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How Do We Define A Nagging Person?

How do u define a nagging person?

just knowing that you love me

and will always be by my side.

Is it when the other person did what is wrong and u talk? is that nagging,

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I woke this 2009 thread. Oya mod front page.

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someone that continually complaining or argue over

this is seen by some people the only way to communicate however it doesn't always work.

The Vicious Cycle of Nagging

Nagging can become a vicious cycle. The more you nag, the more your mate avoids you or withdraws both emotionally and physically from you.

Why Nagging Doesn't Work

Even though your gripes may be valid, nagging makes the other party resentful.

Nagging makes also makes the other person involve defensive.

Nagging puts you in the parent role, and the other person in the child role. This isn't healthy for a marriage or relationship.

Nagging is disrespectful.

Nagging is often perceived as criticism, so the other person may tune out making what you are saying ineffective.

When the other person is being nagged, he/she probably feels attacked personally.

Nagging makes the other person feel inadequate.

Ways to Avoid Being a Nag[/b]Don't blame.

Don't demean.

Don't attack.

Don't criticize.

Avoid making the other person feel silly

Don't give in to your frustration

[b]Instead of Nagging,

Try Positive Approaches

Share your feelings

Keep your statements brief so they don't turn into long lectures

Avoid using the phrases, "You always, " and "You never, " this is the main key

Consider saying "would you" or "will you" rather than "could you" or "can you". There's a subtle difference in the way the request will be heard by your spouse or who ever is involve.

Set a good example so they can copy and have a feel that you really dont like whatever they are doing.

Acknowledge your different perspectives regardless and show your appreciation

See what happens if you stop nagging.

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1278.0.html

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a pain in my Bottom,of course

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@amma,

desr a diff btw a talkative, and and eloquent person.

depends on the category u fall into.

but sometimes its funny u cross the boundry without knowing it.

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Lol @ Izeek

My frined complain that i nagged, and i do not see myself being a nagging type coz i only talk when he does when i don't like, i don't just stay and nothing happen and starts talking.

Am always like, won't i talk when u do what i don't like? He always expect me to be mute at all the time.

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@hon,

i disagree.

so u mean when we argue about naija problems and the govt does nothing bout it we are nags?

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A nagging person is a person who continuously complains about anything as long as it has not been solved or corrected.

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means he is not willing to change, so u either conform or leave the rela.

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what if the issue had been talk about, but the person still go on doing that same thing, what happen in casese like that.

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when an issue is continually talked about.

despite the fact that the other party is tired and wants to let go.

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