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NL can you imagine that i met a woman on this forum,called her om tuesday and she agreed to come and spend the weekend with me,I hope she is not trying to share the virus.I beg make una help do i welcome her or not.

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ok sorry i misunderstood you, anyhow this sense of reasoning is not only childish but dangerous.

i do not need my mates "approval" to prove my manhood and neither should any man out there.

i hate to say it but what will the poster do if the girl turn him down on the weekend after he has been thinking all week that she will give away the toto? molest her maybe? or maybe insult her of being a tease and throw her out of his house?

that would be funny.

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@mrbrownjay. I hav female friends ,am not the kinda guy dis thread is al abt. I was talkin abt d modern day sense of reason.

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i hear you brotha, so dont you have any female friends? or are all your female friends only women that hasnt been to your home yet?

if you have to make a pass at every women that enter your house just so that you can show your manhood then i will say that you are a poor soul and truly lost.

by the way, if it is only you and the girl at your place, who is going to categorize you as gay? and what about if she brings her friends over too, will you make a pass at all of them and go for a Group Intimacy?

be comfortable with your sexuality and dont let anyone make you do something you are not willing to do.

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@na2day

Who is an ,You must be totally crazy for saying that?.

I have apologize and what else.Fool,attention seeker?.

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@mrbrownjay, This is d 21st century nt every guy tinks like u do, i realy feel u bro bt in d modern foolish tinkin d guy wuld b gay if he doesnt make advances. Dis is d perilious times.

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Hello,let us end this discussion.I have received enough bashing from you guys.Let me off the hook.Once again

I AM SORRY.

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You're right on bro. The problem with these boys is that any lady that visits their house has to be bleeped. It just doesn't make sense to them anymore to respect women and what they stand for. We all know some women do not know how to say no and he made it entirely look like the lady wanted him but had to pretentiously go by it making him pull the request. I still do not see anything wrong with guys having platonic female friends unfortunately these boys have a problem with that. They always have to make silly comments about how they bleeped a girl and how diminished her self esteem is. Bullshit!!! I can't even read the post, too upset already

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the point is not that the girl is coming to his house. have you never had friends coming to your house to spend the weekend? dont you have female friends that are platonic friends. are all your women friends fukc buddies, lovers, gf? i guess we first have to separate the men from the boys. if you have a welcoming house (swimming pool, bar,ample guest rooms) and a wide circle of friends then having friends over for the weekend shouldnt be a cause to celebrate anything other than two friends or more getting to know each other, unless he is going To Molest her the minute she says no.

the problem is that he is the one who invited her there at the first place and then he comes here and talk poo about her. if he was expecting her to say no to his invitation, then why ask at the first place?!

the same thing will happen when he will "beg "her for sex on the first night, and (god forbids) when she agrees he will call her a hoe, not knowing that he is not better than her.

and to make it even funnier, he is talking about"sharing the virus" like he is 150% sure that he will have "access".

this poster is fooling himself to the highest level.

if she is a skank so he is. if she is a rat, so he is. and if she shares the virus and he is dumb enough to "receive it" then dead he is too.

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Yeah, sure but lets face reality. A girl coming 2 ur house 2 spend d weekend, even a gay guy wont sit bak and stare. Its temptin. So let d guy of d hook.

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una dey abuse well well for this forum.Please forgive and forget.It is unusual for ladies to accept men so fast in this part of the world.She has even sent her pics and she is not bad at all.I am not here to condemn her but I am just wondering that someone who be coming to a stranger's house so fast without doing a background check.I am sorry.

I AM SORRY IF I HAVE CAUSE ANY ONE PAIN IT WAS NOT INTENTIONAL.

Nl,please forgive me.

I love you all you are all wonderful people.

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to start with how old r u we werent dia wen u called d lady so y bring it up on nairaland

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She was just doin her thing,u cald her pestered her that u liked her

spent your money to buy card to continue the pestering,finally she agrees to see u this weekend

you came back to this same forum you met her to criticize her

If she had said no to your request,u will definitely feel bad.

You need to grow

Maturity is not of age but of the mind

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andu came here to announce.

i'v been here long enuf to know that u dont kiss and tell on nL CHICKS.

U WILL CERTAINLY REGRET IT.

moreso nah u invite am, dont make it sound like she imposed on u.

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@ OJbee

Thank you for taking all the bitterness and raving away form my me

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Good that u hv d nerve to apologise

Was wondering if u are one of the pple who think because they hv a dangling somewhere down there, so feels right to rubbish women.

A lil patient would have confirm ur fears, but alas u decide to name a child b4 it was born

I don't know how and when visiting one became having sex and to even know you are the one that called, habaaa

anyway can't say much.

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I am truly sorry for this.But I disagree that i am dump head.But it is very unusual for me.Sorry NL.I hope my apology is acccepted.End of discussion.

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You're simply a wimp and an to make such sweeping statement about our mothers, sisters, girl friends and wives.  Let's be honest about this, are you not the silly one who phoned her and invited her? God knows how long you spent on the phone and how many times you called before she agreed to your invite. And sex? virus?  how do you know she is coming for sex? Even if that's what she is coming for, is that not the reason you invited her in the first place? Could she force it on you if you dont want to? And what's wrong in two adults agreeing in private to explore friendship at whatever level? Have you never hear of something called condom that keeps the devious virus at bay?

Perhaps you dont realise the damage you did to the confidentiality of the forum by bringing into the open, the matters that you discussed in the corner of your room with an innocent, decent young woman that you met through the forum. That's a betrayal of trust. All the men of the world and all users of this forum deserve an apology from you, not to mention the millions of decent women whom you gave a bad name.

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@poster, I guess I should called you dumbhead. who called the lady in the first place? and now you are causing noise here please shut up

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Thanks everyone,but the problem is that is unusual in this part of the world for women to accept you so easily.I mean you know their games.

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What i said is the truth,the only truth and nothing but the truth.

@bluespice

HND,

I just finding unusual that is all.

@raven2000

Well i wont know what i will get from telling lies

But it is strange to me that some is coming to the house a total stranger.

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I read dis story n lotsa words with which 2 describe d OP;Loser,Wimp,Attention Seeker,LIAR!

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Wow, this reflects equally bad on you as it does her - after all it takes two to tango. You called her right?? - The next day in fact.

Until she actually puts her words into action, I can't judge how 'desperate' she is.

Although, you do give me the impression that you don't know each other too well as you're shocked that she's quick to respond.

You won't get the virus if you don't have sex, you don't have to have sex with her if you don't want you know.

Peace.

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fools are in abundance o the surface of the world arent they?

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wats ur highest level of education?

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Obviously poo is smelling in his story.

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so you met her on NL, she agreed to come and visit you in the weekend AND you decided to post a thread about it so that she could possibly read it and therefore spoil your weekend "of love"? or maybe since the minute you decided to meet, she stopped reading NL? or even better, maybe that story is just fable in the sky? highly probable.

get real for a minute.

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This is the reason why most of our girls in this side of the world don;t really come out to express themselves, we weren't there when you called her, now she is acting natural to you and your finding it weird huh, when she pretends, you find it interesting , dats to boring dude, Mind you, that she is coming doesn't really mean that she is ready to have sex with you

Please guyzz, lets appreciate our women who are matured and natural in their attitude,

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Hmmm!!

Interesting. . .and

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She is disturbing that she will be in my house tomorrow,from ojo to Ikorodu.can you Imagine?

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