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help!!! how would you know if you boyfriend is gay? My friend has been going out with this guy for over a year without advances from him and she suspects him through the way he behaves, should she talk to him over it, though she's not sure or just bone the affair?

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Gays are usually more sensitive and use feminine gestures.

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If ur fine boi 2much, Dey say u turn GAY!!

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tHIS SI WHERE YOU GONNA SEE BIG MOUT FEMALES WHO ACCUSE A GUY AS GAY, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF SOME ONE TELL YOU THAT YOUR DAD I A GAY, GAY PEOPLE ARE O THEIR OWN WHO CARES, LET DEM KEEPFOOLING THEM SELVES, THEY ARE MENTAL slow PEOPLE, AND JUST BECAUSE A GUY DOS NOT MAKE ADVANCES TO A GAL MEANS HE IS GAY, OK THAT WHAT WOMEN DON KNOW WITH THEIR FISH BRAIN,

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Noooo

many heterosexual men are particular about their looks and they aren't gay.  There are also Gay men who don't have feminine gestures. 

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Gay men are easy to spot - but that isn't what you the poster are asking.  There are Gay men and there are straight men who are on the down low.

What it sounds like you are asking is - it sounds like you are wondering if your man is actually on the down low.  A down low man is bisexual - NOT GAY.  A man such as your boyfriend - IF HE LIKES MEN HE ISN'T GAY - he is considered to be bisexual - IF he likes men and women.  He dates you in the day and secretly and/or in a hidden manner he likes men too.

Gay men like ONLY MEN  - they aren't dating you in public and a man in private.  Gay men are like sister material to their female friends and female family and females period.  They are more familiar with women issues than straight men.  The majority of them do walk, talk and act like women and are feminine in their mannerisms.

You should know the difference.

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Those who have feminine gesture are usually the "bottoms" (female) gays.

Most gays wear a purple band that is a code they think they only know. Plus they are usually so particular about the way they look, the way a woman would

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Ask 190,D-sense n Orton

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Gay guys usually have feminine gestures and habits.

Him not making sexual advances doesn't automatically make him gay. It could be an attraction issue, maybe there's no chemistry. I guess talking about it will solve your friends problem if she's sex starved.

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