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How Can I Get The Attention Of A Girl Have Been Acting As A Secret Admirer?

Have been seeing this girl passing through my house front, i love her but up till day have not said any thing to her. Am afraid she might say "NO" and that is one thing i really would not like to hear. i need help from the ladies and guys in this forum.

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wat do yu mean its my turn.go nd ans i ve already answered

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sodgi its ur turn to ans on forum games.i'm waitin

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If its not for the present, then change it jo.

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noi secret means something no one else knows

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But who is abusing you?

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it says 'why are you abusing me?'

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what does your siggy sayz?

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if ur a secret admirer tis best to keep it that way

after all this no fun when the cat has been let out of the bag

the whole point in being secret is that no one knows

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@ibk

ok am out. . . see ya tomorrow *quickly shutdown his c.p.u while mum is coming to his room*

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@ibkaye

where re u? am leaving . . .

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translation: you know you are funny

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@ IBkaYe

How are you?

is the lips back from Vacation?

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just kidding guy, just be urself and let her  knw how u fell the worse that wud ever happen is she'd tell u i dont like u or just simply put NO and am sure after that u'd feel much better that u tried, mind u bro no1 ever died of trying, if shes truly urs no matter what she'd be if not, take a walk with ur head up high knowing u released ur self of any inside bitting desire, its better said than daily looking and wishing

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I think she will more than bite him. If she has brothers and he did that then God have mercy on his soul

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You go wait for her as she dey pass. Show her the goodies.

Oh sing as well

**Hello, Is it me you looking for.?

I can see it in your eyes.

I can see it in your smile

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u could send her gifts on her birthday, gifts jus becos it is tuesday,drop letters for her post them to her call her if u can all this mystery tin and before u know wat it would come out in the open and if u are thinkin wat if she hates u wen she has seen u?good for u cos if u are optimistic it calls if u are pessimistic it brings so make ur choose.

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i hate it wen a "MAN" is afraid to tell a gurl how he feels.gush!wen u re faced wit a harder challenge wonder how u're gonna face it.

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why are you afraid of her saying no?

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start with hi, after that move on to the next level by getting closer to her, making her your friend. its as simple as ABC.

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The best advise is go to her house around 8pm (when everybody in the family is watching a popular soap opera) knock the door very hard when the popsie comes out tell them u want to see her (her name) and they should tell her to meet u outside urgently then u wud not only get her attention but her whole family's . it has worked for me lots of times

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Yeah! those are good words to follow, but one thing you have to know about girls when approaching them is that you have to be ready to listen to what you don't want to; which is probably the "NO" word. The manner of approach also does matter but what if she already has someone she is dating and she tells you ,"NO" there's nothing you can do about it but to just suck it up and move on. Also, you can't just be expecting a girl to say "YES" because that's what you want her to say.

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Don't be friends for a long time sha oo.

Cos when u are friends for a long time, she'll start looking at you like her brother, or just on friend level. u Have to be a friend, but not for too long. Let that space be there. The space that'll make her not think of u as a brother.

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Exchange pleasantries and be friends wt her and let me remind u that you don't love her just yet.

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yeah, i think hotie has got a point. you need to take it slow b4 taking it up a notch. the girl don bite so start slowly with a lil hi and hellos then get to know whats up with her. dont go out there and shout"you are the sugar in my snickers, i love you" she will just give you a capital NO.

easy does it my man.

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Why not start by saying "hi".

Then you go on to "how are you", Then "wats ur name", and "How old are you". And then u can have an idea about few things about her.

Get to talk to her in a friendly manner first. U just dont go and meet somebody and say "I see you walking here everyday and i LOVE you". She'll blunty tell you The NO u don't wanna hear.

So my advice, get to talk to her first, if things go well in ur chit chatting, u can ask her to go to the movies, or buka, or mr biggs, or whereever the hell u wanna take her.

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Its your go now jare!

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