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How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U?

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Lust is different from love. It doesn't last that long and the guy would be more intrested in making love with you than confinding in you on delicate issues.

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@bolarge: good point on the impatience thing, but slow poison guys usually aint playas as it make them obvious. a slow poison kinda guy would strike u as probably the most decent and caring person on earth, but like u said, he's got to be shaggin some other conquest on the side while waiting for the one in d pipeline.

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Hear him! Hear him!!

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@2dye4

I agree with u. There indeed are peeps u can describe as "slow poison" but they are very few u have to admit.

One of the primary xteristics of lust is impatience; the drive for instant gratification. If after a few weeks a typical playa hasn't as much as done some good touching he'll just run along to more willing potential victims.

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The down side to the slow poison guy is that while he's biding his time with u, he's shagging some other chick by the side. It's not in their nature to have a vacuum. If u're smart enough u'll soon discover his philanderings n' drop his sorry Bottom.

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Believe me apart from your heart, TIME will tell too. Lust does not last long. Time will reveal the truth.

Just be patient.

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Only your heart will tell you when you listen to it my dear!

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How soon after meeting him he starts wanting to grope n' grab ur anatomical assets.

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thanks crazy kid for that

but don´t u think this can also happen when someone is lusting(pretence)?

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The way he looks at you,

The way he talks to you

How he react towards you when he's angry

How easily he confides in you. ie tells you hidden things about his past.

The way he treats you in the presence of his friends.

The way he responds to you when you need him most.

Those are the basic things a girl needs to know when she claims to be in love with a guy.

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