«Home

How Can A Black American Girl Get A Nigerian Guy?

I am just asking for reference. Are they too culturally incompatible for the relationship to last?

What are some good places for an American girl living in America to meet a Nigerian guy?

I have a bf I am asking for my sis.

Avatar
Newbie
62 answers

^^ look, no be today some daft naija guys have been overly sensitive over foreign women who they think they need to "protect".

The whole world would view you better if you expended half as much energy being so considerate of your own women,, instead of the moonshine you're spouting here.

I'm surprised bawomolo, jassie and the rest of the needy ones havent shown up yet, complete with body armor and helmets, ready to defend somebody's "honour"

tales by moonlight.

There are plenty of Naija women married to or dating non-naija males, and till now I'm yet to see their partners taking up arms over irrelevancies like Nigerian men.

People must not post comments again or what?

Let the woman speak for herself, dumbo. She has responded to my post already, so what's your own again?

Una woman wrapper attitude is disgusting.

The way you people go on and on, one would think nobody meets jamaicans or whoever in real life.

ara oko de ilu

the guys in these videos also know Nigeria better than you. Any comments?

0
Avatar
Newbie

No one  is picking any battle with you but just calling you out on your mistake but we know like you have just displaced that naija sisters are very allergic to corrections and always expect their men to be on their side. It will do you good to look up the meaning of woman wrapper once again and i never remembered stating anywhere to you that i am a nigerian. That doesn't mean i am ignorant to the meaning of your rants in yoruba language

Just look how far your ignorance has taken you by calling me fresh from the boat like you know anything about me, it is of no use engaging with you any further. You can continue displaying your self hate to any good news that relates naija men with other foreign women which you sisters have been know for all over the world right now.

"I am also Jamaican" like you don't know some animals are more equal than others according to "George O". So a Jamaican who has lived in Nigeria  for sometime cannot be better informed than those who have not because they are both Jamaicans?.  Work on your ignorance, generalization and stereotyping sister.

Anyway peace to you ( no hard feelings ) and enjoy your Easter.

0
Avatar
Newbie

easy on the waterworks.

Last time I checked, Jamaicans are better able to stand up for themselves than Nigerians.

neither do i hear any jamaicans whining about how bad their leaders are and how life is always treating them badly.

So your concern is rather superfluous, imo.

in other words, back off!!! There was nothing rude about my post and learn to pick your battles.

geez- you naija guys are so annoying when you start your woman wrapper ways!!!

Una dey too local, I swear. Fresh off the boat and person no go hear word again.

If it's not "oh, australian aborigines and solomon islanders are the best type of women", it will be "Did you know amazon rain forest dwellers are the best in bed"

ara oko wo ilu

I'm also jamaican, so dont get your panties in a bunch.

hiss.

0
Avatar
Newbie

Just tell him you're "Jamaican" and you can cook, then he's yours.

0
Avatar
Newbie

@Ebony. . .I read your post in the other thread but no time to sit down yet to write a response.

See, I will confidently say that MAJORITY of decent Nigerian guys DO NOT need papers or whatever documents to live in a foreign country, whatever country it is! Look, I like many Nigerian guys (this including A LOT of my friends) wish to find decent and real women! This is definitely easy in Naija but in a foreign country, it is a different ball game! You know what? Last year, two of my friends had to go to Nigeria to get married. . .and one did it in the most ridiculous way! Is it that there is NO Nigerian woman here that he will get married to a lady who was just a friend in the real sense of the word: FRIEND. They were not dating before he came here but now, they have their first baby! This is a correct, well-educated and paid guy some clueless lady should have held on to but like they say, pride goes before a fall! Some Nigerian men may be be "bad" in some sense but we are still way better in our attitude and way of life than our women, especially in a foreign country! You know one of the biggest problems Nigerian women have: A HUGE LOAD OF EMPTY PRIDE AND silly WESTERNIZED ATTITUDE that won't abate until she is way into her late thirties. Tell me, what hard working, smart and goal-getting Naija man would want a woman who is already OLD (yes, even just at 30!), giving out her womanhood to anything only to turn around to HATE Naija men?

For example, read this thread again and see how Nigerian women are quick to castigate Nigerian men, to make us less desirable. . .even when we are wanted by other women. . .this is what they will be doing until it is quarter to midnight!

0
Avatar
Newbie

No it is not a cultural thing, it is more an individual thing. Tayo did u bother to ask these guys why they went off you so quickly?

0
Avatar
Newbie

That is so true. So but what is it with Nigerian men an the LIES/SCAMS? Sha, such a turn off.

I keep gettign approached by Nigerian men but I notice that they tend to go cold so quickly is it a cultural thing?

Cos I don't get that with men from other countries.

0
Avatar
Newbie

Just have to open your eyes, some just want the papers and will divorce you as soon as they get the papers.

0
Avatar
Newbie

the thread should even be about "How can a Black American woman avoid all these naija guys wey dey chase me".

0
Avatar
Newbie

i am suitable

just connect me

godisable_to@yahoo.com

www.loveandromancewins.blogspot.com

0
Avatar
Newbie

This Stuff is Crazy !!!!!, lol

0
Avatar
Newbie

@Poster

Hmm, am available. Tell ur sister to apply in writing. Two photographs; a passport and 5 x 7. Offer last while,

0
Avatar
Newbie

No2Atheism (m):

Re: How Can A Black American Girl Get A Nigerian Guy?

« #129 on: June 05, 2009, 11:20 AM » 

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Quote from: prodigy123 on June 05, 2009, 11:14 AM

Hi,

Me n your sis could hook up. Holla - abegunde.tosin@gmail.com

Quote from: egire on June 05, 2009, 11:04 AM

please i no mind if u can connect me to your sister,am complete african man

u guys shuld get a life and stop lookin for a source of green card.

what makes u think everyone who wants to meet her sist is jst after green? dude what life do u av? what are u doing in the state? u're a tiptypicalample of wanwannabe disgust me, u f**king son of a b**ch

0
Avatar
Newbie

u guys shuld get a life and stop lookin for a source of green card.

0
Avatar
Newbie

Hi,

Me n your sis could hook up. Holla - abegunde.tosin@gmail.com

0
Avatar
Newbie

please i no mind if u can connect me to your sister,am complete african man

0
Avatar
Newbie

reading all message, can't see enough back from the 1st poster, seems U gat to tell ur sis to keep up the street nigezies, dont think a conference hall or any stuff gathering can fetch u a better person, talk to the guy ur family already tied his hand so he can refer another type of his to the family,

I think dat will be much better than u allow people playing up ur intelli, u c dat dey've turn ur stuff to another issue selling at the market in time

0
Avatar
Newbie

na2day, translation??

i c

0
Avatar
Newbie

you mean assuming you had the chance to do that right? i would probably grope you into a coma.

0
Avatar
Newbie

why is everyone in the south sef?

0
Avatar
Newbie

hi guy what is the gist?

0
Avatar
Newbie

FL Gators is also looking for a good Nigerian bobo oh.

0
Avatar
Newbie

guys love is all about feeling,finding a guy for your sis is not right thing to do, if your sis want a naija guy there are lot of naija guy everywhere, am also a naija you can hook up on my number 08068714296, my name is tunde but my friend call me jojo, kisses and hugs

0
Avatar
Newbie

if i wanted to rise with the swing of a hip i would find me a black girl with curves in all the right places, abeg vamoose.

0
Avatar
Newbie

don't hate the players hate their swagger. you just over there shaking your head like you girls dropped directly from heaven. hisssssss

0
Avatar
Newbie

"Nigerian men are the most handsome"

rotflmao. . . .oh dear, I think I just rolled on a peice of PBJ sanwich. yuck

0
Avatar
Newbie

lmao what happened papa ogidi. condom broke?

0
Avatar
Newbie

lol we thank god we thank god

0
Avatar
Newbie

stop jokin and get serious

0
Avatar
Newbie

Anyway, I was joking. I have love 4 nigerian men.

0
Avatar
Newbie

Wow, it's actually a good prayer.  But if you want to rebuke it that is your own cup of tea.

What woman wouldn't be lucky to have a complete man like myself.

0
Avatar
Newbie

I now pronounce you, SeanT21 and CH2HO5, husband and wife. Go home and be blessed in holy matrimony. Be fruitful and multiply

0
Avatar
Newbie

www.surulereboys.com and www.okadaboys.com are also award-winning sites to find some good ones.

0
Avatar
Newbie

@ topic

by calling this no. 08036184625.

goodluck!

0
Avatar
Newbie

Ok this explains your mentality.

Face your studies and worry about men later.

Unlike American in Nigiera Education is key to everything. We take for granted the free or reduced or pay later education that we have here and we dont go to school like we should. Instead we focus on finding a man and getting married and having a family first, esp. in the southern states.

Please please please young sis get your education then the nigerian brothas will flock to you. Forget about them now.

*I do have to add that Nigerian men are by far the better men out there, if you take your time and study him well*

0
Avatar
Newbie

Sorry I don't really understand who you are talking to or what you are sad about. Can you be more clear? If I have offended you then I am sorry.

0
Avatar
Newbie

I am truly wondering how old this poster is?

really makes me sad that someone will come here and read your post then say we are all just like you.

0
Avatar
Newbie

@ bolded:

good for you.

@ the thread:

maybe you should check the dating section for some tips?

Instead of the cultural blah blah blah, why not simply start a thread saying "American woman looking for Naija guy for my sister who meets these requirements. Here's my info, photo and statistics"

Much simpler, I should think.

Especially since Nigerian/American relationships arent that rare!

Different strokes for different folks I guess!

0
Avatar
Newbie

We can chat now. I am online now.

0
Avatar
Newbie

Hi Angelgirl,

                I  think i am the right guy for your sister.I believe i have all the qualities she'll be looking in a BLACK GUY.Connect me to her lets start something and see where it leads.u can reach me through richogwo@yahoo.com.Looking forward to hearing from u soon.

0
Avatar
Newbie

hi angel girl.can we chat. my yahoo id is bussydotjoy

0
Avatar
Newbie

My sister specifically wants an African man (not necessarily Niaja, they could also be Kenyan or Ghanaian) because she likes their facial features. She thinks they are usually more attractive than black American men. And also African men usually are more intelligent (not inherently I am guessing that African people have a more family oriented culture), and less confrontational than African American guys from what we have seen of African guys. my aunt married a Yoruba man and he is a very devoted father. He is a great man. She would take a good man as he might come but as of now none have come forth so why not look about the ocean to see what she is attracted to while fishing? Preferably a secular man.  We reside in the southern states of the USA and never leave our bedrooms.

Why not Afri American guys? Well most not all but too many African American men live by the laws of their pagan gods (Tupac, Biggie) and follow in the footsteps of their pagan angels (50 cent, Snoop Dog). Their bible is called hip hop or rap. It is hard to find an African American guy who is not HipHopligious. They are so rare. My sister is not into organized religion. So,  this is no scam and when I said get I meant into serious relationship that will eventually lead to marriage. Do you think that American women and Naija men are too culturally different for my sister to imagine such a thing?

0
Avatar
Newbie

@poster

1. Why are u so particular about getting a Nigerian Guy.

2. What do you mean by get i.e do u mean get as in sex or get as in marriage.

3. Are there no responsible black american men available.

0
Avatar
Newbie
Your answer
Add image

By posting your answer, you agree to the privacy policy and terms of service.