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How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me?

I just have a few questions,

How can I get a naijaboy to love me more? Is it important to show:

- good housekeeper?

- good in bed?

- economically stability?

Or something more, ?

also, what does this mean:

"Nkem, odi'ka ichoziri i isukarim na igbo. Nsowo adia kedi ife i'na eme ugboa. Muwa emechana efe nneme ugboa ozo ano echegi ugboa."

Greetings from a nigerian-loving german

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naija guys are not different from guys from other places. basically, all men are the same and they respond to love, care and respect. you on the other hand, need to be careful. you sound really sincere in your quest so i can only pray that the guy you're tripping for is not a PLAYER.

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You must have numerous bad experiences with Nigerians for you to keep commenting like this.

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Look at this bleeping slowpoke that survived abortion somewhere around mpumalanga whose president is a Molester and child sexual abuser. Your people are murderers, burglars, sexual harrasers and all manner of evil acts. Bunch of zoos, swanas, swazis, sotos, ndelels and xosas controlled by few whytes. Fuckoff i got no time for a specimen escaped from experiment like you. slowpoke!

Hahaha, silly nigerian fool! we fought for our freedom we killed whites for it too , we will fight you and kill you if we have to bloody liars, and thieves. We are tired of your poo. Go back to your low life country with no order. You come to our country and cause poo, drug, credit cards scam. Bleep off, bloody low lives!

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I am watching from the sidelines, WW3 is about to blow up, the insults are not necessary people, can't you get your point across without being "personal", anyway, I am out of here!

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[color=#006600]Siyanda, I quite LOVE it when my clean living, Allah fearing, his mother respecting, children responsibility acknowledging 9ija man 'infiltrates me' in the bold mentioned ways,

it, there are bad people everywhere, [/color]

YOU DO NOT MAKE SENSE JUST ALL NIGERIANS!! AND WHY DO YOU HAVE TO BRING GOD TO EVERYTHIN YOU CLAIM TO LOVE GOS SO MUCH BUT YOU USE HIS NAME IN VAIN

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Pls stick to these 3 things u wrote. they are the fundamental requirements. But you will have to do some thing to that your German123. its too masculine

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Why so much anger people?

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You're a frustrated illusioned imbecilic zulu/zoo monkey man/woman whose brain is damaged by too much inhalation of evaporated petrol inhalated through a lonnng inhalator infested with staphrococus aureus which unfortunately led to the damage of some part of your Banana-like shaped brain. Get a life you UFO! Remember this is naijaland and not zooland you attention seeking T,W,A,T.

hahahah exactly how these nigerian morons are behaving here in south africa, they act big meanwhile they are silly fools who know how to lie, steal, insult and hate. I wont stoop to your level again your nigerian education does nothing for your manners. They say you can take a person out of the slums but you cant take the slums out of a person, and that is TRUE Nigerian. Low class thieves.

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Niaga Men are good Men . Not wicket people. Your research was not properly conducted. Do your research again and you will discover the other side of a nigerian man.

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Drugs, crime masterminds! They do not discriminate. They ask no age, name, title or gender. They infiltrate horizontally and vertically in any hierarchy or level of the community. They respect no boundaries; obey no laws not made by themselves. Masters of-disguise, they have many names, forms, faces, colors. Talking business with them is talking death. The longer in their service the lower you stoop. They exponentially destroy wherever they move, a destruction most of the time only realized when viewed in retrospect. STAY AWAY FROM NIGERIANS. Your question should be telling you that he does not love or want you, why waste your time trying to get someone who does not love you or want you to love or want.

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I am a naija guy and i cn authoritatively tell u that we dnt need much 2 be inlove,just get intouch with me and i will prove it 2 you.You cn get to me thru my number or email,if u need it,let me knw

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Bleep him well. Be creative about it.

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If you are really concerned about SUBMISSION  or SUBMITTING to your Man then you need to listen to this Woman and hear what she has to say about it . Compulsive viewing.

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To get a 9ja guy to Love you, you'll have to prove yourself worthy of his affection.

My advise usually is, "Go beyond the usual" . Do the Extraordinary; those things Only Men do for & to Women, do them for your Man, and he'll come crawling begging to be loved.

The reason being that, 9ja guys are used to always Giving to the women. it's not everyday you find a 9ja woman who takes the role of the guy, and does the things Men Do. So if you can figure out those things a Man will normally do, and treat him as such, then you become special.

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Be modest in hw u make ur demands cos an average naija boy is not willing and ready to part with his hard earned pepper

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so this thread is still alive

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bros Peter, im not from Ikwerre. Rumuokoro is ok and how is your own part of the country?

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Ikwere boy. no time carry go. how rumokoro area?

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@ Poster, thank Goodness cos your prayers have been heard and answered.

My name is ODEREGHI, a Nigerian from the Niger Delta. i read with keen interest over the question you asked on how to get loved by a nigerian guy.

I am now here to satisfy you and to love and care for you with all my heart.

Lets kick off the relationship as soon as posible

GO TO MY PROFILE AND PICK MY E-MAIL, then send a message to it.

then wait for the next step,

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^^^^^ spot on, this is why i like naija u cant take them for a ride for long.

well the pix is the same maybe the poster is an imposter having fun.

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okay. It's definitely wrong to jump to conclusions before making investigations. Which is what I won't do.

So, I made some investigations of my own and this picture which happens to be in the profile of the german lady turns up on the website below

http://www.ehow.com/how_4724506_girls-notice.html

is it possible she is a model? or could she have simply got a pic from the net?

she's to the left in the pic!

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this isn't really fair and good. That's the mistake [b]most Nigerian[/b]s make; they assume, even when they are yet to see any evidence, that the man opposite them, the man talking to them is fake and is looking to scam them; they'd do this also to their fellow nigerians.

For all the world's sake, the poster is yet to ask for your account number or something; she's asking only for advice, and if asking for advice means "intending to dupe", then I feel very sorry for this nation.

Why don't you just wait until she crosses her boundary? or are you guys so dumb you'd fall for any dumb-scamming stories!

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@ German 1234, if that is your picture, my God you are beautiful.

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l think she is a German lady as l have on several occasion met western ladies in the train station blowing lgbo like say tomorrow no dey

Lets give her the benefit of doubt, abi?

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well, i don't know how to say this, but i'll say it cos ama say sayer! (daz ma signature)

we all know's what is wrong and what it is right, but it seems this thread has made some of us loose our sences.

I found out that majority of us givin the 'SO CALLED' german lady an advice on how to catch a naija guy are more

than the others, i guess u guys don't know when 'MAGA' is about to strike una abi ?. . . ok!

since u guys are advicing an 'OKORO' man thinking u guys are advicing a 'SO CALLED' german lady,

I'll advice u guys to give me una control number (access to ur bank account) make i go withdraw all the money.

afterall, we all don fall mugu.

ONLY DOZ DAT REASON WITH THE RIGHT SIDE OF THEIR BRAIN WILL UNDERSTAND MY MEANING!

but 4 doz dat don't understand, make una wait until maga strike una!

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@vivaladiva

wetin carry u go cross ocean mrs good advicer?

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well is not difficult just be yourself respect him dont f**k around and be intelligent enough to handle the relationship so that he wont take you for granted, the most important thing never hide your feelings from him(i mean Emmotionally, sexually, in all ramification of life) is important, all the best

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show him you care a lot about his origin

show him you love him despite the 'not so favourable' publicity that trails his origin

treat him with respect all the type,

stand up for him anywhere especially among your peers and family

learn to cook his native meals, be strong for him whenever he wants you to

let him take the lead when he should

let your love making truly be loving

learn to live with faults

appreciate him even as he appreciates you,

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Everything on nairaland is turning out to be fake.

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haha! And this made it to front page! Are the mods useless or inexistent??

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The babe don run! German ko germany ni. Na naija gal wey de shame to ask 4 scoping tips of her fellow 9ja! C wetin love cos. >>love dont cost a dime>> ip 2 se u lob am ai, e go lob u 2, shikena Do me i do u lob no go ves

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poster writes like a guy.

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LOL. . .

May be y'all don't know that some whites speak better pidgen than Nigerians themselves. They mingle and swim with Nigerians to the point that you can't tell when it's a Naija person or a white speaking pidgen.

Some of them can speak a bit of our local languages. This is not unbelievable.

This lady may just be one of them peeps. I won't be surprised but who knows the real truth?

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The babe na fake! I expected her to type her reply, short & simple and use a language translator to convert it to german. I even believe d "babe" na guy wey wan carry anoda guy do "sari-sari"

my 9ja peeps, smart up oh!

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you can keep a nigeria man by respecting him and always be there for him in terms of caring and some other good things,lol

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Be Yourself, and look for one who would love you as you are, not just a nigerian

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@Otukpo please spare us the crap. The igbo statement she wrote is something you usually say to someone who is right there in front of you and i am yet to see that igbo man or woman who sends sms to a german or any foreigner for that matter in igbo. It is simply unfathomable.

Abum Nwafo and i also recognise igbo written by another Nwafo, no matter how he or she disguises it.

I tried to check her post history and all her posts are inconsistent. I believe lots of people here are not that gullible to believe whatever any stranger hiding behind the walls of the internet says or claims that is why some are calling into question her authenticity.

Why hasn't she written a sentence in german to counter the challenge i have thrown to her above.

Don't accuse others of doubting her sincerity when she is the one that appears shady.

Stroke and pat her back all you want but don't call out those who are trying to use their sixth sense.

This is the internet and there are many mischievious people on the prowl.

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na lie,there is 92 percent differents belive me.

and by the way why do u ppls always say bad about igbo?eh igbos in EU dont care about

document.all there care is money.from the most palce i have been to, this the way it is.

austria,germany and norway.well yoruba and benin,there are the ppls who is washin plates,cos of papers.

ibo no dey wast time at all.then dont have time for woman,money first and then papers.since u can have ur papers with money what do u need in woman?

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if you knew how to get a german to love u then u surely know how to get a nigerian to love u too

all men are the same love is all about understanding

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u people have made the girl run away instead of giving her tips.

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From her post, it is obvious she didn't know the meaning of that igbo written by the Naija boy to her. it must have been a msg sent to her. Probably the guy wants to make her understand igbo.

There is no need to doubt her sincerity.

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The Naija guy you are dating is Ibo from Eastern Nigeria.

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My dear, EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION is key. Be truthful, Talk about yourself, your views on issues sincerely. Even when you are not perfect (wish no one is), he is sure to trust you as he gets to believe that your word is your bond hence can always predict you. All men want to be sure of their wivies are capable of doing even when they are not there. It gives them a sense of godliness. MEN EGO THING

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naija man in germany hmmmmm

i fit garanteee 80 percent na paper him dey find

poor german lady

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Sometimes, I wonder why people are being deceived. What she wrote in igbo shows she is an ibo.

But if she says she is a German, let her write in German as Bandit c said. Abi na only igbo she sabi write?

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@poster if u want nija boy to love you

call him 10 times a day

dont ask for se-x unless he ask.

try to learn what he dont like.

have a baby with him.

thats all.

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just 'be' yourself and don't cheat on him, ok?

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Be a good cook.

Clean the house.

Be submissive.

Look good always, don`t let your self down because you are now together.

I will suggest you learn to cook some naija dishes.

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@German1234 don't you think you are wired differently, upbringing, culture, environment, mental attitude. To be able to jell you will learn to see through his coloured window panes

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