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How do u deal with this kinda situation: your girl/guy comes to u is crying/looking morose and wen u ask she/he says it's cos she/he is confused/pressured by the many people seeking her/his attention relationship-wise. In the process she/he gets a call from one of the numerous disturbers.

How would u handle this?

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Wat if the person says they've never had to deal that numba of people seeking em?

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well it already shows the girl isnt even sure ahe wanna be with the dude.

either ways he's losing.

like iiice said, the crying is for the boi. lol

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I agree but I don't know about 99%. Don't u think dat the multitude of a$$ hunters can confuse a gurl? Especially d slick 1's?

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Ok so she's immature and can't deal with it, u're gonna dump her even after enjoying a whirlwind romance with her?

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Frankly, i really cant fathom why getting calls and attention from potential suitors will make a lady cry. Isnt that wat they crave from right from their teens? Well, i wouldnt deal with such silly and immature girls in the first place. I expect my lady to handle wateva disturbance or incessant calls she receives from guys cos that's wat matured ladies do.

I dont buy this cos there are numerous/better ways of telling your guy/babe if he/she is not doing something right. Crying over calls and attention (maybe disturbance) is definately not one of them.

i think this is a better judgement. Personally, if any lady should try that with me, i will show her the door cos i want to believe she's actually interested in the other guys (disturbing her). Committed and responsible babes wouldnt even think about such calls but will only mention them during casual talks and discussions.

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Most girls(99%) can't differentiate between a guy who wants to shag them and the one that really really loves them.The female weakness,I think

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And at this stage, if you dont act fast she will walk with the next brother

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It could be, she needs some sort of asurance

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Yeah am thinkin could this be immaturity expressing itself

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a way of sending a msg.

Could it also be insecurity?

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She is sending a msg to u, get serious or lose her to others on the queue.

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You step up and take your relationship to the next level if you really love them. This might be a test to see where you want the relationship to go.

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She/he must be 5 years old because I don't see how this is cause for crying.

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