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Guyz-can You Marry A Lady Older Than You?

I dont know guyz opiniom about this, cos considering how she would look like after given birth and the use they have put themselves to in the past, generally am of the opinion that ladies get to look older than their age. Pls share your view. Thks.

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Tina Turner is 20 years older than her boyfriend who is a White German Record Producer

Demi Moore is 20 years older than her husband - Ashton - he is a few years older than her oldest daughter - Demi looks to be in her late 20s but is closer to 50 or so

It isn't about the physical age

If you have taken care of your appearance and your shape and your thought process is youthful - very few would be able to tell your actual age

Also if you marry or date a younger man - if he is "mature" and he has "experienced life" - you as a couple are focused on "achievement" versus the circles on the Oak Tree of Age

I would date a younger male but only if he is a "few years younger"

My man is a year younger - but acts 20 years older than I - I am stunned because I "am extremely mature" for my age and I have always been "more mature acting" since puberty.

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It is not good 4 a man 2 date a lady that is older than u.it is an abormination 2 our culture in nigeria.Think of it how mature the lady will be when she will give birth 2 a child.Though she might b a younger girl bt when she gives birth she will look mature than u. My guy accept my point.

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if she get money abi?

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NEW COMMERS WE HAVE DISCUSSED THIS TOPIC MANY TIMES AND WE HAVE COME TO AN AGREEMENT THAT is not advisable for a guy to marry an older lady. ADVICE NO BE CORSE O IF U LIKE MARRY UR GRANDMAMA!

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Yes! i can date someone who's older than me and am currently dating someone who's older than me (Please don't ask me how old my girl is).

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Matured Women Rocks, Younger girls suck

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as for me sure,its no big deal infact am in love with some one much more older than i am cos i believe shes been in n out of the whole and she can really handle one and add value to me,and not all this tooth pick leggd girls who still wnt to hv a feel of what the out side world is, but i bet u she dose not knw am feelin all this things for her just within me,

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Why NOT. Wetin do her?Is she disabled.As long as she get something all other women get between her legs. If she even get money make she like be 80 years i no mind

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Young guys used to always approach me and I would blow them off. I met a white guy who was a colleague of mine and we dated 2 yrs. It was good. He just liked older black women.

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I can naver marry an older woman,but I can date one.

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Camelot,

i don't need her money, by the way she is not rich that much, she is normal as i, i love her coz of her character, her passion, her tenderness , i wanna treat her nice and take care of her children, she deserve the best treatment and love, believe me

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i will marry someone i love and loves me in return,age can't be a barrier.

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there shouldnt be a big deal

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na wah o.only you?

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most people here are not truthful to themselves. they can dat an older woman but cannot marry her. haba. well, when you find true love, age may not be a factor. my wife is older than myself and she has been the best thing to happen to me.

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and why not?

If she makes you happy and adds value to your life.

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My gf is older than me by age and younger than me in appearance, she is slim and has a nice hips and legs . She makes me happy all time, what else do I need from a woman if not happiness? The problem is if she is going to get fat in my house. I dont like fat women and other things Negro mentioned. There is nothing wrong getting married to older lady.

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No bulgy stomach, I don't care if its before or after birth. . .no sign of obesity, now or in future. . .body is toned, no sign of sagginess in the arms, under arm, bosom area, pubic area, thighs, or in the derriere. If all that is true, I don't care she's older I will marry her.

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older gals find me attractive and loving.that has been the case since i knew who i was.my ex is 2years older so as others alike and seriously i don't mind taking an older lady to the alter,after all true love is unconditional and when i see one i will jump at it regardless of age.

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I love dating ladies older than i am cos they are always very caring. But marrying one might not be very good cos one day she'll be like 'we have to do it my way cos i'm more experienced than you are

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Thought i was d only one feeling like this, my last girl was older than me so is the present one.

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yeah! The idea is not too bad.i just found out that all the girls that i've dated and been obsessed with all my life have always been older except just one which was pretty immature.So to me, they're the best .But the difference in age should not be more than three years max.But the kind of girls that catch my admiration are girls that look very much younger than their age but with a muture disposition and personality.

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depends on the kind of guys u are talkinga bout, cos 9ja guyz can do anything 4 money

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I can never "marry" a girl older than I am but i can date them. Someday, the age difference would get into her fu****g skull and she'll definately misbehave. I love dating older and mature women sha,

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My people,

Honestly, I do not think I can marry a girl younger than I am. I have tried to be with the younger girls around but he kind of response I get is so annoying. And besides, there is thing about the older gals, they are kind of 'more matured'.

They not frequently asking the 'Whys?' and they are very loving maybe because they think they have something to lose. Honestly, I think I find myself more in love with older girls. However, the question is: Are the ladies ready to marry guys younger than they are? I have found out that the ladies are not ready to even marry younger guys.

Somehow, we have to find a way to balance the equation,

Jojo

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i can not get married to somone younger then me. i like mature ladies alot i dont know why

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