How do i know that my lady (who am marrying very sooo) really deeply love me?
You intend to marry her and you do not know if she loves you deeply? If you have proposed and she agreed then she loves you. Stop using other peoples test procedure to determine your relationship it will only confuse you. If you are in doubt about her love sit her down and ask her that is the simpe thing to do.
In my opinion, most times, the love of a woman is fleeting. It takes a lot of maturity and a deep understanding of Love for it to have value otherwise her feelings command it withersoever it wills, therefore making it to weak to go by.
What's more important than her love is her passion. Her passion isn't always fueled by love. It is fueled by desire. What does she want? Or in Ur case, who does she want?
If she has made a habit of putting in efforts to making Ur relationship with her work, she wants U. That's just one way of knowing. There are other ways. The summary of the matter however is if she wants U & it show, then Ur good to go.