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Guys - Would You Consider Dating A 19 Year Old If You Were In Your 30s?

If I was 30, I would not date a 19-year-old, Her immaturity would annoy the heck out of me.

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Because, if you marry your age mate or even less than 5 years difference, at 40 years you will be living with an older woman while you are still a young bobo. Worse still if she gets fatter after childbirth, she go resemble your senior sister and that could be a cause for infidelity

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Why not! It's better i catch them young!8-)

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I will be in my 30s very soon an girls seems not to bliv my age cos am younger than my age.

So guyz, sb lyk me to this age.

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Most of these old Bottom men dating babies anyway.

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i wouldn't mind as long as he looks young,has money,and has a house and a car.

my parents are 15 years apart

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why not, ive heard of ibo guys who marry young girls of that age band groomed for them when they are in their 30's

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yes, if she is beautiful and i like her.

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Lets face it, its the in-thing nowadays. older man younger woman; older woman younger man . nothing wrong with that as long as theres understanding trust love and respect

get out your naijamentality and get into the programme people, free your mind

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@post why not,soo long as she s totally cool with it then its no one's business

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Actually, making  plans to marry 19y/o girl is somewhat complex due  to many factors that  are involved. l  do agree that age difference does not have bearing with love.As the same time,maturity really plays important  role in any loving-relationship. One of the most critical factors is  the fear  from the gal's family with respect to many things. Fear of  being dominated by  the husband-to-be, if the girl comes from a good family home with tag on social norms and  values. Also, the orientation of the girl in question to prepare for future challenges in terms of home responsibilities and  other things that go along with marriage life.In recent times, my experience with a 20y/o girl of one university really tells me how defective are the once cherished social norms and values are. Most importantly in any loving relationship,family background,social  norms and values and the orientations of  the girl involved really determine, how far the marriage will be designed by her and  how far,she can follow "instructions" from her  older hubby to be.

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i think that one is the best for me as age as got notin to do with marraige.

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the older some people the sillier they become. some young girls are wiser and more mature than some 30+ who have seen life. some adults are confused and too messed up for healthy relationships.

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of course YES!!!

as a matter of fact, if im getting married at age 30, ill marry a gurl of 20

anything above that is NO NO NO

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Age is a thing of the mind and maturity is not age.Age is something you can do nothing about as its a natural occurence but maturity is a mindset.My hubby is 10yrs+ older than i am(we did not meet when i was 19 though) but i really do not feel the age difference is an issue .I sometimes forget that he is older than i am due to the kind of relationship that we have.I therefore think that age is an issue based on the parties involved,i have met someone who is younger than his wife and acts far matured than she is so its basically up to the individuals involved.And as someone stated it's like imagining a 39 yr old woman with a 50yr old man.See it does'nt sound that funny when put that way.(think its the 'teen' still behind the 19 that makes it look appalling to some people)

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James Bassey likes to catch them young, their Kitty-cats are tight.

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age is nothing by the number,but maturity is a thing of the mind, so what are u after number or the mind?

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n' dere are sum 30 year-old that act like 16 year-old. . dey are just old cargos 4 nothing. . but are raving dullards n' reli annoyin too. . . even 30+ people. .

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HELL NO!!!

i cant even date sumone dat is 5-6 years older dan mi. . .

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as long as shes matured enough,i dont see a crime in it

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There's no way in God's green earth I would date or marry a girl aged 19 when am already 32,, it's absurd;,, the least I'll go for is 23-25 yrs,, I consider that craddle-robber in nature. I see them as my younger onces that I could give lunch money everytime we see and make sure they get home safe and sound.

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what is piping level again oh!

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it really depends on what im after. i wuld b after d straff to chase a gurl that young.

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Of course!

Even 18 down to 16 is fine.

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sure can if she doesnt look that young

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@Kitaun

ehrrrrm, you're 30?

Ok, change of plan. I'm denying you o, plz

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No. She would be too immature and just too damn annoying.

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if i ask a gurl out and shes older than 19, im off. . .

when im getting married, my wife will be 19.

whats wrong with that? na u go feed am?

@Moyola

hmmmmmmmmm. . .odebunmi afonka?

thats where i used to play basketball those days in shasha. . .

now i know who u are!!!

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I don't knw about Dating ooo. . . .

But if na piping level. . . . .no shaking

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@ topic

19yrz datin 30yrz! drz notin wrung wiv it

buh me kiant! lailai!!

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Depends on maturity levels, some 16yr olds over here behave more mature than 30 yr olds. I would consider it but in the rare situation that the 19yr old girl is mature enough to face life as an adult and not a kid.

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at 19 shes no kid i was at my final year at dat age but bin a child is not the age its the manner or level of maturity. wat do u reali want to know?

love has no conditions attached to it and dat mins no consideration. if u are ashamed of it then dont go into it wait for a year and she wud be 20 then u wnt bother about it after all.

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My mum married a 30 yr old at 19, wats the biggie?

My sister met her husband at 19, he was 29.

they got married 8yrs after.

Whats the Big deal in this for goodness sake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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its quite obvious u picked on me because u seem to be affected by the age factor in dis topic. what cud a teenager be up to with a dude who's lived over a quater of his life as a player. for your notice, they are just taken undue advantage of u. u think u are smart when u tag along with such peeps, over half of them have a serious relationships somewhere,and u are just a past-time individual.

well hold on to your believe. every action has its reward

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Yeah, i WILL date a 19 year old girl for sure ! it was never an issue and i dont think it WILL be !

Cheers

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No big deal as long as the woman in question is matured enough and the fella is not taking advantage of the girl!!

It wont be child abuse or cradle snatching (as some people would like to term it)

Why cant people condem aristos, or girls who sleep with old enuff men to be thier fathers and vice versa for guys with older women?!

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Personally, I wont. But at the same time, i wont condemn anyone who decides to, i've meant loads off girls between 19-22yrs old and they are already full grown women. If she doesnt mind sacrificing are freedom and enjoying some of her best years I dont see a problem with it.

Those people screaming blue murder, child abuse, paedophile etc I'm sure you guys do worse things in the dark.

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cud someone pls help me define the trerm 'Child Abuse'?

for me the meaning of child abuse is the topic at hand.

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There is no fast rules about age and dating. the real factor is maturity. Teenagers are the best materials for relationships but we are in an insane clime .

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I'll certainly do. Age is not love, it's just numbers. If you realy love her go ahead man, YOU RULE!

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@ Nana.

i never knew u to be a clown(lol), well, lets just c d funny side of this and move on.

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Ehrrm, 30 year old man? I would not!

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Women tend to grow a bit faster than men, physically and often times emotionally.

I hpe this answers the question and puts all other doubts to sleep.

Enuff said!

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@ topic

What's she doing with an old man who smells of death?

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