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How Can I Make My Man Happy?

I am engaged to a guy who i believed he truely loves be though am so crule some times and always stubborn, but he still says he love me with all his heart and can not let me go. so please naira help me i really want to make him feels happy what can i do to make him happy? in which way can i always talk to him to me him happy. am feeling i have hurted this guy so much and i feel regret for that even i have pity him much , if it were other guys i believed they would have leave me, though he is nice and ladies always likes him but he just needs me ,

help me please.

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babe-heart

dont crucify your self or allow anyone to .start appriciating your self because i think it's lack of selfworth

that makes u say harsh words to this your guy."do u somtimes feel u don't nid him or u're not worthy of him?"

u already feel he won't kip to his promise of lovin an' not leavin u,so u want to kip him at a distance frm seeing

hw vulnerable u're to his love, u kip him frm your core, the jelly-like u that wants him always to  cuddle u,love u,protect u

adore u?

if am wrong tell me and i'll delete my input, but if am right

u can solve this by OPENING UR MOUTH TO APprici8 him say things like "nice hair cut,nice shoe,u look kinky "stuff like dAT

then u can graduate to 2 HONEY I MISS U, bla blabla

once u give love u'll feel more relax and less internally agitate and rage ll cease

TRY AN' WORK IT OUT COS UR TIME IS RUNNING OUT!!!1

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@babe-heart

Keep it up girl. Do u know what? Nag the more, abuse him at the slightest opportunity, research ways on how to annoy a guy and improve your stubborness skills. And i can assure u, guys always keep their promises especially to nagging, abusive and stubborn girls. It won't be long and u will earn your long deserved 'sack' and there u will go crying wolf like most girls do, probably labelling him a liar or cheat.

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Busta,

i know my English is not good but at least i have tried my best to share with you about my hard feelings and to get help from you, i think i have already writen it clear that you all here were able to understand and feedback to me with your ideas, dont i.

TerraCotta,

my emotions have now changed abit and there is a feelings that the best is i have to try to calm down my hot temper heart. i dont know if he will change sometimes after getting satisfied with my evil behaviour, i sometimes would even say to him go i dont need you, or i dont want you, but he will in-turn reply no i will never leave you no matter what? can guys always keep there promises as they made?

LadyT

it is not that iam trying to be abusive, but it is that i have always a reactive action since i was bornt, even at home my family already knews me and i dont have a heart to apologize , parphet i dont get any meaning of why to apologize, or when i know i am at the wrong side i dont uses to apologize in front of him but it will hurt me later when i am alone like at night hours then tears will start to fall off my eyes, but the next day nobody will know if i found out about me being wrng etc.

I am sorry.

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Sweet lawd!

Maybe he doesn't react because he cant work out what the f*ck your saying! I had a hard time trying to deciper what it was you were trying to say.

Maybe you dont really love the guy and your only putting up with him because he puts up with you?

Why do you need to be so abusive? And why cant you apologise and try to do better?

It wont work overnight but if you try you will get over it.

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1. The guy must have extra ordinary patience and is long suffering. I have met guys like that.

2. His sweet reaction to your attitude will not continue forever! He wont be sweet when you insult him in the presence of his kid for instance.

3. How about you thank God you have such an understanding chap and try and change your attitude?

4. He appologizes when you offend him? Not unheard off, i once had that experience with someone else i dated and i completely disagree with teracotta that it is a sign of spinelessness. It is not, you just cant help it if you love the person that much and are willing to overlook several things she does.

5. One day that long rope of patience will snap! He will find someone else who treats him the way he likes and he will dump you! I have experienced that too!

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Maybe u need to work on English first

Ur writing skills, secondly

and finally, stop being so damn stubborn and

learn to appreciate what u've got!

why do people bring up topics that they already know the answer to?

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Try reduce doing things he dont like u doing and always think properly before u utter any word.cos some words might have being uttered and before u realise it as being uttered,the damage has being done.so try to be calm.

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I would like to ask how was your upbringing like? why do you see marriage as a negative thing? And how come you got the negative feelings?

Why not give him a chance and see whats going to happen. Dont be afraid of getting hurt cause thats the essence of falling in love

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the fact is i love him, but sometimes i have the feelings as i can not get the real meaning of marriage and what makes a guy to feel he want to marry etc. i think maybe lots of my negative feelings is the cause , aren't it?

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i really do not apologize for him , i sometimes tries to calm down and tried to make my heart pure but nevertheless as soon as there is a simple urgements i started to react and say bad words to him, i sometimes thing maybe he is waiting untill we reach the future then he will start to react too, but the mots is i am always feeling i hurted him much sometimes , i feel sorry fr my own self but i dont have the feelings to apologize for him .

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maybe even try to overdo yourself; give him a surprise, try to be more calm, be sweet with him all the time, avoid arguments etc.

come on, you'r a woman, you gotta feel your man! who can better tell what makes him happy than his bride-to-be?

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ThiefOfHearts have said it all, stop been cruel.

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perhaps you should coolie coolie that temper and just leave for a while instead when you get annoyed

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hmmm i think cruelty, and stubborness is my habits, i am always too reactive when i get angry, i can even say bad words on him , he will get sad and react also but the next day he will apologize, i really dont know how to change from this evils , what makes men feels happy?

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And do you apologize to him as well? Does he seem unhappy to you?

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