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how do i tell my gurl that im tired of the relationship and that i want to back out

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3 days after vals abi,

go on

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i rilli wanna thank y'all 4 ur advice and i must be honest, i do luv her and i was always there 4 her, she appreciate me been around her, i listen to her, i met her when i moved down to lagos and we started as friend at first. she sent a note to me thru a friend saying that she has neva seen any guy like methat she has been observing me 4 some4time now and that i look genuine or real, i told her dat we can be friends but I'm just too scared to trust any woman right now let alone to even date her because of what i have heard about Lagos girls , she promised to be good but she is pretty and she is also presentable, the problem i have with her is that men are always asking her out and she always tell me about it, i jst want to breakup with her so that she can live her life, i know it hurts but what else can i do, even if i keep trustin her i feel she will be promiscuous and she can be sleeping around behind my back so i have to avoid it and she ill be going to school soon, i think it is good for me to end the relationship and i will be travelling to the states soon , i just want to break up with her in a mature way so that she can still have that regard 4me4as she use to have, pls advice me on this and tell me what to do if u don't want me to breakup with her, http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-398180.0.html

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Works all the time, hell, even Samson in the Bible used it.

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kill yourself na that way you save yourself the stress of looking for the right break up lines,

she ll not come back begging,

and we wont have to dish out all these advice

its cost effective and fast

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Try growing a pair of balls, be a man and tell her what's on your mind.

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btw how many girls have you broken up with?

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How about being honest with her, by telling her what you just wrote, what's wrong with that, dont play games, just be honest,

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Dont call her more than once a day, slowly reduce that to once a week, be patient. . .  She'll complain about it, try and sound reassuring, tell her its work or a project thats taking all your time. . .  Continue in this vein, u will surely notice things change after 2 weeks or thereabouts.

If she's pretty and commands alot of attention from guys, she'll soon start drifting on her own - which u can use against her. . .  Or u can react when she starts over-bugging u about not giving her enough attention, that would be a good moment to tell her that u r tired of her nagging about this issue and u can see that the explanations u have given are clearly not good enough for her and so u want her to just leave u alone!!

Over the next few days, stay away from her, avoid calls, and stay on your own. . .  She will see the handwriting on the wall, it may take time but she will finally see it - even if she's blind!

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@poster,

bros e no easy ooo. Tell am say you don impregnate another girl. She go leave you waka.

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What has she done? You are struggling to find an excuse to end it cos probably she has done thing wrong.

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1st stop calling her but continue picking her calls.

when she comes to visit you give her excuses that you are on your way out.

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