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How Do I Make Him Love Me?

l met this guy and we have been going out for a month now. up until sarturday he made no sexual advances to me but on saturday he took me home for the first time and we made love. l am afraid that making love to him will change the way he feels about me, so l started beign a little sarcastic pretendung that l didnt care about him. l am afraid that if l show him that l care that he may yake me for granted.

this guy knows how to cover his affections but l cant be sure that he has any affections for me.

l want to be close to him without making it obvious that l am going crazy about him, please tell me how l can make him notice me with his heart.

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Be cool!don't make any move

if he appreciate u,

if he's 4 real,

then u don't have any wahala.

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just be yourself - he will notice you and if he likes what he sees, he will stick around whether the sex is good or bad (well at least long enough to work through any problems together)

dont assume and presume things you are not even sure of - you haven't know him long wnough to be making an 'educational guess'

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Wetin i go talk now

u don give am chop.

anyways use ur sense/agbari.

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Let it come naturally. Support him in all he does and stand by him.Note that consistency will always count.

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I think you should try to be friends with him and be a dependable ally/friend. Accept him as he is and do not try to change him to what you will like.

Please try to create activities alone or with friends to make yourself happy, do not allow your happiness to depend on anyone.

If it is going to be it will be.

All the best.

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I don't think there is anything you need to do than just be natural.  Like the popular saying (Que Sera, Sera (Whatever Will Be, Will Be).  If he is your real guy he won't change.

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