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How Can I Get Dis Lady Totally?

Ladies in the house I will like you to advise on this please.

I have this lady she is 21 and I am 29 and we are dating so to say.We see each other very well and dat tin happens very well but she does not seem to be totally into it because of somethings she does.Complacency is all I can call because I keep telling her dat I really want her in my life but she is always trying to tell me she is not thinking about that at d moment.

I am educated to an MSc level and she is just in 200L even on part time basis.I wouldnt know if it is this eductional superiority or whatever that is making her hold back about wearing our relnship all over herself,though I go to her house n her mum know me as her boyfrend but no formal intro.

Sincerely I am very comfortable with this lady,I need ladies in the house to tell me what I can do to really circle her very well.

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Are you doling out enough cash?

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Give her time they all say, but I'd tell you this---fine,maybe she needs more time, to what measure you up?, nah,I don't think so,your post wasn't comprehensive enough, there is a serious reason she's holding back, I can stake my life on it, and that reason aint her checking you out!

With the little info you furnished I'd tell you this, she may be bidding time, you may not actually be the real mccoy as regards the kind of guy she wants, you are just the best that is available for now,so she's not giving in totally to prevent a dear John scenerio,when the guy she really needs happen to come around. You are a fallback plan dude, and this aint sarcasm,it's cold,hard truth,you may not believe it but it's the truth.

If you weren't shagging her,I'd say,she was taking her time to feel you before committing herself, but you are shagging her!, meaning,she won't be so foolish as to deny you carnal pleasure,as you may back out of the relationship which won't augur well for her as you are the best of the rest right now,until her dream man arrives, so she let's you feel real comfortable in case  the mythical mr. right never comes calling, then she'd give in to you totally, let's say four-six. years from now and she aint seen him,,,then her siren song will change.

So don't sweat it,enjoy ur relationship,and be the best you can be,try convincing her that you are mr.right. Good luck.

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by keeping ur game tight.

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She is observing and studing you, Just give her time, Alwys care for her and be nice.

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Dosman see!!!

Don't be upseted, Just remain who u are to her, and in broad sence i think givin her time is the best!!!!

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As Fox River rightly said, give her more time. Ladies are good at studying the situaion at hand, she is actually carrying out seriously the type of person you are.

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