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How Do U Get A Guy To Open Up?

I recently met this guy that I like and the feeling is quite mutual. But he doesn't say more than one word sentences.

Even his mails are that "long" too. The only thing I know he likes is football which I don't give a damn about. Please guys in the house, how do we ladies get you to open up and communicate? Or is he playing hard to get?

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@ poster this is the only advice you should take

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i think u should just make him ur friend wit no ideas in ur mind and if he truly likes u lik u said,he must talk one day abi no be 9ja guy we know dem wel.

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Study your man and know what his interest her

But sometimes men prefer to talk on their own terms, they study the girl 1st before opening up, which is very reasonable.

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Sometimes doctors cut the woman to get the baby out, do the same to your guy's mouth to get the words out. I'm sure it will work

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frank, that is so funny, that will definitely make him open up

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seduce him into sleeping with him and f*** the hell out of his life. He will not only open up he will speak in tongues

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I think he is a queit person, If you can adjust now is better you packout it Means you are not compatible.

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You better look for a guy who matches your vivacious and talkative self.

Otherwise, this is a sure sign that you two may not be all that compatible despite your liking him.

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Yeah, u can't change people and if u can't patch with them, go your way and let them be.

U'll be surprised with the result if u can take your time and study people as to why they behave the the way they do ! You'll have a peace of mind and u'll be happier that u try to know them and then, u'll start enjoying everything about them ! But, move on if u don't have the patience to study them !

The last thing u want to do is to try and change people.

Cheers

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Tell him and make him realize that you want a open minded relationship. Someone to talk to and share with. How can you learn about him if he keeps dumb mum.

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Well, since the guy made the first move, no big deal. You can ask him the kind of relationship he wants to create, so as to know if it's going to suit you or not and also to make good use of your time instead of loitering around with him. The fact that he is quite doesn't mean he didn't know what is good for him. But, since he approached first, it means you have about 80% chance to change him. You are a lady, and matured and feel the guy is good for you, you should be able to seat him down and convience him about his behaviour, believe me you can change him, despite his quiteness. please try.

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dont ever try to be forceful on him, o and make him think bout you by keeping 'some' distance

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u could try talking him out of his fears or

try to know what his worries are.

u know men like to be pampered but u have to do it with caution

so he doesn't put up the cry baby act which will bring up unnnecessary sympathy

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Is simple now, tell him you wish you have a boy friend, He ask why, how tell him nothing, that you feel like, then leave

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Oh my gosh! I totally understand you girl.

It scares the crap out of me.

How do you get a guy to open up to you well enough?

I don't know but when an answer is given, I'll like to know how to apply it.

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Erhhh get him to talk about his other interests aside from football. If there is a shared interest, it makes it easier.

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ok, if i may ask, who make the first move? was it you or him? if you are the one that makes the first move, then you should expect such attittude, cos the guy will not wants to be too forwarded to avoid some kind of things. But, to really have or get what you from him e.g his attention, though, you guys met recent, but, you can seat him down and talk to him, then from the process both of you can discuss on what you like or dislike and other things. He is a guy and his going to give his attention. try this, am sure it works.

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take him to mr biggs or chumchum,

buy him gifts,

buy him recharge cards for his phone

what a man can do, woman can do better!

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i think either him or both of you are boring each other just try not to be so boring

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@Beebsyn

That's what beats me, he made the first move. He wasn't much of a talker then, and he isn't talking now.

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