How do I let a guy down gently and nicely? Especially a BRO?( Christian brother)? Is being a christian a licence for bros to approach every sister in the church and expect a positive answer? And when you say no, why must they always try to blackmail you emotionally and spiritually? I'm normally not very diplomatic even as a christian and I tend to just tell someone I'm not interested in them in that way but many guys just don't want to take no for an answer. The fact that I am a christian does not mean I should not have taste, does it?