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Honesty Rules! What Is Really The Fastest Way To A Guy's Heart?

I have pondered and wondered.

I have searched and asked.

What trully makes a man tick.

There are a few that stick,

but many actually flee

from what thier eyes see

but it stiil leaves me many do's and can'ts

as to what a man trully wants.

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I totally agree with Blue moon.

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I've tried this and it works, Be a good listener. let him pour out all his problems.

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u said the thread was educative, i was wondering how?

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Suck his gbrigidi and he will b yr 4ever

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I think the guys on this thread should frame the question to be "How can a girl,win my heart"

For me I'll say

1. An undying passion for God.

2. Complete respect for me.

3. Good sex,and a lady who doesn't treat sex as a taboo.

Basically these are impt to me,other things can be improved upon.

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Quite an educative thread

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Keeping it real. No incognito. No front. No 50/50. Just 100% you.

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The quickest way to my baby's heart was God's inspired and I was myself. I did not pretend to be someone else.

The rest is history, WEDDING IS IN JULY!

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@ poster

At some points in time when questions like this come up,there are always certain things ladies dont realise and still dont understand about men.

There are three basic things that drive a Man, It doesnt matter which part of the world he comes from.

1. Ego (Ambition, Standard of living,Respect from others, etc)

2. Intimacy

3.Food ( to a reasonable extent)

Pay strict attention to the first one and you would be succssful with any man.

Beleive me, Intimacy is not the major thing a guy needs but might later become his priority when he discovers that his ego has being brutalised by his lady and when this happens, such a lady is no longer considered as a wife material.

Guys are always guys,this thing is inbuilt not only in men ,even in boy of less than 10 yrs of age.

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Well said subtract nothing 4rm this and note nothing irritates most men like nagging myself as a eg.

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Be yourself! Real men like women who are real to them. Never pretend to be who you are not or start what you can't finish!

Support, motivate and encourage him. Let him feel comfortable around you. A man likes to know his woman compliments him in a positive way.

Be Honest with him. Men like to know they can trust the woman they with. Even though the truth might hurt, tell him nothing but the truth!

If he's wronged you, let him know! But do not beat him about it or tell him the history of everything he's ever done wrong in the relationship. Nothing puts off a man like a nagging woman. Even the bible says it. A man should be able to find peace and happiness in your company.

As a woman you should know when and how to present your case to your man. This doesn't make you a dummy, it only makes you a wise woman.

Do not barrage him with exorbitant requests. Whatever he gives you, show appreciation and be content with it. A man who genuinely cares about his woman, hates to think she sees him as nothing but a money producing factory (Mugu.)

Pray for him. Not just praying about him but genuinely committing his welfare into God's hands. A lot of women do not pray for their men. Might be funny, but in reality true. Let your man know you care enough to remember him in your prayers.

Appreciate him. No man likes to think his woman does not appreciate the little efforts he makes in and outside the relationship.

Respect Him. This is important to a lot of men. Respecting your man doesn't necessarily mean your silly or a dummy, it just makes you a smart woman. Because every man likes to know he gets some respect from his lady.

Lastly, Love him whole heartedly. Loving him whole heartedly doesn't mean stupidity or weakness. It just means you being real and genuine to him.

If he's a real and genuine man(Not a Jerk) he'll see you as a priceless jewel and truly appreciate you.

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Fastest way to a Man's heart is to make him feel like a Man.  Problem with women is that they think men think like woman.  Men like to be the boss, they like to be strong, a protector, a provider, they like to lead, and lots of sx.  Most modern women do the opposite because it is against what society teaches them.  Most women like to compete or challenge their men.  So now we have a high divorce or infidelity rate.

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elrazur: u are one nasty guy, whats the fastest to yours?

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The old saying that the fastest way to a man's heart is 2ru his mouth is true, cos juju works fast when eaten. Guys beware!

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just this rhyme will come to me as the fastest way to any man's heart

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