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Has Any Of You Taken A Break And Come Back For The Better? Pls Share

Please would like to hear stories, experiences of some of you that have or know people that took breaks in their relationships and came back and it worked. Share.

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yes i took a break from a longtime r/ship cos i felt the guy didnt know my worth and i was tired of waiting for him to value me like i wanted.3mnths later he is doing all the things i had to beg him to do and he is still there just waiting for me to come back but no i didnt go back the break helped me figure out where i wnted to be and it was without him.it can go anyway u just cnt tell which way.

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Yes, We took a break for about 4 months. He needed time to figure out what he wanted out of the relationship. BTW we dated 3 years. it was fine with me cos i needed the break too.

However we were still friends, keep open lines of communication but did not hang out together. We both hated it and reliased we were happier being together , it helped us put the relationship in perspective.

When we decided to get back together, he did it with a marriage proposal. That was 5 years ago. Breaks are not bad, it depends on the mature minds of both people involved.

@poster, he is telling you he needs room to think and i think you should let him. in the meanwhile, you should do some soul-searching as well. You might actually not want him back.

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I thought people only say I need a break when they actually want to break up?

Relationships have no breaks, It's an everyday affair.

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gbam~

dont take a break

It never works

instead talk abt it

and pray abt it~

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Done that "taking a break thing"and trust me in most cases its not worth it, coz that/ those same thing/s that made you guys take in a break in the first place, will still be there when you guys resume from your break,

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Sory I dont have the answer you want to hear. But he is back after two years and its the same old crap even after the longest of talks (mind plural) we had. I've even graduated to mommy the one thing I've been avoiding. Silly me I love him

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