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Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?

Wassup Y'all,

Its Successchild again. True story here. Heart break: Who hurts more. Take this two true-life stories. The names and location have been modified to avoid any complications.

Case I: Armanda loves her bobo. she had been nursing the day he'll ask her hand in marriage. But on day, she went to but him a surpise gift, but, in getting home, she found him, in hot S*X with her best friend shamelessly right there in the living room. She throw the gift at him, goes home and as the tears flow down her eyes, she now the relationship flow away for good just like the tears,

Case II: Joaquin, a young working class hhustler, has a relatively good paying job (hoping that one day e go betta). His chic Jessie, realy digs him (but because of greed or inpatience) she can't wait till he "Hammers"(make it big). One day after the went out for lunch, Joaquin and Jessie were at the bus stop, it became cloudy, THEN a black BMW 7series parks and offers Jessie a ride, she accepts. Joaquin is Stunned. As the car drives of he know the relationship is driving out of his life and just then the rain start, pouring heavily on him,

Real talk y'all. How hurts more.

I need your feedback.

Holla

Successchild

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I believe there is no difference in the level of pain between genders. It depends on the individual and the level or amount of love s/he put into the relationship. It also depends on how s/he deals with a heartbreak. We all cope with pain differently.

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lol! never speechless.

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Leave me alone! Stalker!

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i think girls hurt more. topup has been going psycho crazy ever since she lost her boyfriend.

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I read somewhere that guys tend to hurt more, for the reasons mentioned by other people.

Guys hold it inside, they hide it from their guy friends, they seek quick fixes and rebound relationships and never want to actually address the pain hence they live in a bubble for the same weeks/months the girl is crying, and her girlfriends are cheering her up, and she's opening up, talking about her pain, her fears and anxieties.

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Ashamed of what? Love?

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WOMEN HURT MORE, NOT BECAUSE WE LOVE U MORE OR HARDER, BUT BECAUSE WE LOVE FASTER. A GIRL CAN BE DATING TWO GUYS AT ONCE AND EVEN AFTER SHE BREAKS UP WIHT ONE SHE WILL STILL HURT. ITS THOSE DAMN HORMONES, SOMETIMES WE JUST CANT CONTROL IT

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i have seen men tearing them self with bottle because of heart break, i think ladies only feel ashamed

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I think it's the woman b/c they have their heart in it more. Just my opinion. And my experience.

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Well, its not about the sex. it depends on the emotion although girls are believed to have a weaker heart by the nature of their existence but you find some emotional men aswell unless you no get heart.

HEart BReak na Heart Break , he no get any other name and unless love is not attached even though na money or material things dey attached, he still dey pain.

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girl hurts more than men,

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i think, it depends on the individual involved.

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It really could go either way. There are some women who bounce back really quickly too.

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heartbreak?methinks it is the girl.I speak from experience and I speak for myself

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well from my experience,the ladies hurt more,my ex girl friend,hurts me reall bad,she came to me one day and told me she is no longer interested,gosh i felt like my world is coming to an end,

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Why should you love someone that doesn't love you back? Unrequited love is like a dream that one must wake up from in order to face reality. When you are with someone that doesn't appreciate you, you are treated like a servant-girl (or boy) when you should be treated as a queen (or king)!

This common tendency to love someone in an irrational, one-sided way springs from the emotions and is understandable, but it should be treated like a disease and wiped out before it brings one to ruin!

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Thank you snazzy! It's gonna hurt either way if you love the person, and how quickly you get over it depends on who you are, whether man or woman.

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IMO,it hurts both ways,especially if you loved the person sooooo badly!!!

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guys will hurt u more, cos it's only few of em' that have the gift to care.

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oh word. thats exactly what my psychology professor was saying. cuz we gurls have means to get over the heart break for example we talk it out with our friends, family members e.t.c, but the guys prefer to keep it to themselves instead of expressing their feelings.

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i realy feel ladies do take more of the heat,am not sayin dis cos am a chick but becos we re very emotional in dealin with issues like these,most guys just shrug their shoulders and continue with their lives but it becomes an everlastin stigma 4 we ladies especially wen d relationship is built on s'''''x.

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personally i think men take it harder, girls will go crazy discuss it with their girlfriends work through it. guys keep it inside ,they can't express themself so freely so it eats away inside.

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well its goes both way both the boy and the girl.

cos we are all humans.

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