Well all i can say is that you should try as much possible to look at her area of lackness and her area of quality if she score 40/60 then i will say why want to leave her every woman have area of quality and area of lackness. If 60/40 then i will say that you should call her attenton to that area like you know reationshp is about beign vocal and correction, encourage her to improve and always remind her and not in public, tell her you beleive she can change.
Kindly do this for her for a little time and see if she can change, if not mail me the question and il wil tell you how to tell her goodbye.
We have been dating for almost three years now but no introduction/engagement yet. Sometime lastweek she did upset me and i wanted to use that as an excuse to walk out of the relationaship but her tears made me make a U-turn. Have got concience dont know wat to tell her but honestly i love dis order girl.
You mean that is all she gets for putting up with you for only God knows how long, for cooking for you when she does, for allowing u to make love to her even when she wasnt in da mood for it, or lemme say for putting up with ya atttitude when u feel like?
Boy, that is so shameful to hear such from a man
We are all assuming that betabeta is a male.
I think how far means, to what extent have the relationship gone. has there been any tradi, family intro, or,
if yes, take it easy before u commit suicide, if not don't waste time to reveal ur intent.
Remember we have one life to live. No matter how long it takes, pursue ur happiness.
Go to her house, and sit beside her and goes
" baby, i know you love me and we are engaged, cos i love you as well, however, we are in a journey that will se us thru the rest of our lives, and lately, i have been thinking if we have what it takes to make it, cos someone else has been crawling thru my head of late, and that tells me that we have to be careful, cos you ought to be the only music playing in my head, so baby, i will like to take some time to think about this and be sure that we have what it takes to spend the rest of our lives together, i will not wanna live a lie"
However, pls, make sure you sure love this other woman and not that there is something u want with the other babe, cos trust me, u dont wanna be breaking hearts.
You don't have to tell him/her you are "in love with someone else"
IF you are sure about this other person, just tell your current dude/girl that you've fallen out of love with him/her and you wish him/her well. Thank him/her for the times together and move on
all that "oh I'm leaving you for someone else" is just too much info that is NOT needed to be said and will just cause animosity between you two.
call him/her and tell him/her 'i have something to tell you i think i am in love with someone else blablablabla. Sort it out and let him/her know you no longer want to be with him/her. The most wicked thing you can do one is to pretend you are in love with them when you are actually not and the worst is getting married to someone you dont love, you are not doing him/her any good.
i want to know,ofcourse it doesnt matter how far one has gone,i want him to explain to me how far hes gone wt his fiancee,ofcourse some of them would have gone to the extent of introductions and trad marriage,while some r just "will u marry me wt mouth only" dats y i asked
r u sure u r inlove wt dis other girl?give us more info now,about the two of them,wat makes u think u aint inlove wt ur faincee no more and u r inlove wt dis new girl?