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Guys: Would You Marry A Lady Based On The Fact That She Is Pregnant For You?

guys: would you marry a lady based on the fact that she is pregnant for you?

ladies: would you marry a guy jus bcus you are pregnant for him?

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Babeelove, just tell him to IM me. I have a name in mind. In fact, i read his post just now. But, I just want to be sure. I may be wrong you know. Images in the mirror may sometimes be distorted by external factors. Or tell him to meet me at my creedo forum. Hope you get it?

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$$Rhino,

I am glad you are around. How is work? Hope madam is not getting workup when you stay long on nairaland.

Babeelove,

I narrowed my search to only two on nairaland. I would not reveal them to avoid some nosy guys poke their nose on you. Anyway, just know my finding is personal and not for public consumption.

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Guess, i am enjoying your raps, realy good to release stress at work, keep it coming

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Babelove,

Did I really use my "metaphysical rap" on you? Did I really get any?

You just hit at people like you hit your keyboard. Be careful lest you have to be changing the keyboard every weeks.

Can you tell your hubby to chat me?

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some guys are heartless. why should you bang someone you can't marry anyway?

keep your prick in your pant please.

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Babeelove,

just read you own words again and see how it rhyme.

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Babeelove,

if you want to know my opinion, I think you have enough pool to draw from.

My sentiment is the tendency to generalise. I don't subscribe to it.

It is not everytime something go wrong in a relationship that a man is at fault. Women know better how to prevent pregnancies. For instance, only a woman know the time she can conceive. Her ovulation period is exclusively within her knowledge. And it doesn't happen everyday. A man will never know when a woman is ovulating unless the woman tell him.

If she willingly sleep with a man and get pregnant without the man's knowledge, problem arises. The man start thinking of taking responsibility. What can he do?

There is also cases of women getting pregnant delibrately for a man to trap him in marriage.

All these are not to make an excuse for irresponsible men but a clear testimony to the fact that most women are to blame in event of unwanted belle.

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Babelove,

there is no point in acting ignorant. You are intelligent enough to read the line. The frivolity is actually on Mili-Babe you adopted.

Talking about being careless to sleep with a knukle head, the sermon is unnecesary. You need it more than anyone in the forum. Have you ever heard, or caught me romancing? I am real Mili-Babe! Please stop acting.

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close to impossible? why?

we just need to behave like adults, not randy little kids and think with the brains in our heads.

That is my policy anyways, you sleep with someone, you bear the consequences, no copping out.

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debosky, as much as i so much agree with you, however, you and i knows that it is close to impossible.

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omoge, i never said it wasnt, but why the continuity in insanity?

it will be really sad to marry a woman all in da name of she is pregnant, it is a sad situation that a child will come forth and might have to go thru some few things in life, however, better than the child seeing the mother and father going at it by day, being at each other's throat all cos they cant tolerate each other, no love, nothing, sad, only God can help such situation

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wasn't it insanity when someone decides to make love to a person you aren't married to? and without protection for that matter? that's why i think bf and gf thing is insane. cuz guys talk from both side of their mouth!

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most of the other people responding to this post have mentioned this already

A baby doesn't equal a successful marriage. just because someone is pregnant for you doesn't mean you marry that person. your main responsibility is to make sure that child is well taken care of financially mentally emotionally etc

Dont make a mistake and get stuck with some chick who is just a hit and run and by the way put a cap on it pregnancy might be the least of your problems

Don't make a mistake of Banging/have sex when you are not ready to settle down. hold you blokoss and wait, you won't die from lack of bang. it's not good to sleep with a girl and get her pregnant when you know you aren't ready to marry her. [/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

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i blv marrying cos of pregnancy is the worst thing 2 peopkle could do to themselves, it is like commiting the rest of your life into insanity, i will be in the life of the kid full time, if the mother lets me, and if the mother won't let me, i will go to court to be in the life of the kid, i will rather have me and the woman take our time to be sure that it will work out, cos i ave seen enuf men and women getting married all cos of big belle, and as much as big belle bo be sin, forcing yourself to marry someone that is not totally cos of love, that is insane, and i will not be part to it, there are so many i love you(s) and nor enuf i am in love with you, if i am not in love with the woman, there is no how we cld share the future and a home.

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Joker!!! I know more than you think I know. But I have no time for frivolities.

Let forget it. Can we, Babeelove? You know very well that once I start again, I would not rest till I exhume the corpse that had been burried?

Let me take you back to the topic mili-babelove.

Is it proper to marry a woman just because a man blow im belle?

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I am only trying to give my mirror a better job. To work on you and unravel a mystey. If you ask me to keep my mirror done. I don't go for trouble because TROUBLE TROUBLES THOSE WHO TROUBLES TROUBLE.

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I would not marry a lady simply because she's pregnant for me. I will only make sure I accept my baby but definately not marry the mother if I never intended to do that before.

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So babeelove is militia?

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So babeelove is militia?

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In that case, why go into sexual relationship? Why let the pregnancy formed before realizing that you don't need the baby? Why bring up a baby into a wicked world of neglect single parent etc

I think it is irresponsible for men to impregnate a woman and suddenly discover that they 'don't love the lady'. It is a silly act.

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most of the other people responding to this post have mentioned this already

A baby doesn't equal a successful marriage. just because someone is pregnant for you doesn't mean you marry that person. your main responsibility is to make sure that child is well taken care of financially mentally emotionally etc

Dont make a mistake and get stuck with some chick who is just a hit and run and by the way put a cap on it pregnancy might be the least of your problems

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Personally, i feel pregnancy shold not force u into marriage!

Ask urselves, would u put up with a marriage that leaves u feeling unfufilled, that hinders u from becoming that person u are inside, or wanna be in life, or that makes u sad every day of ur life?

Its a matter of chioce, as for me, I WILL TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY OF MY BABY, GIVE NECESSARY SUPORT TO THE LADY, TYR TO MAKE AMENDS FOR MY MISTAKES. But if marriage in not on the table, i will not spend the rest of my life in regret because a mistake was made.

MARRIAGE IS MORE THAN 2 PEOPLE FEELING OBLIGED TO MARRY JUST BECAUSE THEY HAD A BABY!

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In that case, why go into sexual relationship? Why let the pregnancy formed before realizing that you don't need the baby? Why bring up a baby into a wicked world of neglect single parent etc

I think it is irresponsible for men to impregnate a woman and suddenly discover that they 'don't love the lady'. It is a silly act.

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