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Hello people, I have just started a relationship with a really nice guy, he is everything a woman would want in a man. He is one of the actors on "Bachelors". Now, we have just started our relationship and I visited his home recently and am now worried. He owns so many stuff like hair removal cream, tweezers, bubble bath get, hand cream, a manicure and pedicure set, facial scrubs and cleansers and all those things. Now I know a guy should take care of himself but I am not used to this. It is too much. I am also a well kept girl but this one surpasses me. I am used to being more well put together than my man but now it seems he is too "correct". What's more, he is a really good cook and knows a thing or two about interior decor and otherwise difficult meals which I would have loved to cook to impress him. The way I see him, he is too self sufficient and when I am with him, I feel useless cos there is nothing I can do that he cannot do.I am not too sure of this guy's sexuality. Is he well put together because of his profession which requires so or is he plain gay? I like him very much but do not want to make a mistake. How do I know he is actually gay? Ideas anyone?

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I don't think the guy is gay at all.

Simply because he takes his time to look good and can cook at the same time are just additional qualities to what ever qualities you found in him in the first place.

I have five brothers and four of them are good cooks except one, who only knows how to cook beans, lollll, for all other dishes he'll score very low.

And at the same time they all are ready to spend their last change to look good. These are my blood brothers am talking about, most often they are interested in ladies.

Personally I'll choose a guy who know's how to take proper care of him self anyday. Be it manicure , pendicure, and some prefer hair removal creams to shave sticks and clippers, because of bumps .

Don't be scared I guess he loves to take good care of him self, thats all.

Good luck!

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@poster,u get issues o.the truth is dat u need a filthy guy as a bf

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@poster. . .

I think you're having inferiority complex, i swear. . .

besides. . . he's in the movie industry duh! he has to be very cautious of his appearance and all that. . . i bet you the likes of ramsey noah, rmd have the same xteristics.

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I am not a kid but I have got my mind so befuddled on the gay issue that whatever he does now looks gay to me. This is not good, I am trying to enjoy it but hmmm, dammit, I am going to tell him my fears and let him tell me as it is.

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Would u rather prefer a guy that hardly shaves, cut his nails,cream his body and have body odour than to ur present guy ?

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That's something about women,we (men) can never please them, no matter how hard we try they always find fault.

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U've got ur self a very clean and a well groomed man, cherish and keep him and stop being suspicious over nothing.

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There's really smthin gay abt ur dude. Does he enjoy his Tips bein suckd ALOT?

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okay, im lost here.we were actually getting down some hours ago when he went his closet and brought out this really minty lubricant.soon as he whipped out his manhood,he rubbed it on and i just feigned a headache and went home,

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is he a Fop? What is his profession? How come he has so much time on his hands ? How many hard working men have the time for all that concert ? I am seriously praying he is not.

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Best way is to have one of your GUY/MALE friends toast him and see how he responds,

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He's not a gay, just because he has all those stuff and can cook, are these the criteria of being a Gay?

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I think hes a closeted homosexual or bisexual, no straight guy goes through those 'feminine' lenghts to look good, I bet even kanye doesnt do a faical scrub before going to bed, straight homo.

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He's metrosexual and not gay my dear!

Metrosexual men are just men who are very concerned about grooming themselves and go an extra length to look good!

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Some men are like dat and dis does'nt makes them gay.

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Those descriptions matches with MrCrackles'

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Okay, he does not dress gay as in the earring stuff, he does not sing, he has a deep voice, is really manly but I am still apprehensive, okay, hit me, but what if he is the "man" in the gay thingy? I cannot believe I just said that but well, that is just what I am scared of.

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He's definitely gay.

Luk,every guy CAN enjoy a Kitty-Cat,whether gay or not.

Mstly,gay actors tend 2 kip normal r/ships 2 shell themselves.

Being an actor is gay enuph and now he uses nail creams,facial scrubs,etc.

Those things re gay.

Does he emphasize on the waist wen he dances?

Does he use false women keys wen he sings?

Does he kip d kitchen so tidy wen cookin?

Does he enjoy wearin body huggin outfits?

Etc

Any guy dat wears makeup is either gay or gayish.

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If he puts his co.ck in another man's poo hole . . . . . . now that is a GAY Bottom mofo.

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U just may be right. Although i am a guy myself, i would have been perplexed just like you. Assuming i've seen him face to face, na one hand i for take know. On a serious note, most gays are bi-sexuals too so one has to be careful so look well

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Does he hug other guys excessively? Does he wear an earring on the right? Wats his handshake like? Wats his hand gestures like?

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they r called metro-sexualmen, the new in your face fine boy who likes to take care of himself, doesnt mean he's guy, maybe just overly concerned with grooming, is all.

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@Poster.

Nne relax your guy isn't a gay; he's just playing the fine-boy role; therefor you should be happy and proud of him.

Note that other girls are ready to snatch him away once you drop your guard, so accept him for whom he is and I can assure you that you would have a happy ending.

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definitely gay!!!

but they are other ways to check. have u guys shagged yet.

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This is the most rubbished thread I have ever red. haba!

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any gay guys in the house to answer the ekagirl's question?

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where you forced to post?

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It ain't that easy to just up and ask a guy if he is gay or bi. sheesshhhh

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@Poster

Why can't you just ask him?

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this is not funny sha o! about the sexy thing, he cannot get his hands off me, or so it seems, maybe he swings both ways. Maybe I am just being paranoid, I don't know. I guess I have to enjoy the relationship and see how it goes and at the same time, be watchful.

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I think your guy is a clean freak and a self independent person now i'd kill the whole nairaland members just to be like your guy.Nothing wrong with him taking care of himself.You should be happy but i find the lip balm questionable.Only one way to find out if he's gay.See if he finds you hot sexually.also don't allow your brother to meet him you'll thank me for that later that if the sex test fails.

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Western media has brainwashed us to think that a well kept man who keeps himself clean and fresh and knows how to decorate and cook might be gay. Girl you have found a good man and enjoy him.

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You are one weird woman. you found a man with everything you like in a man and just because he grooms himself and can cook better than you he is gay. This is the problem with people when God answers your prayers you always spit in his eyes.

since you have an inferiority complex you might as well move on because you seem to need someone you can mother

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you do not just understand. I like well groomed guys, and no, I do not have a complex, I am just perplexed.This is new to me, perhaps, cos I am not used to seeing this. I mean, he has nail cream!!! uses lip balm before going to bed, night cream, facial scrub! how weird can this get?!!!

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