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How Can I Get Over A Broken Heart?

YOU just know this is the one you will marry. You enjoy each other’s company, you share common interests, and you sense a mutual attraction. Then, suddenly, the relationship dies, exploding in a burst of anger—or melting in tears.

Few things in life cause as much heartache as the breakup of a romance. In his book The Young Person’s Guide to Love, author Morton Hunt claimed: “Only about one out of five people, at the breakup of a teenage love affair, feels indifferent. As for the people who didn’t want the breakup at all, most of them feel torn apart, crushed, wildly angry.” Youths often bring vexation upon themselves by getting romantically involved long before they are ready for marriage.

Nevertheless, some young adults may be ready for marriage and have pursued courtship honorably and seriously—only to find themselves heartbroken when a relationship does not work out. Can one recuperate from the bitter heartbreak of a wrecked romance?

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Too Gum a broken heart huh, You've to stop listening to blues, always listen to rap , hip hop or regga. Hang out wit friend alot, Don't stay alone wit your self.

U no need prayer or miracle , you will get over it when d glue don gum ur heart back,

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when going into a relationship, always think abt the possibilities and probabilities, so if anytin goes wrong you wont feel 2 hurt cos u were xpectin something. just keep yourself busy, do away with everythimg that reminds you of hw u feel, and neva try 2 blame urself 4 anythin. AND LASTLY PRAY, FOR WE VE A DIVINE COMFORTER(HOLYSPIRT) hope 4 the best. GOODLUCK

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U see sometimes, we ve got to go through some experiences to not only learn but also make us stronger from the inside out. My girl of just 3 months broke up with me recently and on one side it was an experience that made me learn some things. I refused to be let down because i know she only assumed and believed what wasn't true anyway. I left her after some effort to get the groove back but everything went the other way and i decided to move on with my life. Some weeks back she called to beg and wasn't ready to play on her and so i turned her down.

So my dear, u just have to believe in urself, make new friends and DON"T STAY ALONE! Watch interesting films, listen to comedies and after a while get on with another great guy and i tell you everything will be history

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Why Do Relationship Break

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-130469.0.html

Heal-A-Heart

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-113547.0.html

Why Do Relationships Get Busted?

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-130471.0.html

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You write so well for me to fink you'd be affected by breakup.

Fins like that happnz but it takes self belief to be strong. ~The only fin tht has ever broken my heart was the death of my mum, yet, the belief that I'd make her proud keeps me going.

What about cases where you leave your partner cz you fink its the best fin to do and you end up being hurt cz it wasnt the best afterall. Tht hurts even more I'd fink @ PRYNXLEX, it doesnt work like tht. May even compound the issue esp when u deeply in love wv the person you splitin wv.

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Mend the pieces.

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When a Breakup Is Really a Blessing

You may feel that this breakup is one of the worst things that has ever happened to you, but it may be just the opposite. Hard as it may be to believe, it is quite likely that the end of your romance is a blessing. How so? Most teenage romantic relationships hold no real promise of success. Young people are still growing and changing; they are susceptible to fleeting desires and mistaken loves. Nonetheless, every year thousands of teenagers marry, only to find out too late that doing so was a mistake. One newspaper executive stated after her divorce: “It was a real mistake to marry so young. I didn’t really understand we had very different values and backgrounds.”

Teen marriages have a horrendously high failure rate. So as bad as you may feel right now, be assured of one thing—you would feel a lot worse trapped in an unhappy marriage. Ask yourself if you really were ready for a lifelong marriage, with all its responsibilities, including child rearing. And was the one you loved really ready and mature? Remember, breakup of a courtship is infinitely less painful than breakup of a marriage.

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A tendency to fantasize may play a role as well. One study by researchers explains that adolescents are “more vulnerable to loss because when they enter a romantic relationship, they tend to fantasize about the future with their partner. This fantasy may include dreams of getting married, having children, and being together for the rest of their lives.” Such dreams can be hard to abandon, even when they have little basis in reality.

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eyaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. am so sorrrrrrrrry babe, trust me i feel ur pains to d bones marrows. bt wat i,ll say is hook up wih some one here ryt now. to gt ur minds off it

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every breath taken

is a step away form that pain

mentally shrug it off

there is no easy way about it

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In his book The Chemistry of Love, Dr. Michael Liebowitz likens the onset of love to the rush of a powerful drug. But like a drug, such love can trigger raging ‘withdrawal symptoms’ if it dies. Psychologist David Goss cites ‘depression, anxiety, physical illness, the loss of the sense of purpose in life, and a period of grieving’ as typical reactions to romantic breakups. And it makes little difference whether the love is mere infatuation or the ‘real thing.’ Both can create dizzying highs—and agonizing lows if the relationship ends.

The feelings of rejection, hurt, and perhaps outrage that come in the wake of a breakup may thus sour your view of the future. One Christian woman speaks of herself as ‘wounded’ because of being jilted. “I can only be a ‘Hi, how are you?’ person [with the opposite sex] now,” she says. “I am not letting any person get close to me.” The deeper the commitment you feel in a relationship, the deeper the hurt its breakup can result in. Being told by others that it was just puppy love or that ‘you’ll get over it soon’ is of little comfort.

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Life’s a bit<h depending on how you dress her . Move on

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first of all, u've gat to have confidence in u.then move on

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only time and the strenght within heals a broken heart

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think about ur future.

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sounds so easy but experience is always the best teacher. i

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yes, focus on some better positive things that can help u become a better person, because lets face it, u win some n u lose some. so, if u keep dwelling on your heartbreak u'll just end up an emotional wreck. soooo dust it off and move on.

THERE'S ALWAYS SOMEBODY FOR SOMEONE!!!

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