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How Do I Tell My Fiancee Am In Love With Someone Else?

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simple, just go and meet him/her and say

"i'm in love with someone else"

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Well,

Be bold enough to walk up to him and tell him,

but I think there shoul be a tangible reason for this.

It is very! very! unfair,[b] if you were to be in his own shoes will you be happy?, [/b]

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Well,

  It was your choice to had loved him in the first instance

                      then you have to walk up to him and

                                          tell him the reason you have decided        

                                                                   

                                                                              not to love him anymore, but it's very unfair,

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Well all i can say is that you should try as much possible to look at her area of lackness and her area of quality if she score 40/60 then i will say why want to leave her every woman have area of quality and area of lackness. If 60/40 then i will say that you should call her attenton to that area like you know reationshp is about beign vocal and correction, encourage her to improve and always remind her and not in public, tell her you beleive she can change.

Kindly do this for her for a little time and see if she can change, if not mail me the question and il wil tell you how to tell her goodbye.

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Look him straight in the eyes, if you can, and say "honey, you know I love you. However, I have found someone I Love even more. Sorry, things didnt work out, but I pray you find your soulmate one day. Because I have found mine" God bless,

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Tell her b'cos she would do the same to you if she is in a similar situation.

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Are u sure what you feel for other babe is love or infantuation?

Or you just tired of the kitten and need a fresh one, my guy, be sure of what you doing, cos trust me, it cld come back to hunt you.

If it is kitten, it is all same.

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same way shes going to react wen he tells her he aint interested no more

but u dont expect him to marry out of pity or sympathy do u?

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are you sure it is love or infatuation??

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We have been dating for almost three years now but no introduction/engagement yet. Sometime lastweek she did upset me and i wanted to use that as an excuse to walk out of the relationaship but her tears made me make a U-turn. Have got concience dont know wat to tell her but honestly i love dis order girl.

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First of all why is she your fiancee.

Who how would you react if she was the one that told you she is in love with someone else. Think twice.

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Simply tell her, am in love with someone else period.

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She is happy wth you thinking that you hold her in high place in ya heart like she does you.

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That's why a woman should not do all those things. If she's not happy with you, she should leave.

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You mean that is all she gets for putting up with you for only God knows how long, for cooking for you when she does, for allowing u to make love to her even when she wasnt in da mood for it, or lemme say for putting up with ya atttitude when u feel like?

Boy, that is so shameful to hear such from a man

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Good to know cowards still exist

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Its actually simple. i did it something like it some time ago. Just send an SMS advising her to leave her doors open. She'll get the msg.

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Even if there was any introduction and all that, better for them to break now, than later.

It will be hard and i dont think there would ever be a better way to break up, but now that later after some kids have been introduced into the world

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Just use Usher's intro to "Let it burn". all will be fine.

Oka im just jiving. Just do some real soul searching and figure out are you really in love with that other person or is it infatuation. Because you could risk losing the one person that was meant to be your soul mate.

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I know which is why I said it's unnecessary information

I just hope there wasnt any "traditional introduction" and what not.

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The lady will break bottle for him head if u say, i am leaving you for another.

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We were not there when u told her u loved her

and not there when u proposed too . . . so find how u'll destroy what u've built.

Go with the same mouth u used to tell her niceties . . . to throw the bomb!

Now the new girl rocks your world abi? hmmmn!

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We are all assuming that betabeta is a male.

I think how far means, to what extent have the relationship gone. has there been any tradi, family intro, or,

if yes, take it easy before u commit suicide, if not don't waste time to reveal ur intent.

Remember we have one life to live. No matter how long it takes, pursue ur happiness.

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Go to her house, and sit beside her and goes

" baby, i know you love me and we are engaged, cos i love you as well, however, we are in a journey that will se us thru the rest of our lives, and lately, i have been thinking if we have what it takes to make it, cos someone else has been crawling thru my head of late, and that tells me that we have to be careful, cos you ought to be the only music playing in my head, so baby, i will like to take some time to think about this and be sure that we have what it takes to spend the rest of our lives together, i will not wanna live a lie"

However, pls, make sure you sure love this other woman and not that there is something u want with the other babe, cos trust me, u dont wanna be breaking hearts.

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You don't have to tell him/her you are "in love with someone else"

Unnecessary information.

IF you are sure about this other person, just tell your current dude/girl that you've fallen out of love with him/her and you wish him/her well. Thank him/her for the times together and move on

all that "oh I'm leaving you for someone else" is just too much info that is NOT needed to be said and will just cause animosity between you two.

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Take him to an exotic place and let the cat out of the bag

or is the bag out of the cat?

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HOw?

call him/her and tell him/her 'i have something to tell you i think i am in love with someone else blablablabla. Sort it out and let him/her know you no longer want to be with him/her. The most wicked thing you can do one is to pretend you are in love with them when you are actually not and the worst is getting married to someone you dont love, you are not doing him/her any good.

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JUST tell her and get it over with . . . .haba

You are sorry . . .you met some1 else . . .it not like you weren't IN this relationship . . . .it just happened . . .blah blah blah

how hard is it. . .

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i want to know,ofcourse it doesnt matter how far one has gone,i want him to explain to me how far hes gone wt his fiancee,ofcourse some of them would have gone to the extent of introductions and trad marriage,while some r just "will u marry me wt mouth only" dats y i asked

@poster

r u sure u r inlove wt dis other girl?give us more info now,about the two of them,wat makes u think u aint inlove wt ur faincee no more and u r inlove wt dis new girl?

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it dosent matter how far you have gone. A man or woman of integrity will always be appreciated. Come out plainly and tell him or her. have fun, hope its helpful, lol!!!

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how far have u gone wt ur fiancee?

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