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How Do U Know If Your Partner Is Cheating?

what are de signs that u get from your cheating partner? mine was acting a bit weird, when we meet it's either he puts his phone on silent or vibrate. and wen i went into his house. he wud switch de fone off at nyt. so one of de gud days, he came home drunk and he forgot to switch his phone off ha ha thatz hw i caught him. de messages and de phone calls frm other chick were so hurtful ane the pics damn i decided to delete everything. i deleted all de contacts, de messages and even de pics then i switchd de phone off. in de morning i acted as if i knw nothing. he didn even had de guts to ask. de phone was brand new inside. thats hw i caught him, wat r ur experiencez guys?

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There are many factors that call for changes and these changes appreciate along with time: the more time the clearer the changes. I'll use a female as an example. When she starts to cheat, she hides her phones from you because that's where her secrets are embedded. She deletes all call histories and leave those you're familiar with on the received and dialed calls list, your text messages are always at the top(as if she doesn't get any sms from others). She constantly picks up quarrel with you over trivial issues and hardly says sorry when she's at fault. She yells at you inconsiderably and complains too many times about things you do that she's supposed to have got used to. She always comes late for dates, makes you wait and suddenly have impromptu activities to tend. On the other hand, if she's trying not to be nasty, she becomes unnecessarily nice. She tries to spend as much as time as can at "odd" times. She calls you incessantly to sheath your suspicion. There are many things that go wrong when she's cheating. Howbeit, you have to watch these situations and ensure they last for at least 3 months before you conclude it's cheating. There are still more, but this has more to do with your intuition.

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i dont think so i dont have the blood or mind for that check yourself very well something must be qwrong somewhere

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women are generally more emotional creatures-they generally cant have mindless sex(emotions r involved-that's why to them it's not just sex,it's making love),so for a woman to cheat on you,she's disconnected from you on some level. Those are the signs to look for-an emotional disconnection;maybe she doesnt talk to you as much as she used to,she's no longer interested in both of you doing stuff together,and when you're with her,there's this indifference,like she's not even there,so the signs of emotional disconnection,that's what you should look for.

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his character will change then he will start mischeveouse attitude

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I found it very amusing too. But was that really necessary? The OP sounds to me like she's 17.

I have done that before and I tell you the escapade lasted for as long as we wanted it to until we got tired of each other. It's the second sweetest thing to do next to making love with your girlfriend/wife.

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Another tip:

If your OW is trust worthly introduce the OW and Wife/GF so that they can be good friends and then your OW can tell you if the wife is suspecting anything.

For instance wife needs a new computer OW works with you and is great with PC introduce wife to OW for PC shopping. Women will be women and they will hit it off. And your LovePeddler can tell you when you slipping.

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How Do U Know If Your Partner Is Cheating?

You can never stop a cheat from cheating. Period!

If ur partner is faithful to u, just trust it in ur heart dat it was his/her personal decision.

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Did I imply anywhere in my post that it was a deterrent? I only stated that i found the action of the OP funny!

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It will be written on your partner's forehead!

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Attach a micro (by that I mean invisible to the Unclad eye) camera to their body. That way you can decipher through millions of satellite images and advanced technology what your partner has been doing.

On the other hand, you can use plain 'ol magun.

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Depending on your relationship and disposition. . .

We call it intuition.

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you will know,its very clear when we are cheating on a woman expect you are not close to him.

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If you very suspicious about your partners cellphone/ computer behaviour, then you must be in the right track! http://www.solutionbay.org/problems/how-will-i-know-if-my-partners-cheating-on-me try this link. Maybe you might caught your partner's suspicious behaviour.

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uju I KNOW THAT HE WON'T STOP BUT I KNOW BY NOW THAT HE HAS LEARNED HIS LESSON. I'M BAD BABY

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ha ha cheating guys are good at what they do. my partner cheated on me with this other chick for more than a year behind my back. so what do u call that? he's a top dawg. jack of all trades

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@aus123 i support ur question

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learn to always call him sweet pet names like HEARTBEAT, MY BREADTH and whenever he is not there call him on his phone and say honey i am choking and if he ask y tell him cos i cant breath and if he says y tell him cos my breadth is not here and bet you girl friend that will make his head go gaga.

The truth is maybe you are not playing your role well as his gf or is he just good at cheating.

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@Dream

Nice one,

But does that stopped him from cheating,

What of if I derail ur thread a little bit,

Like: What should I do to stopped my partner from cheating on me, if I caught him,

There are a lot of resources in NL.

There will be help,

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I have never been in such a situation, but I am sure I will be able to tell ( 100% of the time sha) cos I will very close to him so it will be easy to predict his moves.

but . . . . na wa for ur guy o. Switching his fone off wen u are around is sure a big sign

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