation with a handsome dude who liks you, i hope he 4gives you!

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Let's say you asked for a break and you still had feelings for me. Then I went and vacationed with another chick, that'll be insulting to you and would make you want to end the relationship (even if you never planned to).

put your foot in his Nikes and you'll see that what you did was wrong.

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The man wants you to leave him alone while he thinks about what he wants to do with you, he may have decided already and you missed all the signs, read between the lines girl. Your dude chose his words well to avoid breaking your heart but it seems you are not hearing what he is saying, leave him alone, if he is yours, he will come back to you, no need to chase after him, he is a grown man who knows what he wants and right now, it is a break from YOU! Don't contact him, deal with your emotions and anticipate he may be gone for good, prepare for the worst so you won't get hurt if he does not come back!

I hope the above will give you something to think about,

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