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How Do You Know When You Have Chased The Right One For You Away?

I've met a lot of guys, the good, bad and ugly. There are about 3 of them that happen to be good, behavior and all but it happens I'm not interested in their deep commitment. I sometimes wonder, by me not being ready or interested in them, how do I know that one of them is who God sent to me or is it a crime I don't want any of them or interested?

P.S. I'm still a very young lady.

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Anyways sha me and you had better bud a romance. I don't want to wait again since I've found you. you had better yim me o otherwise we'll box.

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Your spirit would signal you when you might have chased him away.

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wen ur 1st & last prayer point is God pls give me a man to call my own.

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you're not alone, many girls find themselves truly uninterested when good guys come around. i guess that's just how life works. sometimes you just know that you're not ready or interested in something that looks good and everyone around thinks you're being silly. don't worry if God sent one he can send more, or better still make you feel interested in the guy. besides there's no one Mr. Right.

i agree!

i also wonder about the potentially right guys i've chased away. while there's a possibility that i was the wrong one, i'd rather think that they came along at the wrong time. sometimes one just isn't ready for a relationship and i can't help it if a good guy comes along at that time.

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when the clock starts ticking faster and you start seeing all your mates getting hitched

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I've already chased too many potentially "right ones" away cos of the sins of the few potentially "wrong ones", or so i think. . .  but now i wonder if i'm the "wrong one" or whether they just came along at the "wrong times", only time will tell if i'm right or if i'm wrong but i dont make excuses for my actions and i know there's nothing i would do differently if given another chance, fate works in ways too complicated for us to understand all of the time, but fate can be manipulated with faith and thats the key!

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I always believe that when meeting the 'right person' comes with a certainty that only the PERFECT guy for you can bring. Do not force yourself to like anybody. If it's not working, don't regeret it. When the right man comes along, trust me, you'll be ready to ANYTHING to keep him!

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Sometimes I wonder why they are called "bad boys" but of course no woman in her right senses would want a man that doesn't care about her feelings and also a boring man.

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I like that statement in BOLD.  I'm not necessarily making a list. I'm sure there are still more guys I haven't yet met that would still meet me till I meet that person  that infact is everything I could ask for and I would be interested in spending my life with. I have been in a relationship that I was head over heels in love with and he would still come back but I don't want to wait for him.

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the wild ones who dont care about your feelings. And who you dont find boring.

I was going by your statement here:

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You'll know if u chased the right one away when:

A. U get to the age of  38 yrs  and get so desperate u'd  marry a midget

    with one eye and back acne if he gave u the time of the day!

B. In desperation, at age 43, decide to turn Lesbo!!!

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@poster

if you are not ready then you are not ready.

are you saying that you are ready to marry anyone even if you have no interest in them just because they seem right?!

the same way you talk about god sending the right guy towards you is the same way that you should say that "when you are ready god will show you the way".

until then, keep on fukcing meeting guys and have fun!

PS: are you actually making a list with the most men that you can conquer so that you can decide at the end which is the best out of all of them to settle down with?

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i'm new here, how can i post a topic?

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No I'm VERY straight. Why?

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