If I was 30, I would not date a 19-year-old, Her immaturity would annoy the heck out of me.
Actually, making plans to marry 19y/o girl is somewhat complex due to many factors that are involved. l do agree that age difference does not have bearing with love.As the same time,maturity really plays important role in any loving-relationship. One of the most critical factors is the fear from the gal's family with respect to many things. Fear of being dominated by the husband-to-be, if the girl comes from a good family home with tag on social norms and values. Also, the orientation of the girl in question to prepare for future challenges in terms of home responsibilities and other things that go along with marriage life.In recent times, my experience with a 20y/o girl of one university really tells me how defective are the once cherished social norms and values are. Most importantly in any loving relationship,family background,social norms and values and the orientations of the girl involved really determine, how far the marriage will be designed by her and how far,she can follow "instructions" from her older hubby to be.
Age is a thing of the mind and maturity is not age.Age is something you can do nothing about as its a natural occurence but maturity is a mindset.My hubby is 10yrs+ older than i am(we did not meet when i was 19 though) but i really do not feel the age difference is an issue .I sometimes forget that he is older than i am due to the kind of relationship that we have.I therefore think that age is an issue based on the parties involved,i have met someone who is younger than his wife and acts far matured than she is so its basically up to the individuals involved.And as someone stated it's like imagining a 39 yr old woman with a 50yr old man.See it does'nt sound that funny when put that way.(think its the 'teen' still behind the 19 that makes it look appalling to some people)
There's no way in God's green earth I would date or marry a girl aged 19 when am already 32,, it's absurd;,, the least I'll go for is 23-25 yrs,, I consider that craddle-robber in nature. I see them as my younger onces that I could give lunch money everytime we see and make sure they get home safe and sound.
at 19 shes no kid i was at my final year at dat age but bin a child is not the age its the manner or level of maturity. wat do u reali want to know?
love has no conditions attached to it and dat mins no consideration. if u are ashamed of it then dont go into it wait for a year and she wud be 20 then u wnt bother about it after all.
its quite obvious u picked on me because u seem to be affected by the age factor in dis topic. what cud a teenager be up to with a dude who's lived over a quater of his life as a player. for your notice, they are just taken undue advantage of u. u think u are smart when u tag along with such peeps, over half of them have a serious relationships somewhere,and u are just a past-time individual.
well hold on to your believe. every action has its reward
No big deal as long as the woman in question is matured enough and the fella is not taking advantage of the girl!!
It wont be child abuse or cradle snatching (as some people would like to term it)
Why cant people condem aristos, or girls who sleep with old enuff men to be thier fathers and vice versa for guys with older women?!
Personally, I wont. But at the same time, i wont condemn anyone who decides to, i've meant loads off girls between 19-22yrs old and they are already full grown women. If she doesnt mind sacrificing are freedom and enjoying some of her best years I dont see a problem with it.
Those people screaming blue murder, child abuse, paedophile etc I'm sure you guys do worse things in the dark.