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Her Church Does Not Marry Non-member Of The Church, What Can I Do ?

The only lady i love, who said she loves me as well, attends a church where they don't dare date somebody outside the church. The worst part of the case is that she is staying with the General Overseer who treats her like his own child. To face the man and tell him she loves an outsider is the problem. Can somebody advise me how to help this babe, for i love this lady a lot

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I can't understand the logic behind this solution. Please explain.

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Are you a Christian? If you are then she needs to leave that church. Marrying you will obviously not take her away from Christ if you are also saved. If that church has that much control of her life then you might as well be marrying the church also. The church will always come up in every decision you guys make. I am not saying not to marry her but if you do be prepared to deal with the over bearing church members. You cannot hold it against her after you marry her. This is the time to make those decisions. Think about it. Think very hard.

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think you dont have much choice.join her church then

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Na Cele church be that ni?

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He'll get hooked. It's not as easy as it seems. Some of these churches are like cults. Once you get in, you can't back out.

I'd advise he moves on!

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If the church nor gree make you marry am, abeg leave the babe !

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When you die, you shall live your church!

Anyways, Bleep her and the church.

Brainwashed !

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ya join the church and after the wedding, you can go back to your main church.

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in this age and time,this should not be an issue

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Dont join d church, else u're marrying 4 d wrong reasons. If u do, many more adjustments to fit her life/church hav 2 b made.

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i wonder why you are giving yourself headache. just join the church one time and your problems are over trust me.

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