Hi pps, i must admit that this fun-filled site has done nothing rather than glued me to my computer since i discovered it through a friend.All the same,i've gat an information i wanna share with u guys nd have ur views concerning the issue,
It all has to do with my relationship with a gurl whom we happen to be family friends b/4 we eventually decided to take it a bit further from it usual realm;Although,i can say i wasn't very close to them because been born in the U.S, i spend much time there than in Nigeria as i also study there.Within all those days they use to come to our house whenever we re Nigeria, unfortunately it got to a point that i stayed out of the country for so long that i couldn't recognize this same gurl when i saw her in M/M airport the day i arrived Nigeria(that was on feb 2008) from America of which she happen to have flew in also from Canada few hours b/4 my arrival, although, from the way we look at each other from afar and she looks somehow familiar, i do not bother to talk to her as i was in hurry to see a friend there in Lagos b/4 embarking on my next trip to Abuja that same day.
few weeks later, the whole scenario resurfaced again when we eventually met in the ex president son's wedding and that was when everything came to fore again because our parents were there to do the re-introduction and we eventually picked it up from there and started relating well till our intimacy got well-grounded.
This gurl who's father happen to be the incumbent governor in my home state now, stoped at nothing to make me understand that she wanted us to climax the relationship though i can admit that it got to a point i started feeling something for her too and we both decided go on a full-time dating. All these led to my visiting the country very frequently as we turned Nigeria our meeting point since we both live in different countries , a situation i knew left my DAD aghast on several occasions whenever i called i was coming to Nigeria as all these has always been unusual. However,as it became obvious that we hardly stay for so long without each other, we decided to be visiting each other at our base and stop coming to Nigeria as b/4.So, sometimes in june this year, i left America for Russia to meet with my family on a vacation tour and because this girl was desperate to see me made her to call me of which we made an arrangement of where to meet after my vacation tour, and when we eventually finished our tour, my family were about returning to Nigeria and i was to head to America, i decided to travel en-rout Lisbon because we both agreed to meet there in Lisbon (Germany) and we decided to use that opportunity to talk things out of which we even talk about the possibility of us marrying each other if GOD so wishes.
On meeting my dad after leaving Germany for America, i was bold enough to tell him everything that was on ground b/w me and his friend's daughter and the possibility of even marrying her; a situation he was very much in support of (mind u,though the gurl's father is a governor, my dad is obviously richer so don't rush to conclude things and pls understand that am nt trying to be pompous).
The issue at hand now is that, i came into the country last month and on a good day forced my friends to take me around the city of Abuja and some of the satellite towns so as to enable me see things because it's very annoying that some of the local things i ve read and heard about, i ve not really seen them with my eyes; and on one of our outings, i happen to come across this good-looking,intelligent but school drop-out gurl dat was selling vegetable in the slum there, i can sincerely say dat the moment i set my eyes on the this gurl and tried to talk things out with her, i had started developing a very strong feelings for her almost immediately. Though she was communicating very eloquently,my accent almost bring the whole thing to a stand-still as she thought i was not a Nigerian and was there to laugh and make jest of her coupled with the fact that we were the cynosure of all eyes at that moment.
But due to constant visitation and persuasion and because i went as far as convincing a recharge card vendor to help me talk things out with them , that i'm for real and that they should forget that "all these rich men children that re money-drunk" ( according to the feed-back the vendor brought to me initially). The problem now is that, this gurl accepted my move and her parents too did same after much persuasion and i can atest to the fact that, the feelings i ve for this gurl is more than that of the governors daughter that i have arranged to enlist her in one of the schools in the city so she can have her O' level b/4 i can talk about taking her over to the state for further studies.
The most striking issue now is, how to relate the information to my parents and that other gurl that i ve found the person of my dream, though that other gurl's family seem to know our supposed marriage plan.
pls urgent advise needed,