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How Do Men Want To Be Loved?

I have a burning question. Every now and then my man asks me "Why do you love me"? And honestly, I'm stumped, because I love him unconditionally, not because he does anything for me, just for who he is, good and bad. So I give him one thing I admire about him, like I might say "I love you because you're strong, you're a survivor, and you always manage to make any difficult situation still work in your favour in the end".

He just gets quiet, and I'm not quite sure what he's thinking.

Please tell me, is there a particular way a man wants to be loved/seen by his woman?

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I think he's insecure hence why he's seeking assurances for you. You are acting like his mirror mirror on the wall.

Love better expressed through action rather than words.

Yes it is important to say 'I LOVE YOU' every once in a while; but that does not equate any absent actions.

when next he asks you that question;,,,,,, go close to him, hold him, look him in eye and ask him in a sultry voice;,,,,,, 

baby, why u want to know?

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@Chaloo,

you are wrong, ma.

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trini- when u asked such question, be honest about it, but every man wanna be loved, cos of who he is, and cos of his being, and his heart and not cos of his pocket or looks

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unless eve asked adam such a dumb question, then i can give u a reasonable answer

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Why they ask such a question from a Lady? Probably, because they are not sure about themselves. A man who is sure about himself would not ask such a question.

What answer they would like to hear from a woman? Probably, unneccesary praise.

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ok fine. but what do they want to hear when they ask the question "Why do you love me?"

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Men want to be loved for who they are and not what they are or have.

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That, my sister, is the million-dollar question.

Subcribes to thread.

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you wont expect a man to tell ya how he wants to be loved,

a man shows you how he wants to be loved

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