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He Denied The Pregnancy, What Do I Do?

I have been dating this widower whom wife died at childbirth and took in some months back. He initially wanted me to abort the baby but I refused, he allowed me to keep the pregnancy. Now, when my family wanted him to take responsibility for the baby, he said he wasn't sure if he is responsible for the pregnancy, that I should deliver the baby in my brother's house and after delivery, we will determine the paternity of the child.

I feel so sad that the father of my child should treat me so bad at this point in time. Granted that he has financial difficulty which I appreciate but I think I deserve a better treatment than what I got. What do I do? Raise my child all by myself or go to the welfare as I don't have a job.

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Please have a paternity test when the child is born.

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my little advice for u is that u shld leave the pregnancy. i am sure that God has a purpose for everything that happens in life. the unborn child may be ur future so my dear keep it and God will see u through. as time goes on u will know wat to do. For the fact that u are under stress now u may not know wat to do so stay calm.

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i think you deserved a better treatment. if you are certain he is the father of your unborn child and he is not ready to take responsibilities. i would suggest you move on with your life and raise your unborn child when he/she is finally born.

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try to contribute to a topic and if u gat nothing to say just log out

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I'd suggest that you should keep the baby,am sure there will be a reason for him to question the baby's fraternity,after the birth you can carry out a DNA test and he should be ready to forgive him.Though it hurts that he doesn't trust you but you will have to forgive him when he is back.

Even if not now,years to come,he will be back to claim the child's fraternity.

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just listen to me plz, keep the baby and have it am strogly sure that he will come begging on his kness to have that baby, cos that child of urs will be great in life, insha Allah (solatu-l-fathi)

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but do u tink killing an unknown baby is right

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haaaaaaaaaa oreofemi i really like u b4 but now am beggining to give u a second thought, dont u know that by terminating it she has bcome a mudra, plz dont terminate it there is a better way to go about it, just answer my question,are u sure u are faithful to him, be honest plzzzzzzzzzzz

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terminate the pregnancy .

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Yes, I am faithful. And I am not terminating it, I am already going for my ante natal. He denied the pregnancy at 7 months although I had no intention of aborting it from day one no matter the pressure.

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