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How Do You Tell a Guy You Don't Like Him?

My friend has been dating this guy for 3 months, but she does not like this guy. She started dating him just because her she broke up with her boyfriend. But it's been like 3 months and this guy is really into her. Should she just spill the whole thing to him and walk away or what?

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You need advice right? Ok,screw him once and then tell him you can't continue.That will do...

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some guys can't handle rejection.

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No matter how nice u try to package or encode a bad news it cn never chang it from being a bad news, gosh!!! I feel heart break for that guy, bt to think of it y did u alow him into your lif @ first when u knw u dnt love him? Wel, just tel am na afteral no be u be 1st to tel am.

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wao its not really easy to just say i dnt like u or i dnt luv u. its quite painfull to the receiver, but it saves the stress and the guys time. its better said than never. Though, its should be in a polite and subtle way like, its not just working, but i fancy u just for a friend. that settles it. fullstop.

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how do you tell a guy you dont like him? very simple! reject his gifts.

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girl just simply narate ur kind of a person to him,tell him what u want in a relationship' tell him strait-up that he does not posses what u r lookin for in ur kind of man.And u just dont see ur self loving him,So doing u've caused confusion in his lyf he den has no option but to step low.lol

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why did she lead him on in the first place?

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Yes, I've added writing love books to my list of things that interest me. LOL

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Just tell him straight up "The love is gone and I am not feeling this relationship anymore. So it's best we go our separate ways."

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Tell him you like the same sex

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they wont leave u back like that ooo, especcially when u are bootylicious in d same direction

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tell him u are becoming a nun

or here is a good one, tell him u have AIDS

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Tell him you want to draw closer to God.

That you want to save yourself for marriage and that  the devil is using him to pull you down. (and mean it)

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lol, then wat is that compensation. the best way is to be moderate not too rude, not too nice. or do some silly thing to make him break up with u

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ehen who cares about the rumours, as far as e dont result in physical harming. verbal harming no dey do anything 4 body sef

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na only that, u havent said suicide. guys can be really unpredictable and silly some times

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na true, then u hook him up with another gurl

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by refusing his advances.

Most people with a brain get that cue sooner or later

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tell him this is so hard 2 say, u love him, but things aint jst ryt. actually cry as iif u really want him, then he will have it in mind that u love him but u had 2 do wat u had 2 do

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Tell him ur actually Lesbian.

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Yo, Jus tell dat nigga you ain't interested . Dat nigga wont get mad, He will continue hunting for anoda fish like we all do. I'm not interested won't break a nigga's heart I mean dat. we have strong mind , Jus sit's Bottom down and let him know whats up . I think you said 3 month , dat ain't much . End d story

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when he talks to u u dont answer at all. calls dnt pik, and if he's talking jus sleep off.wen u act boring and dumb even if he is dumber he wud get the message

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Ask ur friend how she'll feel if she were in d guy's shoes. I think its bad enough dat guys "use" girls, lets not do same

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@ POSTER/TAMIA:

GO WITH WHAT HOT-ANGEL SAID. CHECK D FIRST THING SHE SAID IN THIS TOPIC. IT'S IN I BELIEVE PAGE ONE(1).

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just give him one last Bleep then tell him the truth afterwards

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try and find a nice place 2 enjoy urself as uve never before while enjoying urself try nd tell him nicely dat its time u call it quit

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well now lets see, how about

"get off my case, you jerk, don't you get it?? "

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whats wrong in tellin a guy str8 up

And why the heck wld u date smone u dnt like

all the fakin and pretendin, it aint worth it

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BOYS THEY NEVER HAVE PROBLEM TO MAKE WOMEN SUFFER SO WHY SHOULD WE

just tell him  THIS 4 WORDS

                          I

                          DONT

                                        LIKE

                                     

                                                YOU

AND LEAVE HIM , 

                        IS BAD TO PLAY WITH SOMEBODYS FEELINGS

                                              GIRLFRIEND

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tell him face to face how u feee,

but pls dont type it or wirte it down for him

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the way he talks to u,and the way he do things for u

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How to break up with a man.

You are in a relationship with someone that you are no longer romantically interested in. It's time to be honest.

Difficulty: Hard

Time Required: 60 minutes

Here's How:

1. Get alone with him/her. Don't do this on the phone!

2. Relax. You are doing the right thing, s/he needs to know the truth.

3. Tell him/her that you feel this relationship on its current level needs to end.

4. Give him/her some time to let it sink in.

5. If s/he tries to convince you to give him/her another chance, listen to him/her.

6. Tell him/her that you've made up your mind.

7. Tell him/her at what level you would like to keep your relationship (acquaintences, never-seens, friends, etc).

8. Listen to his/her response. Respect his/her feelings about this new level

9. Let him/her go when s/he feels s/he needs to end the conversation.

Tips:

1. Be honest. Although breakups can be really hard on relationships, honesty will salvage any possible future friendship.

2. When you've realized that you are no longer interested in this person, let him/her know. Don't drag out a pointless relationship.

3. Look at this like taking off a band-aid. Would you rather do it fast or slow? Which one hurts more?

How to reject someone nicely

Unrequited love can be just as bad for the person doing the rejecting. Here is how to say 'no thanks' and still feel good about yourself.

Difficulty: Average

Time Required: 5 - 15 minutes

Here's How:

1. Don't lead the person to believe you may be interested.

2. Be polite and smile.

3. Get to the point quickly.

4. Tell them you appreciate their interest in you but your feelings toward them aren't the same.

5. Be nice; don't say you'd rather be friends if you have no intention of staying

6. Make it as painless as possible by being direct and NOT saying something like, 'if things were different.'

7. Don't over explain or make excuses -- you are not interested, plain and simple.

Tips:

1. You may think that being blunt seems mean but, in fact, it is much more mean to let somebody who doesn't have a chance with you think that they might.

2. Maintain eye contact, keep a calm and steady tone, smile and be polite.

3. Remember that the person being rejected may get angry and call you names -- don't take it personally, it is anger talking.

4. Remember that the person being rejected may act desperate to get you to change your mind -- don't give in to the antics.

All these from www.teenadvice.about.com

That site helps trust me.

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You can say you booked a hotel room with your boyfriend and you'll be staying there for the whole week.

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If u loved him, or feel u were only being infatuated, rather than love, simply tell him the reasons for which u want to call of the relationship.Tell him to his face, that for the following reasons, u just feel the relationship should be broken, b4 it gets too late, and things begin to go wrong.

SMS will do no good to the situation.It's a situation that needs a tete a tete.

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conscience!! lol lol lol lol lol lol mehn!! dat waz good!!! lol lol lol lol

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u can send an sms via ur mobile calling it off

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WOW,Idon't understand ooooo.

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start with "its not u its me"

i'm joking tell him straight forward,like loveth no need for corner corner words

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abi,no need corner corner words.

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well,tell him straight up instead of leading him on.

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Girls naturally know how to do that stuff.

R. Kelly said in one of his songs,

"when a woman's mind is made up, there's nothing you can do about it", and I want to add, " if she ever comes back, she's coming for your pocket"

Ehen! For me, I find it difficult to say, "stop seeing me"

cos I wouldn't like to see the hurt it her eyes.

I will simply keep my distance, and I know that will pass the message across.

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Hey what i noticed recently is that girls dont really like to give men away ticket like that especially if you have been of great help to them. In my own case, the girls that said no are still my big friends today and I enjoy their company anytime...Even after saying no, they cant stand my playful charm..so they keep comming back anytime they need that part of their life...so it really depends..if a girl say no to u and dont want u, it means that some things about u must be very hurtful..maybe u r too reserved and dont try to be manful enough...it is gona even make it worst if she has cried due to what u did to her..just get over it and smile next time u see her....she will not forget u that way..i know this cos i am experienced..

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hey it's very simple tell the guy u dont like him anymore, hes gonna get over it, even tho its going to hurt........one person cannot make a relationship work......me self don experience am b4

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Is not [compulsory for] you to tell him that you don't love him. I mean, with your actions the guy will notice what is on board. Well if he seems not to understand, I just give him [space]: no call, no visit. If he eventually calls I will tell him I am not interested anymore. It happens all the time.

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And remember this too:

1) If you need advice about how to deal with a woman (or girl) ask a woman.

2) If you need advice about how to deal with a man (or boy) ask a man!

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Tell him you already have a boyfriend, and that next time he's asking a girl out he should not use such crude language.

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