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How can I handle this:: My guy keeps many female friends, , some he will say his relatives and casual friends. the painful part of it is that each time i wnat to visit him he will tell me not to visit and he will give one excuse.

To my greatest suprise last night, I was force to call a number from his phone and I asked the girl some questions and i was shook from the responds.

Please help me out ladies coz am tired of men that are not contented, full of lies.

I thought of quiting but I love him so much and I also jealous.

what should i do please

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you can cheat everyone, but not your conscience . Follow UR heart. Dont hide anything from those you believe can offer better advice

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Thanks @Rickky421, I think that is what i will do, I will returnd his charger and won't call, text.

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What other answer do you expect other than dump him? Start playing hard to get. Don't call him. Ignore him and see what happens.

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God help me, coz iI feel like not having anything to do with anyman again,

If i stay singles hope i will still make heaven.

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I am not crucifying you, not at all. When I was still in the dating game, I used to do the same thing and call the girl up, pretending to be the cousin, and that tell her that I have heard a lot about her, and this usually does the job. Before you know it, the girl would have told you everything you need to know to figure out your position in the relationship.

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@ Busy body

Please don't crucify me, But i have no choice, I love him so much

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It actually depends on u if u convinced that he is cheating then girl it is better you quit the relationship and move on,rather than stay and get seriously hurt later.

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what is it you hear. tell the room.

I ask if she knows this person ( that is my guy) she said yes, and she aske if his back from travelling, she has been to his place for several times, that she's the fiance if am his sister or any of the relatives. I should tell him that they should see today.

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uve not told us anything only assumptions

can u be more specific, ?

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wat is it you hear. tell the room.

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thanks @okanran

No good reason than his uncle will be visiting, i mean no good reason

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